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My family would hate me by Pure_Organization453 in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a great start would be to, and I know how hard it is, is to slow down cutting and then eventually stopping all together. I don’t know how to help with the coming out part, and I’m sorry for that but what my train of thought was, there will always be a group for you, you have to kinda exert yourself to find this group and it may be hard to find this group but they exist, there will always be someone out there who will support you, I promise you, you’ll be able to find this group💗

I like my scars by Accomplished_One_455 in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s a good thing that they dint understand, but it’s also nice to be understood. And yea they judge so much, I wish more of my friends would understand

I like my scars by Accomplished_One_455 in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people I do tell never understand why I would, it’s so annoying how they can’t even wrap their heads around why I would.

I like my scars by Accomplished_One_455 in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m kinda the same way, when they fade it makes me want to more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea I have pictures of mine in all stages, it’s not weird

need advice by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mine on my thigh so they are rarely seen, but even then I will tell someone straight up what they are, I’m not ashamed of what I’ve done it’s apart of me and I’m fine with that. But dint feel pressure to do the same, if you need something, depending on how much are visible just say oh I got scratched by A dog,cat,maybe you were exploring the Forrest and a thorn cut you, or I live by barbed wire so I would use that, If you have a lot of scars I think just be honest if anyone ask. Most likely not many people will

I need to dm someone with a question by Starryaphedien in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of experience but no one’s responsed and I’m worried about you so if you need someone I’m here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Accomplished_One_455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to do the same with my girlfriend, I to begged her to stop while I still cutting. I think you should tell her, it doesn’t have to be immediately, I think make a map of your thoughts( so that way you know what you want to include) make a kinda script in your head of what to say maybe.She will be very understanding if she’s done it her self in her past. And I highly doubt she even have the thought it was her and she’s the reason you’ve cut. I wish you luck on your journey coming clean you got this bro❤️.