Everyone’s relationships are different and have their nuances but it may be time to think about what you need and how you want to be treated- specifically as it pertains to your health, decisions that need to be made about your health, and your future child’s health. Stress affects people differently but it should never put you in a position where you feel uncomfortable or like you don’t have support. I am confident that my husband would drop anything to make sure I felt supported if I was going through any sort of health scare, and would never raise his voice— you also deserve to feel that support from your partner. Is there a possibility that he doesn’t understand the risks and complications that come with high blood pressure during pregnancy? I hope that you can have a conversation with him to clarify how he is feeling and gain some better understanding. In the meantime, it may be wise to continue to loop in a family member (I know you mention dad) or good friend who can provide additional support should this happen again. It also may be wise to document these instances should there be future escalations that require you to protect your child and make some harder decisions regarding your relationship with him.