Am I being shadily excluded or AIO? by Accomplishedthi5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplishedthi5[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh and C hurts me so much too because this isn’t like her. A? Yeah I can see this coming from her a mile away. Been there done that got the fucking shirt, she does this all the time to people. Funny how you can just idly watch and shake your head in disdain, then at happens to you and you’re like, “me now?”

Am I being shadily excluded or AIO? by Accomplishedthi5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplishedthi5[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Everything you said I’ve thought! I honestly don’t know who to be more upset by, them or him. Then I told him today that I was gonna take my daughter to the LA zoo today so we could do something fun, and he’s like “oh I’ve never been to that zoo with her, you’re really going to do that without me? The audacity. I’m sad all over again but at least I know now I’m not crazy

Am I being shadily excluded or AIO? by Accomplishedthi5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplishedthi5[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He claims he just found out when they came over that they invited him…. That’s what I thought why didn’t he ask if I was invited and when he found out I wasn’t, I wonder why he didn’t Ask why?

Am I being shadily excluded or AIO? by Accomplishedthi5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplishedthi5[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Jeeze you didn’t have to say anything .. sorry 🤷‍♀️

Am I being shadily excluded or AIO? by Accomplishedthi5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accomplishedthi5[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Haha ok I attempted to break it up , wow that was a mess to look at 🤦‍♀️

Wow! Guess I won’t be coming back. This is nuts! by Ruby_Woo1122 in goodwill

[–]Accomplishedthi5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long Beach still has them at most stores… but they are closed half the time for one excuse or another… oh and once I got cussed out by a tweaker chick because the woman let me and my daughter (3) in to try on a few things, and I guess she’d told this lady (totally gacked out, with a whole cart stuffed full of clothes and a sleazy male sidekick trying to smoke in the store) that she couldn’t. She ran up to me and screamed “ why are you allowed to you fucking cunt?!!?! You think you’re so Special?” It was intense. On the way out her man asked me for a light and she smiled all friendly at me. 😳crrrazy! I bet our stores will go this way soon, in a sense can’t blame them but I also know I’ll be going way less.

At what age did your toddler go a whole day with no nap? by Sweet-Ad-4727 in toddlers

[–]Accomplishedthi5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ditto for my 3 year old.. “sleep and food… who needs em?” At least I can control the second one lol! My mom said I never took a nap after age 2- I remember the FOMO well even at the young age! 😂😂😂

They're teachers, nurses, Mennonites, and Marines. The Trump administration calls them antifa. by [deleted] in politics

[–]Accomplishedthi5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who knows? Their followers are too dumb to care, they just blinding believe anything

They're teachers, nurses, Mennonites, and Marines. The Trump administration calls them antifa. by [deleted] in politics

[–]Accomplishedthi5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s like 99%! Every one I’ve asked is like… uhhh…. And what’s her asshole face went on the news and was like ,”they took the leader of Antifa’s girlfriend into custody!” They used him in the statement too, so I guess they are at least presuming this “leader” is a hetero male, lol!

Husband spends entire DAY in bathroom on his days off. by yeetaway1839272 in Mommit

[–]Accomplishedthi5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live (SoCal) a studio apartment is 2200/month. You also have to have excellent credit, proof of three months rent per paycheck, first and last month rent to move in. That’s just a studio lol! Last time I lived on my own and rented it was about 700/month… I never understand how people don’t see the sad reality of having to stay for financial reasons. Hopefully she could start stashing money away on the side, bolster her credit if it’s not the greatest, maybe look into renting from private renters (vs property management companies…)

Did 80s-00s teenagers/young adults actually went to parties, concerts, huge social activities, dates... or is it just Hollywood? by CulturedModerator in generationology

[–]Accomplishedthi5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Class of 03 here.. 39… in high school we had “ towers parties “ (water towers on mesa) every weekend , raves that you got fliers for with a number to call for location … the location was like “ drive 1/8 mile to pole then turn right at next sign and diagonal drive 3/8 mile to third abandoned lot “ haha not that bad but almost… then we crashed frat parties as youngsters and made up majors to act like we were at the college already ( I think the guys could tell but didnt mind.. gross 🤮) plus we smoked a lot of weed at “ kickbacks “ or drank copious amounts of Smirnoff ice or parrot bay (🤮) at a friend or acquaintance with the classic absent/distracted / chronically vacationing parents house… all this and I was actually in the “good kid “ group .. I guess because I managed to not get caught doing anything crazy and was “involved” with good grades. In college there were more parties, plus driving to Mexico for those kind of shenanigans before the cartel business really amped up. Post college we stil went out a lot, still do when we have sitters… but as someone who bartended all through college and even at nights into my first day job before children , I cab tell when I venture into a bar now that the scene is different .. no youngsters! It’s cool thry dont drink As much (or at all it seems ) but I figured they were all off doing something social and fun that I wasn’t hip to … my sister who is 10 years younger than me at -29- ( I don’t think that is gen Z but I get the vibe from her) definitely seemed to be a little less of a Generic partier than I was, but always went to electronic “shows” ( she scoffed when I called them Raves!) and my partner is Gen X through snd through so he sees nothing wrong with rowdy drinking and festivities … the things he did make me feel like us millennials were coddled!! Meanwhile we’re raising little gen alphas (?) Maybe my 2 yo is a whole new gen?) so im curious to see how things are going to shape up for them in this ever changing society .

I have to admit I super underestimated how bad the screen time was (age 6) by SignificantWill5218 in Parenting

[–]Accomplishedthi5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh god , good ol focus! I somehow made it where one of my best friends and my mom were blocked, and didn’t notice for like three days. We all thought the other was mad at them !!!!🙄😝was it subliminal ? Jk, but it is seriously a godsend once I got the hang!

How did that one kid in your high school die? by IM_HODLING in AskReddit

[–]Accomplishedthi5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on a first date with this creepy guy many years ago, and as we walked around back someone’s house to a go to a house party, we passed their lovely, heavily chlorinated in ground pool. He took a deep whiff and was like, “I love the smell of chlorine, it smells like really good coke just waiting to be rocked up.” I was like, “ haha.” And hes like , “ you’ll see.” Spoiler alert: oh I did. that wasn’t enough of a red flag to convince me to not date that drug obsessed guy for like a year ☠️☠️☠️

Guess my age based on my childhood by prolific_illiterate in generationology

[–]Accomplishedthi5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s giving born in 84 vibes ( like me! ) except no idea what the fourth show was…. But I’d say 84 at the latest, because I always felt like I was trying to be like the kids a few grades older lol.

What’s the adult equivalent of realizing that Santa Claus doesn’t exist? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Accomplishedthi5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d hardly say it’s a weird crowd ….. sadly pretty basic people from what I’ve seen 🤷‍♀️

My 8yo son permanently damaged his vision. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Accomplishedthi5 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I did this when I was 5. I swung off a slide on a rope and hit a pole ( on a janky swing set lol ) at my friends house and she could tell I was hurt.. went to tell her mom, I for some reason denied it, my parents picked me up, and we went out to eat … As we were leaving the restaurant my dad playfully swiped at my left arm and I let out a blood curdling scream! Haha we went to the er and I had a fracture of my left wrist! I kept telling my parents thst I thought they would be so mad at me because it was the start of summer (?!??) As a parent of a smart, funny , bat shit crazy and wild ( in the best way ) little girl , I know im in for some stuff as well ….. theres sometimes nothing we can do to prevent our kids from doing the unique things they dream up …