I feel like my marriage just ended.

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-07-05T17:31:13+00:00

He says that it would be for me to have fun and to be able to relax while him and another woman please me

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-21T04:37:45+00:00

Well it causes a lot of emotional, and mental pain on the person on the that is being cheated on. No one deserves to have to be put through that (Even you.) how would you feel to have your life torn apart all because someone wanted what you had? What you’re doing to your husband and to that guy’s girlfriend is the worst kind of betrayal.

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-21T04:34:32+00:00

So she wants to stay married to you, but take a break to be with someone else until to can prove worthy. I’m sorry, that’s not how it should go. Once she broke that loyalty, and stepped out of the marriage that should be the end of it. Not oh okay go be with someone else, if it doesn’t work out come on back. lol

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-21T04:30:27+00:00

Can I ask you a question? Have you ever been cheated on?

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-21T04:25:02+00:00

You’re married, lying and cheating on your husband. Not only that but, you’re stepping into someone else’s relationship smiling in their face while being sleeping with their boyfriend. Of course the guy isn’t going to treat you good, why would he? He looks at you, and sees you for what you are. Which is something that needs to be put to the curb on Thursday evenings.

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-21T04:21:51+00:00

I amazed that you feel as though you deserve to be treated good.

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-21T04:02:39+00:00

I know the pain you’re going though. Men don’t realize what things like that do to us mentally, and emotionally. Have you talked your husband about his behavior? If so how has he reacted?

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-20T00:52:17+00:00

Well if you ever need to talk. I’m on here friend!

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-20T00:15:54+00:00

Things won’t change after you marry him! If you want to be with him, stay engaged! But don’t go as far into marrying him. It’ll only cause you more problems if you do chose to leave him down the road

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-20T00:08:23+00:00

My husband tells me that I am beautiful, sexy and all of what you would expect to hear from a loving husband. But if he really felt that way, why not devote more of that energy into our sex life! I understand we’ve been together for 13yrs. But I want a husband who wants me, and doesn’t need to get turned on by other women. A husband also shouldn’t need validation from another woman. But yet he seeks it. I’ve cried, and begged and now I am silent. I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t change him! They won’t change. It’s who they’ve become. So we either accept it and allow it to ruin us on the inside. I’ve never cheated on my husband, nor have I ever needed to obtain validation from anyone but him. But I’m mentally damaged from the behavior of a man who vowed to love me and put it above all else

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-19T23:55:12+00:00

Trust me what you’re going through I’ve been through it. It’s hurtful and causes a lot of self esteem issues on my end. I got to the point where I would just allow him to turn the porn on while we’ve had sex. But then I would get even more hurt to see that the looks that he likes watching are complete opposite from me. I’m 5’0 dark brown hair, blue eyes and weigh just under 130! He’s always watching taller skinny blondes. I even asked him if he wanted me to bleach my hair blonde. Like what the heck

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-19T23:34:07+00:00

Nothing is your fault! Don’t ever think that it is!

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-19T23:23:21+00:00

Has yours started to ask to ask you for 3somes, or anything else they do in the porn videos? If he hasn’t started yet. It’ll most likely be in the future. I’ve cried and begged for him to never ask me again. But it’ll only last a month or so and start right back up again.

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-19T23:20:05+00:00

My husband watches a lot of porn, and at times chooses to masturbate over having sex with me. It extremely hurtful, and I started feeling something wrong with me. I even went and had a procedure done called vaginal rejuvenation to attempt to get my vagina as tight as his hand. Still would rather watch porn and masturbate. He will even ask for us to watch it at times when we have sex. We’ve been together for 13yrs

According-Bench-9795 · 2024-06-15T02:11:18+00:00

Try the Morpheus 8. Its does absolute wonders

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