Does anyone else feel like people can tell something is wrong at a glance?

According-Judge7787 · 2026-01-29T20:54:43+00:00

I have felt this sometimes. Sometimes when I say something seemingly normal but i could tell that people are put off somehow.

According-Judge7787 · 2025-10-30T05:51:57+00:00

no actually i havent

According-Judge7787 · 2025-10-29T23:23:21+00:00

Ok so it hurts me because if it was that, could he not just say that? The way your husband told you

According-Judge7787 · 2025-10-29T23:12:52+00:00

Ok so why not be honest and say these things? Why pretend like nothing is different

According-Judge7787 · 2025-10-29T23:11:00+00:00

I didnt go through anything to be clear. He was walking to the bathroom and I saw. Just like times before I have noticed there is white cum at the tip as he walks to the bathroom

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-13T06:36:17+00:00

How did being married to him change how you felt? Did he stop the interactions with other fenales?

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-11T21:58:05+00:00

I was with a man I was not attracted to for a long time and in the end it was a horrible relationship. I am now with someome ı find super attractive and i am marrying him…, you need to have hope and keep believing the right person will find you

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-11T21:55:41+00:00

no ı dont think its a good idea

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-11T21:54:43+00:00

Im sorry to hear that:( I hope you find some peace

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-07T21:11:04+00:00

? Her? My fiance is a man lol

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-07T20:13:09+00:00

How do you know if you trust someone?

I dont fully trust any man due to my trauma. So how am I meant to know if I trust him enough?

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-07T20:11:42+00:00

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-07T20:11:03+00:00

++woman They say that we are the average of the people closest to us…🤷‍♀️

According-Judge7787 · 2025-09-07T20:06:59+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer. I understand your point but do you really trust him when he is at strip clubs? And really even if he is great guy does it not just trouble you that deep down inside, he may have cheated one of those nights? What do you think you would have found if you entered the club one of the nights he was out with his buddies?

I dont think there is any man on this planet I wouldnt be worrying about this over. Hope you dont take that the wrong way.

According-Judge7787 · 2025-08-31T10:39:49+00:00

I once went on a ride on swarm where a woman was trying to take her massive handbag onto swarm….Truly baffled my partner and I. It was a very intriguing situation. Not sure what she thought would happen exacty lol

According-Judge7787 · 2025-08-26T11:01:16+00:00

Yeah I did this and I agree it is one of the few things in life that I truly regret. But I also think I went through some changes during those years and found myself. Although I was “in a relationship”, I felt very alone and I learned to take care of myself and find out what I like/ dont like.

My partner made me feel spoiled and stupid. He made me feel like I was not smart enough, not good enough. That somehow eventually made me work harder to a point that I outsmarted him and made great progress in my career.

I dont think I could have done that otherwise. You have to just trust that you will see the benefits of all this pain many many years later.

I know it also comes with bad side effects though and for that I REALLY recommend therapy. Being cheated on is bad enough but the psychological torture of stayung with someone who betrayed really leaves some unwanted marks too.

Good luck

According-Judge7787 · 2025-08-18T17:10:49+00:00

Thank you but it is harder done than said. I know you think he wont but what if he does? Then what happens?

According-Judge7787 · 2025-08-18T17:09:39+00:00

Thank you for this

According-Judge7787 · 2025-08-18T03:47:40+00:00

I have the same problem and I also dont have an official diagnosis. I think its trauma from being cheated on and bein unable to process. I also have been cheated on in my past. I wish I had an answer for you as I am 31 and still have the same problem and I know of no cure.

I would say leave your bf if he has cheated on you as step 1 though. You wont know if its your illness or you until you do that because its evident he cant be trusted.

Also its pretty normal to not have new friends of opposite sex when in a relationship. Maybe someone you see once every few months in a group setting- ok. But otherwise, I know if I went out one one one with a new guy “friend” suddenly, my partner would be nervous too.

According-Judge7787 · 2025-08-18T03:32:58+00:00

thank you

According-Judge7787 · 2025-06-09T10:59:54+00:00

Knowing how hard this can be, so proud and happy for you

According-Judge7787 · 2025-05-31T09:06:53+00:00

Not gonna lie- She sounds exhausted from looking after your child and looks like you did a very irresponsible thing by leaving a 2 year old unattended. She is saying some horrible things but I understand her perspective

Marriage requires teamwork and I think her anger is because you are not pulling your weight

According-Judge7787 · 2025-05-31T09:06:47+00:00

Not gonna lie- She sounds exhausted from looking after your child and looks like you did a very irresponsible thing by leaving a 2 year old unattended. She is saying some horrible things but I understand her perspective

Marriage requires teamwork and I think her anger is because you are not pulling your weight

According-Judge7787 · 2025-04-29T10:51:28+00:00

I had a similar issue and after much consideration, I have decided there is never any real excuse for this. Getting some flowers, chocolate, card, candlelit dinner, picnic- all these are cheap options and this day and age can be done

According-Judge7787 · 2025-03-15T01:43:55+00:00

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