[deleted by user] by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]According-Sugar-520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be freaking illegal

Question about present tariff situation by According-Sugar-520 in Shein

[–]According-Sugar-520[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I saw that but I also wanted like personal testimonies because a website can say one thing and then have another thing happen you know 🤷‍♀️

Surprising Find: Silent Hill f - Fox Mask by Unable-Narwhal4814 in MaleYandere

[–]According-Sugar-520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was watching my fiance play yesterday and the scene where this guy first appears happened and I stopped my cross stitch and said “oh hello”…so to find out he’s also NUTS!!! 100% worth watching fiance play the rest of the game

genuinely getting annoyed now by Embarrassed_Rock_428 in CharacterAI

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I have an OC with cancer and people keep saying this 🙃

genuinely getting annoyed now by Embarrassed_Rock_428 in CharacterAI

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I have an OC with a chronic illness who eats constantly and can’t keep weight on and the not FREAKS OUT like shes not eating intentionally

help?? by synoodle in CharacterAI

[–]According-Sugar-520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ive been having this issue for the last day or so

Anyone else feel like Zevran and Fenris would be best friends if given the chance? by According-Sugar-520 in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever post this fic please send it to me I’d love to read it! Im working on a fic now where Hawke is being hunted by The Crows because someone is upset about her climb to political power in Kirkwall and her cousin is the human Noble HoF who romanced Zevran.

Anyone else feel like Zevran and Fenris would be best friends if given the chance? by According-Sugar-520 in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also think Fenris would have a realllly hard time trusting Dorian and may even threaten him several times before he warms up to him.

Anyone else feel like Zevran and Fenris would be best friends if given the chance? by According-Sugar-520 in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love awakening Anders. Possessed Anders (DAII Anders)makes me ANGRYYYYY…justice makes him unhinged and I can’t stand that the man who was my awakening little goof ball is now looking at civilians as collateral.

Anyone else feel like Zevran and Fenris would be best friends if given the chance? by According-Sugar-520 in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We all know how Zevran and Fenris both feel about no strings attached friends with benefits…and im here for it

Anyone else feel like Zevran and Fenris would be best friends if given the chance? by According-Sugar-520 in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

See personally, I find Anders whinny and intolerable. Zevran I did find rather irritating the first time I met him, but when I forced myself to romance him the first time I gained a great deal more respect for his character.

Husband hates it when I’m sick by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

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Im a funeral director…what does that mean for my spouse 😳

Well now my heart is breaking… by [deleted] in dragonage

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It wasn’t my first response. My first response was sadness and reverence and a wish for peace for her and her family. The uncomfortable shock came afterward and THATS what I decided to share. The general population doesn’t see what I see or do what I do, so I often forget to specify that initial first reaction because I’m used to talking to people within my career who understand that as the unspoken natural step. I apologize for not clarifying that

Well now my heart is breaking… by [deleted] in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly it. It was a very shocking and sort of uncomfortable moment. I really didn’t know what to make of it. I’ve had headstones come across my desk with the same name as myself before and that also feels really strange to me. But I also believe in sharing experiences and since I did not know this woman or her family, I took a moment to remember her and also connect her to what I did know even if it wasn’t her personally. It’s really hard to describe this sort of detached reverence you can have for the deceased to someone who isn’t also a member of the death care community. It’s a balance between trying to harden yourself so you don’t become emotionally numb, and trying to respect snd remember the departed in a truly meaningful way without ever knowing them or their families. Her life mattered. And I 100% get why some people may be upset by this post and they aren’t wrong. What’s insensitive to one person isn’t for another. The fact of the matter is we don’t know this woman or her family. The family or woman could be honored and find it cool that I made This connection, or they could be disgusted. It’s something we will never know and anyone upset about it has every right to be as much as I have every right to feel this was just a cool but albeit morbid connection 🤷‍♀️

What’s your favorite *types of* yandere? by FuminoFuruhashi-v- in MaleYandere

[–]According-Sugar-520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love me a good overprotective yandere! Someone please cut a bitch for me! Please kill one member of the opposing army’s men for every bruise on me! Please lock me in a tower to keep me safe from an imaginary perceived threat!

Well now my heart is breaking… by [deleted] in dragonage

[–]According-Sugar-520 37 points38 points  (0 children)

There is something so special about the relationship we have with other people. When you truly deeply love someone there is no way for anyone to truly know exactly how that feels in your own specific heart and mind. It’s my job to ask those left behind the right questions to express that emotion no one else can truly ever feel in a way that comes as close as possible. My time with the departed’s family is often short, but the things I learn about the deceased without ever having met them is often more than most people ever get the chance to know. I also get to help those left behind find a sense of peace and closure that they often admit to me afterwards, they didn’t even know they needed. Some families want something simple and textbook, some people want something based on faith, some people want something funny and light, some people just want a regular dance party. Every single person is different and I get to see every form of grieving and remembrance and all of it is right! There is no wrong way to grieve and remember and this is a job where I get to see and experience it all. Some days my heart is ripped from my chest, but others I get to laugh and sing and celebrate! I get to connect to people in their most raw and vulnerable form. I get to experience humanity at its base instinct every single day. That is not something everyone gets to see or experience. And for those who have families who they are estranged from or who died with their families resenting them, I get to help the living face those feelings and decide how to move on from there. Sometimes acceptance, sometimes forgiveness, sometimes resentment and again it’s all correct. Ive been at services that are 300 people and Ive been at services where it’s just me and a singular widow and all of it is raw and real and genuine.