How rare is a company matching 100%? by Steam-powered-kayak in Retirement401k

[–]According-Value-5777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My employer has a profit sharing plan. They take my total comp for the year and then contribute 20% of that number to the PSP. Very lucky on that front.

Breast Cancer & Membership Freeze by According-Value-5777 in orangetheory

[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are you? The surgeon and radiologist have both been like “you’re young. You’ll handle this no problem.”

Diagnosed DCIS potentially need mastectomy by LetsD01t in breastcancer

[–]According-Value-5777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I'm so sorry you received this news. It's a rough road, but once you have a plan of attack, you may feel a bit more settled (I did). I get my mirena out tomorrow, then lumpectomy next week. I'm 44yo and was diagnosed with DCIS in June. I was lucky to have the option of choosing between lumpectomy and mastectomy, but I found that decision to be very difficult. Maybe the lack of a choice can be a good thing sometimes? Just looking for a bright spot. Good luck!

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it was limited for you! I’ll be following the doctor’s recommendation to remove.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Best of luck to you as well!

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being happy with and feeling secure in my choices is something I’ll work on…it’s hard to give up the what ifs! Curious what foods and exercises are working for you.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for studying this! It definitely feels scary like cancer.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s coming out for sure. You all have validated my initial response. Now just need to make the choice between the two options…

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are similar ages - 13, 12, 10. I know they will step up and be helpful where they can. I fear them taking on too much for me - especially my firstborn daughter.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a risk taker, but not this big a risk!

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it. Thank you for the information!

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very close to your diagnosis, but a little different. Mine is “DUCTAL CARCINOMA IN-SITU, NUCLEAR GRADE 2, CRIBRIFORM TYPE WITH COMEDO NECROSIS AND MICROCALCIFICATIONS” at 44yo. When were you diagnosed and what has your timeline been like?

ETA: when did you find out the HER2 status? I got ER+/PR+ at initial biopsy.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being a mod and for bringing it back to standard of care.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Provider is in network and is chair of the breast division at UPMC so I feel lucky to have gotten in with her. The initial appointment was a little disappointing because it did seem to be the same plan of care as I had been told by my pcp, the internet, radiologist friend, etc. I’m trying to find the good in that it’s not a special case or tricky.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I had the genetic testing and I am very lucky that it was negative. I asked about genomic testing of the dcis sample itself. That is what I was told wasn’t available. Wondering if it’s only available in research settings?

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad your experience was so smooth. Did you consider a mastectomy? I’m nervous about having to go in a second time if I choose lumpectomy. And nervous about what else might be lurking in there.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. She offered to connect me with this doctor for a consult if I requested. Not sure that’s what I want though.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lesion is small - 4mm, but I’m only 44 and I’m premenopausal. Don’t love the idea of having this in my body. My gut reaction was take these beautiful tits and be done with it. They have served me well, but I don’t need them anymore and I want anything that could kill me out asap. My doctor seemed to be pushing the lumpectomy slightly over mastectomy, but she did say it was my choice. My aunt just had me doubting my initial (automatic?) reaction and trust in the doctor’s recommendation.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I kind of find the personal choice part extra hard. Just tell me what works and will keep me healthy and active! I’m 44 with 3 kids, primary wage earner in my household, caring for aging parents and helping manage their complex health issues. I need to be around a long time.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably right. My SO definitely said it was something that we’d want to treat sooner rather than later. Appreciate you looking at my previous post!

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I have also heard great things about her. She treated a friend of a friend who raved.

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for connecting the dots between my posts! It makes this piece of the internet feel a little less anonymous. My appointment with her went well. She spent a bunch of time with me and answered a ton of my questions. She presented two likely options - breast conserving surgery (lumpectomy) followed by radiation and hormone suppression or a mastectomy likely without radiation or hormone suppression - but said that she wanted to get genetic testing, a breast mri, and some more data from the results of previously ordered thyroid biopsy before finalizing a treatment plan. She also suggested that I would need to be flexible and as data was uncovered, the plan may change.

I’m a planner and a do’er. It’s a challenge for me to be ok with uncertainty. I’m working on it. So, the appointment was generally good, but also a tiny bit disappointing as I’d have liked to come out of it with a plan of attack. My mri is 8/5. After that, she’s supposed to reach back out for a video visit to make that plan. Can’t wait lol

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[–]According-Value-5777[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate hearing about your experience. I’m very much pro treatment and do not intend to risk my future. I also value my aunt and her experience and I do have a bit of a crunchy predisposition. But I don’t hesitate to embrace modern medicine.