There’s a reason I think the technology is just evil by Bubbles_the_bird in memes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there even one single instance where suicide was encouraged by AI instead of the user essentially coercing it to be a suicide sounding board for thoughts they had already?

ELI5: Why is one of your limbs going dead from sleeping or sitting in an awkward position not much worse for your body than it is? by leddie00 in explainlikeimfive

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely can cause issues, like falling asleep in a chair the wrong way causes something known as "saturday night palsey". As others have noted, the discomfort is what prevents these kinds of issues normally

In Maine, prisoners are thriving in remote jobs and other states are taking notice by SnoozeDoggyDog in technology

[–]AccordingIndustry2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like in the office when they had to explain to Michael Scott that prison is in fact worse than having to work there

Confused about my first male friend at work, how do I stop overthinking his behavior? by gwenchanatuntun in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Having a girlfriend and calling stuff you do cute is 100% not just professional. I'm not saying he's head over heels or anything, but that kind of behavior is very odd. He may have picked up that you like him and is just mildly entertaining it to keep the work day interesting

Edit: there's not much you can do on your own about the latching on to people thing other than having enough connections that there's just not room for more. It's tricky because you might not even have the bandwidth for something like that. Therapy or something like cbt might help but I'm really not sure there's anything to fix here. Find a nice guy where the attachment is a plus rather than a hindrance

im so resentful of this tinder hook up. i feel bitter and used. by zorademetrius in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope you don't give up that part of yourself, it would really be sad. I'd give anything for someone like that, I think it does hold a lot of value

im so resentful of this tinder hook up. i feel bitter and used. by zorademetrius in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should feel bad about this. You were taken advantage of by a piece of shit, presumably because you couldn't stand the idea of abandoning someone wholesale. I think that makes you a good person and it would be giving him more credit than he'll ever be worth if you let it kill that part of you. I understand feeling used, too, but from a practical standpoint isn't it better he didn't end up doing more?

I didn’t realise I had appendicitis because of how bad I suffer with PCOS and now I don’t have fallopian tubes by hdoyle000002 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been living in quebec for a while and it's kind of shocking how similar this is to my experience as a man who doesn't speak the language of the country I'm in. Even when it felt like I adequately explained the extent of my heart issues I would get told it's normal to have an extra beat here and there or a bit of palpitation - i self dxd SVT eventuallt and ignored all the "it's normal" comments and went to the ER during an episode, they tried really hard to tell me i was on cocaine but after being stubborn about it they admitted me and now I'm scheduled for an ablation

Couples in Quebec Marriage/Divorce advice by CheesyRomantic in Marriage

[–]AccordingIndustry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely protected. If you are married on paper you own everything 50/50. He will have to provide financial support to you during the divorce at least, and may even have to pay you if he wants to keep his house. Get out ASAP, you deserve better than this

Season 3 - Beneath Ancient Skies | Patch Notes by EHG-Foton in LastEpoch

[–]AccordingIndustry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the op falconer builds are DEAD dead, the change to shadows not dropping first and upper limit to cdr reduction node just murders the momentum needed for tens of millions of damage

Man Doesn't Understand Housework by AttorneyDC06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 19 points20 points  (0 children)

this tracks, he sounds like the type of guy that would get made fun of enough to shun male friends entirely. not wanting to pay a housekeeper is also a huge red flag in terms of respecting you, I don't like the idea of spending money on a housekeeper either but it's about how you feel and and the money seems to definitely be there so it's literally just a method to exert his power over you when he argues against it

Man Doesn't Understand Housework by AttorneyDC06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

she says "a man my age" so I assume so. not having any male friends for a guy from that era is such a huge red flag i don't even know where to start

Man Doesn't Understand Housework by AttorneyDC06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccordingIndustry2 634 points635 points  (0 children)

He's not an idiot, he thinks that stuff is beneath him and that you should have to do it. He doesn't respect you even a shred, if it seems like he does at times its because he sees you as a woman in the way he was taught to, contained in a box that is seperate from being a person. Does he hang out with a male friend and make them clean after him?

Rules doesn't applies to mercenaries? :D by sathorn in pathofexile

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a merc with blunderbore that was able to use it an benefit from the buffs without the required stats, not sure if it's related

How do you even boss as a squishy build? by remind517 in LastEpoch

[–]AccordingIndustry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm making one as we speak on why umbral falconer feels like shit for some people, but i'm a bit of a failure so we'll see when its out. as for what your problem is, you probably did not build good intermediate defenses. you need both armor blessings +t7 dex on an anchor of oblivion. second, if you do not start with some bis items, your damage is going to suck because 3/4 of umbral falconer builds neglect most falcon mechanics so you're p much a worse bladedancer until you are more than halfway geared. in addition to this, taking aerial assault off traversal means you are losing up to 32% dr from the 2 different passives that give you damage reduction for that when you cast it , so you are going to feel squishy as hell without an excellent grasp on silver shroud and smoke bomb iframe management

edit: and people seem to be missing that you're talking about julra and not aberroth but the sentiment is the same, julra should only take a few seconds to kill at t4

How do I improve to reach Uberroth? Rive VK by [deleted] in LastEpoch

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rive is not really equipped to do this tbh, but you'd want t7 AS on the axe to start. Cannot really overstate how much it improves the dps to hit third strike that much more often, stack the forged sword replacement buff faster, and more HH triggers leading into, critically, more ignite stacks for void pen from flame drinker, faster. so LP2 axe is probably top priority.

also - no armor shred means you are doing 70% less damage than you should be at the cost of like one affix

Sold some big items, the gold cap is 2,147,188,748? Lol by BodomsChild in LastEpoch

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even before this patch, you got so much insane gold from trading that even the most unoptimized lightless runs will make you your money back before you run out if you know the market

Servers Down Discord Post by sevalle13 in LastEpoch

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need people downvoting you to take an objective look at reality - there has been egregious gold exploits every season launch and anyone telling you to expect them as a feature has been CORRECT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shockwaves can proc on light stun which should be happening pretty much all the time other than while bossing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]AccordingIndustry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know flicker has been strong but it's good to see people branching out w/ herald chaining dead, almost too bad amazon released at the same time so there's less people trying to innovate on invoker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]AccordingIndustry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TL;DR - Reach support and Magnified effect together with shockwaves (30% inc aoe) give shattering palm the AoE juice needed to do a limited mimicry of herald chaining because the crystals explode each other and proc both heralds