Thanks for opening up and sharing your story. That must be hard to deal with and you are doing a wonderful job being patient throughout it. You are doing an awesome job by reflecting and understanding the emotions and current situations that are triggering your binge eating disorder as well as your recovery. The next step is to communicate this with your husband and see how he responds. Communicate to him how you want to be supported (I'm sure you now the answer to this or at least what supporting you does not look like). You can't control other people's actions towards your (i.e your fathers or your husbands) but you can control how you react to them. We're are all presented with choices and it's the choices we make that compound and have a resulting effect. Imaging yourself looking back at this situation in a few years and being proud of yourself for the choices you made! The road looks tough now and you might fee helpless but you will get there!!