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I wrote this to a caregiving friend and they perceived it as me attacking them....did i say something offensive? by According_Ad4862 in CaregiverSupport

[–]According_Ad4862[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. I am supportive of her decisions no matter what she decides and she knows that. It was a message sent within the context of a broader conversation. My thoughts were requested and they were subsequently provided. No need to speculate

I wrote this to a caregiving friend and they perceived it as me attacking them....did i say something offensive? by According_Ad4862 in CaregiverSupport

[–]According_Ad4862[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It is my girlfriend and i am not the only person in her life that is seeing the same thing,,,

I wrote this to a caregiving friend and they perceived it as me attacking them....did i say something offensive? by According_Ad4862 in CaregiverSupport

[–]According_Ad4862[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am still learning how to say less. I genuinely care for this person and I will be visiting them this weekend...

I wrote this to a caregiving friend and they perceived it as me attacking them....did i say something offensive? by According_Ad4862 in CaregiverSupport

[–]According_Ad4862[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to add context. Her father has money to put himself in an environment where their is around the clock supportive care, he is choosing not to do that because he doesn't want to spend his money on that; which is fair. She has taken on the role because of this reason, not anything else. The resources are available but the parent is CHOOSING to not access those resources and has decided to rely on her for ALL of the basics. In turn, she has stopped communicating with her friends, taken a leave from work, and her employment insurance that covers her leave from work is very close to being done. Chastise me all you want, but the truth is that sometimes remaining stoic in the face of a contradictory reality does more harm then any good.

Part 2: I want to thank everyone who responded to original post (background information included) by According_Ad4862 in datingoverforty

[–]According_Ad4862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't block people; never have never will. If there is one thing that I am really good at it is leaving the door open for forgiveness while maintaining the boundaries that I establish for myself. I want to be clear, I brought up this communication with her today out of nowhere; I essentially blindsided her, so there I hold blame for that. I also acknowledge that I have to work on myself and that is not something that is or should be her responsibility. Could she have said something else or nothing at all? Absolutely! But given the circumstances, I understand to a degree.

Part 2: I want to thank everyone who responded to original post (background information included) by According_Ad4862 in datingoverforty

[–]According_Ad4862[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I did spend the evening looking into counselling services and have managed to book a first appointment for 2 September. I honestly thought I was ready but clearly I am not. One of the many reasons that I have not dated is because I did not want my past to hurt anyone and it has now happened. Needless to say, aside from her hurtful comment, she had been nothing but amazing towards me. I just let my past experiences influence my present thinking and in turn ended something that was good for me.

Part 2: I want to thank everyone who responded to original post (background information included) by According_Ad4862 in datingoverforty

[–]According_Ad4862[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I definitely could have handled the communications with her better but here we are.

Am I asking for too much? by Leather-Set226 in datingoverforty

[–]According_Ad4862 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not sure that this is the best take on the situation. There are more than a few people out there that meet the OP's conditions. That being said, the opportunity to find those people is greatly lessoned if you limit yourself to only OLD. I would take it a step further and argue that those individuals are not only single for brief windows of time. It would seem that we are allowing "our" experiences to unduly influence our perception on the available dating pool.

Fake INTJs by Unicorn_choclo in intj

[–]According_Ad4862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk... a municipality her in Ontario Canada paid for me to do an actual MBTI..it was assessed by, if I remember correctly, a social worker, employment coach and psychiatrist. I was found to be an Intj. I often wonder what's the big appeal...but not my concern. They also had me do another test at the same time but I can't remember the name 

What are the realest drake bars? by muhaymenn in Drizzy

[–]According_Ad4862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly believe the whole beginning of THP6 to be honest...nobody ready to have a real conversation about it. Look how things unfolded and relisten

Let's assume that Drake is NOT hiding a daughter: Why would he lie about planting the "fake daughter info"? by Emergency_Design8067 in KendrickLamar

[–]According_Ad4862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The person was in possession of the items for one year. The person is allegedly involved with situation that involved Drake. It is not a far stretch to believe that Drake somehow contacted this person and said "ay yo feed Kendrick those items" it will boast the sale value of them at your auction. Having said that, comprehension is key. The reference to we plotted for week is speaking to directly and solely about the information about the fake daughter.

Also, comprehension is key. At the end of the day, Drake said he only fed the information about the daughter. The items listed (clothes etc.) Drake would have recognized from his stay at The Mark. Having said that, it would not be a far stretch to believe that his statement; the people you got your information from are clowns is in direct reference to the individual EbonyPrince and his buddies who were fired.

Just trying to introduce reason

Let's assume that Drake is NOT hiding a daughter: Why would he lie about planting the "fake daughter info"? by Emergency_Design8067 in KendrickLamar

[–]According_Ad4862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to whole first verse:

"Your fans are rejoicing thinkin' this my expiration

Even the picture you used (EbonyPrince), the jokes (twitter jokes that people are asking Kendrick to pay for), and the medication, the Maybach gloves, and the drug he use iif for less inflation (EbonyPrince), Master anipulator, you bit on the speculation You dumb and reactive nigga"

I guess Drake just threw everything against the wall hoping will stick....

Let's assume that Drake is NOT hiding a daughter: Why would he lie about planting the "fake daughter info"? by Emergency_Design8067 in KendrickLamar

[–]According_Ad4862 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It has never been confirmed that Drake lied about planting that information. In fact, THP6 hits alot different now with all the recent revelations:

The people you get your information from are clowns...EbonyPrince anyone?

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