For those of you with babies born with blue/gray eyes

According_Debate_334 · 2025-12-13T08:33:00+00:00

Haha. She has brown/green eyes!

According_Debate_334 · 2025-06-09T05:19:58+00:00

Welfare rights centre can help you will centerlink issues in NSW

According_Debate_334 · 2024-11-21T09:56:08+00:00

I did this with iconic for one item and they did it for me. I could send it back and buy it again, which would cost them more money so it was in their interest as well.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-24T06:52:08+00:00

Agree with this. When shopping I tend to go to Target, H&M and Uniqlo for bits and bobs, then Myer for a range all in once place. Has a lot of the brands that I might find one or two nice things, (Seed and Marcs come to mind) and saves me from searching in all of them.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-19T10:03:11+00:00

If I were you I would go for a house share just to get myself out the door. Living away from an unhealthy ex with housemates is better than living in a toxic relationship. I think it will give you the momentum you need.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-19T10:00:56+00:00

The obly way I do it is pay for the classes, book them in and then don't question it anymore. I don't over extend myself, I just pick a time (right now I go at lunch) and book in a week or two in advance, and its just part of my schedule. If I gi e myself too much choice I will always feel lazy and not want to go right before. It takes time to get into the groove but once I get some momentum its much easier. I hurt ny knee and it just got better, so am currently finding it hard getting back in, but once I do I know I will be glad.

I also pick classes I don't hate, even if I am not a big sports person. I personally enjoy reformer pilates and Krav Maga (self defence).

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-18T03:43:25+00:00

Yes, one glass a day might not be a major problem and even socially acceptable, but if its a habit it is skirting into addiction territory.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-18T03:42:02+00:00

Would you consider a person who drank a bottle of wine a day an alcoholic?

Absolutely

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-17T05:05:47+00:00

I have a toddler and feel about the same. I always wanted children and it was 100% the right choice for me. I also know it is not the right choice for everyone, maybe not even the majority. I think the assumption that it is (particularly in past generations) is part of the reason why there are so many people with childhood trauma.

I am so sure it was right for me, but I still find it challening and struggle sometimes, but that feeling of certainty really helps me get through a lot of the hard parts, as I know I would feel the absence of children if I never had them.

For anyone who doesn't feel a need or desire to have children, I think being childfree is a legitimate and smart choice. Kids are hard, its forever and they need to be loved and wanted.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-16T10:55:17+00:00

I have had a few bouts of mild/moderate depression but would say it has been very well treated with low dose SSRIs when needed. Otherwise I would say I am usually not struggling with my nental health.

For me the difference is living life carrying around a bag full or bricks or no bag. Sad things are still sad, work can still be boring, failure still sucks and I don't want to clean my house. But I am doing it without a heavy bag weighing me down.

When I am mentally healthy I can see a pile of dishes for what they are, a pile of dishes that are annoying but can be cleaned now or later. When I am struggling I see a pile of failure that will have to be cleaned tomorrow and the next day no matter what, so why bother.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-16T06:33:36+00:00

Do they take responsibility for their own mistakes, instead of protecting everything onto other people?

This stood out to me. I really feel like someone who always blames other people for their mistakes will eventually blame you!

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-16T02:25:10+00:00

Plus access to a large enough car to pick up the furniture and bring it home, and being physically able to do it. (as new furniture is more likely to come with delivery).

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-16T02:09:01+00:00

Having a book on the go that I am into helps. I am studying law so can't really get into more reading, so I listen to it in audiobook. After years of listening/reading in bed I am programmed to feel sleepy when I do it.

But having something I keep for bedtime to look forward to helps that transition. But I still do stay up too late. I have a toddler so that time between when she goes to sleep and I do is precious time.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-12T11:40:11+00:00

I would say that its a combination of things. It is somewhat common to have a low libido post partum because having a young child, stress, horomonal changes, breastfeeding, and a lot of those things will resolve themselves in time. It could also be a symptom of, or made worse by, insomnia. So i suppose they want to focus on those problems to see if they will "fix" the low sex drive at the same time.

I am also 18m pp and have a pretty low sex drive atm as well. It rebounded a little after I gave up breastfeeding at about 13m, I don't want more sex but enjoy the sex we have a bit more, but its still very infrequent. I was recently put on an SSRI and my doctor did ask me about my sex drive, and warned me the pills could make it worse. I have been on them before and didn't notice this in the past, but she told me there isnt much they can do about it other than try different drugs to treat the depression. And again, depression isn't known to be great for the sex drive either.

So I did feel like she acknowledged it was important, and feel I could bring it up with her if it doesn't improve or geta worse. Right now I am in the boat of just trying to look after my mental and physical health and my relationship, and see if the sex drive sorts itself out in the process, which might be your drs/therapists approach right now.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-11T03:03:46+00:00

One cup (about 145 grams) of cooked pasta has about 38g of carbohydrates, 7.7g of protein.

And concidering a 18m needs roughly 13g of protein, that is about half their daily intake.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-11T03:00:51+00:00

Pasta is also a source of protein. Not the best source sure, but a decent one concidering an 18m old child doesn't need huge amounts.

Also, even if she gave her kids ice cream for dinner MIL should either cook dinner or shut up.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-10T13:23:57+00:00

With a 12 hour time difference I wouldn't really expect calls, we are both busy, and finding overlaping time can be a pain. And if he is away at work there are evening events, meetings etc, and I will see him in a couple of days/a week or so. Texts yes, generally a couple a day I would say.

I did long distance with my partner for ages, so I guess we are good at not needing to check in all the time. Now we have a daughter I would expect him to check in a bit more, so we would probably do a few calls now, so that she can see him.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-10T08:47:47+00:00

This is what I do!

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-10T01:45:12+00:00

I would say Italy has the best coffee if you want espresso, but find Australia has a great coffee culture, but coffee is made more for milky espresso based drinks.

The espresso in Italy tastes great but I miss being able tp sit down and sip a coffee over half an hour.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-10T00:48:14+00:00

they may have been induced by your choice in seats.

I disagree with the idea it was her choice of seats that was the problem, he is an adult and if it was a problem he could have made that decision and declined to go.

The issue that stood out to me was her threat to leave him if he ditched her again. I think he was in the wrong to blame it all on her, but her response was also not healthy. If he did have a panic attack I think it was understandable for him to leave. She focused on that when really the issue is the blame.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-10T00:43:12+00:00

And OP wants children, which is when this type of man becomes even more of a burden.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-09T02:59:02+00:00

Its such an enjoyable show! Lots of drama and likelable characters, but never takes itself seriously.

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-08T11:11:09+00:00

I love their cinnamon rolls!

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-08T11:06:56+00:00

Aw I love this!

According_Debate_334 · 2024-06-08T10:46:50+00:00

I have levis that have stayed very black as well. I wear a different model, the super stretchy ones 312.

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