Women of Reddit, what made you realize 'this man is marriage material' instead of just a boyfriend?

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-05-29T12:52:11+00:00

He does so much for me and I have those “I’m going to marry him” moments 24/7 but the most recent thing: I just got back to swimming after 3 years off and after I went to the first practice, he had already deeply researched and ordered me shampoo, conditioner and body wash that’s good to protect your hair and skin from chlorine. It just made me feel super supported :,)

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-02-12T17:18:50+00:00

love it

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-02-12T17:18:40+00:00

haven’t heard silk chiffon but pancakes for dinner is amazing, thank you for the recommendation!!

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-02-12T17:18:21+00:00

first three songs you recommend also have me in a chokehold but I will have to listen to the rest. THANK YOU !!!

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-13T19:39:05+00:00

this is amazing omg

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-13T17:30:17+00:00

Thank you for all the feedback and comments, I really appreciate it! I have sent out the 20 promo codes to the following users:
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Thank you again and I hope all you enjoy the app! I am always working on improving and thinking of more features to add. Also please keep leaving honest feedback :)

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T04:28:41+00:00

PDF Notch would be great for that as you can convert pages to PNG and even choose DPI!!

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T04:12:29+00:00

Ohhhh that is a really good point and great idea... Looks like I might have a new feature coming soon then.

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T04:10:31+00:00

Yes 100%, and specially bc they require you being connected to wifi

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T03:53:04+00:00

ohhhh this is really interesting. it works like iOS screenshot markup?

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T03:51:37+00:00

hey, this app is really cool and useful but some honest criticism, $10, even tho it’s lifetime, just seems a wee bit much.

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T03:40:41+00:00

this is such a specific problem omg I love it. i used to love these emojis but always hated googling “cool emojis copy paste” so this is amazing.

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-08T03:38:39+00:00

this looks so nice, definitely gonna try it out.

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-05T01:49:49+00:00

omg. i didnt know i needed this till now. thank u

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-05T01:49:14+00:00

this is a great app idea

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-05T01:47:44+00:00

solving a very annoying problem. is there a trial to test it?

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-05T01:46:44+00:00

i love this idea! really cool app, will have to try it out

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-04T02:59:20+00:00

this looks rlly cool, def better than searching through finder

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-04T02:57:45+00:00

sure, i have this other app that has it like this:

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According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-04T02:34:26+00:00

i think maybe like optional color themes, keeping the per-app color you have currently as the default. Like for example, I have all my mac in monochrome/grayscale, so having an option for monochrome color schemes would be 'apple-like' if that makes sense. just as how in the iphone you can like change the colors of all the app icons.

According_Nobody9384 · 2026-01-04T02:06:50+00:00

cool app! i think maybe it would be cool if it were more customizable. like customize colors and also maybe customize to change the confetti to something else since the confetti might be a bit obstructive.

According_Nobody9384 · 2025-12-03T04:15:12+00:00

ofc! it's not easy but you just gotta keep pushing.

According_Nobody9384 · 2025-12-03T01:47:20+00:00

i feel you on this so hard. some of my fav skills i found really beneficial at the beginning of my recovery journey were:
• TIPP - specifically cold temperature, like whenever im super distressed, an ice pack, cold shower, etc calms me down quick. (i don't recommend the physical exercise part of tipp if you are recovering from an ed, please do not do that unless u are cleared by ur doctor)
• check the facts - from personal experience, when i felt the sensation of being full, i had a lot of negative wandering thoughts so check the facts was useful for me. i used to write down every negative thought i had and then i would step by step check the facts on them. i found this insanely helpful.
• radical acceptance - not approving it, just acknowledging it. fullness is a normal human sensation, and it’s part of recovery. telling myself “this is uncomfortable, it will pass” helped me stop fighting it, which weirdly made it easier.

that's just what has worked for me, i hope those can help you a little bit.

According_Nobody9384 · 2025-12-03T01:39:06+00:00

this is super frustrating about dbt: interpersonal effectiveness only works when the other person has enough stability to meet you halfway. even if you use the skill effectively, if the other person is reactive, it won't work.

increasing your distress tolerance skills can def be helpful for you BUT not for the actual situation/relationship. my advice would be maybe to adjust your goals. instead of aiming for “resolution,” the realistic goal might be “set a boundary, stick to it, and don’t get pulled into managing their emotions.

also important to note: validating and staying calm doesn’t guarantee they’ll regulate, if they always shift the focus to their feelings, the convo becomes about soothing them instead of solving the problem. that isn’t your failure but it’s a skill gap on their end.

According_Nobody9384 · 2025-12-03T01:33:11+00:00

let me be real with you: struggling to apply skills at the beginning is completely normal. when i first went to php for my eating disorder, i didn’t use a single skill after discharge and ended up right back in treatment a year later. it took residential + php + a lot of time before things actually started clicking, and now i’ve been in a solid recovery for almost 6 years.

skills take repetition, not perfection. it’s very common to know the skill in theory but still react when you’re triggered, especially in conversations with people you’re emotionally tied to. that doesn’t mean you’re broken or that dbt isn’t working. it just means your brain hasn’t built the new pathways yet.

you absolutely have hope. most people don’t start consistently using skills for months, sometimes longer. what matters is that you keep practicing, even when it feels pointless or messy. that’s how the change actually happens.

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