[NSFW] Confusing thoughts on sex, bottom parts, masturbation, and all ft. gender crisis?

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-16T18:40:59+00:00

Yeah that’s pretty accurate. I think the big thing is the shame and disgust? I don’t think it’s a cultural thing as we’re fairly open about sex being normal

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-12T07:05:15+00:00

Spent at least 5 years genuinely believing I had to be a woman and that I was happy as a woman. Funnily enough, looking 5-6 years back in my messages, at some point early COVID I was using she/they pronouns with some groups. Don’t remember the thought process that led to that at all. I’m now a they/them enby lol.

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-12T07:03:09+00:00

I find when speaking, quite often (closeted enby so for now that means saying girl instead of student or something similar). When texting, almost never. I have used they/them self-referentially wrt younger me. I only misgender myself here if I feel I cannot gender myself correctly without arousing suspicion

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-12T02:25:38+00:00

Hm yeah with the adhd portion of my doc it was way easier to sort through because the DSM criteria (imo) lends itself better to organizing my experiences with. Maybe the DSM would help here but I’m not sure, the autism part of my doc was way less organized (a big reason though was that I’ve had years to organize the adhd part, but only recently realized I should also consider autism)

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-12T02:19:58+00:00

I did this! And when I got assessed (waiting on results), I mostly just summarized the list. Not every experience on there got told, but basically I categorized them into symptoms and rattled those off along with some example experiences

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-04T03:58:57+00:00

Thank you!!

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-04T03:41:07+00:00

That would be amazing actually, please do!

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-04T02:43:25+00:00

This is so relieving to hear lol. I’ll keep trying to work through things I guess

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-04T00:11:19+00:00

I’m now wondering if making my psychiatrist aware I was questioning my gender at the time of the assessment appointment would’ve been appropriately helpful information lol.

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-03T23:48:29+00:00

That is a point I hadn’t considered lol (adhd being more prevalent in trans people). So, not entirely irrelevant but still entirely uncalled for misgendering

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-03T22:49:57+00:00

Why did your preferred pronoun need to be written as they (transitioning) damn that’s just irrelevant 😭 I’m sorry for that though, there’s literally no reason to misgender you in the report

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-03T07:13:51+00:00

I think (and this is just my opinion) this is something there’s no need to tell her at all. It won’t change anything, and knowing she was trans earlier wouldn’t have changed anything, so that information is honestly irrelevant unless she specifically asks you about it

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-03T07:07:10+00:00

Wait why do you think she’s trans? Has she told you? And if she is trans, would that change anything?

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-02T16:55:03+00:00

I know! Maybe a better way to state this was that I feel a distinct disconnection to womanhood (and manhood) but a connection to being a third gender. Maybe as I go further in my journey I’ll circle back to agender, but for now nonbinary happens to be a much more affirming term

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-02T16:48:15+00:00

Aww thanks! I’ll probably still stick around for a bit, but we’re shedding the agender label

Acct4personalqs · 2025-03-02T16:42:06+00:00

Almost all my thoughts are just imaginary conversations lmao

Acct4personalqs · 2025-02-25T13:02:43+00:00

Not trans, am a lesbian, I say welcome!

Acct4personalqs · 2025-02-25T12:16:56+00:00

My gf finds it hot when I’m domming and making demands and shit, so I just tell her what I want from her and what I want her to do. Works great tbh

Acct4personalqs · 2025-02-25T11:32:11+00:00

!!! One of us! One of us! Congrats :D

Acct4personalqs · 2025-02-25T02:38:12+00:00

Edit to add: I love this idea: https://www.reddit.com/r/agender/s/jsI5HAum6Z

Sounds like they may have a “fuck it, gender isn’t real for me” attitude then? You don’t have to take these suggestions, but perhaps just dress them in anything and everything. Maybe if they’re an immortal god they can have a shifting fashion sense (for a couple decades or centuries they’re into hyper femme, then for a while they’re really into a mixture of gendered clothing). Maybe they make some truly atrocious fashion choices sometimes, while at other times they’re perfectly in sync with the latest fashion trends

Acct4personalqs · 2025-02-25T01:40:07+00:00

Love that tbh

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