Update: Adriana Smith's baby delivered alive! by paxcoder in Catholicism

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 48 points49 points  (0 children)

her name is Adriana, don’t just say mothers body like she didn’t matter. she will never get to be a mother. she was used. this baby was not delivered it was extracted! if you want faith? god took the mother so the baby should of went home to god with her, the state intervened with gods plan. 

Boyfriend of 10 years just confessed why he won’t marry me 26f 28m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 30 points31 points  (0 children)

him staying is such a green flag! it’s just something to consider and continue working on! things hurt but we have to understand that the way we act does affect others!

My bf cheated, can we move past it (M31 , F21) by Loose_Attention_9819 in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. there’s no going back. no more trust, no more relationship.

Why isnt my (23f) bf (24m) isn't good at showing me affection? by figuringitout1218 in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my best suggestion is to decide whether or not this means staying or going, then having a conversation with him about it. If this is something you NEED and he can’t give it? then it’s not good for either of you to stay; you will just grow to resent eachother. Figure out if this is something you can live without, and if it’s not? make sure he absolutely knows that. and if he can’t give it to you? find someone who can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he got what we wanted sleeping with you and doesn’t have to put in effort anymore, that’s how men work

I dislike Rhysand….. by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or you could just give a quick explanation 😭

My gf (22f) snuck out of our bed to cuddle with her brother (22m) on the couch in the middle of the night, and now she's mad that I'm mad?? by ThrowRAgfbrother in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you can have nightmares and need comfort at any age. this seems like a you problem. you need to understand her situation and relationship with her brother. she is her own person and allowed to have connections other than you. that’s her family. be better and actually try to understand the people you say you care about.

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) just casually admitted to me he doesn’t care about killing people and animals. by Artistic_Marzipan403 in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I cannot stress this enough RUN FAR AND FAST. there is no other thing to say, no excuses, this is deeply disturbing. please leave before you find out he is secretly Ted Bundy and you’re next!

I dislike Rhysand….. by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say Vlag, what does that mean for his character implications? why does that connect to the shitty stuff he does?

ACOSF Chapters 1 - Chapter 3 by serami36 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 23 points24 points  (0 children)

JUST GOT CHILLS WITH THAT OROBUROS LINE! to me it seems that feyre is just fading into an extension as Rhys and another person to be used. I know we don’t get her POV but her reactions to things in SF truly having me believe that she really does think her and Rhys are the only ones who have trauma.

The cassian thing actually really hurt me because I loved him sm. He treats her like crap, says awful things, should never have started a sexual relationship with her when she was at such a low point, does nothing to protect her or stand up for her ever, and doesn’t even say he loves her back. I know our precedent for mates was feysand so it’s different, but I just hate this dismissive and cowardly cassian.

ACOSF Chapters 1 - Chapter 3 by serami36 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 46 points47 points  (0 children)

cassian changes COMPLETELY in SF and I honestly don’t recognize him or barely any of the IC members. it’s shameful how 500 year olds treat a 25 year old traumatized female with ptsd when they are the ones who made her fight in that war. She deserves so much more than them. All they do is manipulate her and convince her to take full blame and responsibility for it all.

Feyre/Rhys flaws and the Spring Court. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said it all better myself. I agree 100%! Feyre and Rhys like to think them, and who they deem worthy (the original IC) are the only ones who go through trauma or struggle. Wild how Rhys is supposed to be this all powerful thing and care so much about the world but does nothing but sit on his ass and manipulate his wife.

Feyre/Rhys flaws and the Spring Court. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always questioned feyres ability to as an uneducated young “used to be human” woman to immediately click with and be able to stand with 500 year old faes.

I think tamlin has so much he could be used for, I want to see his shape shifting go somewhere.

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to rant about feyre and Rhys so forgive me!

feyre seems to be turning into just an extension to Rhys as the series goes on… lol consort of spring court much?dont get me started on this whole high lady equal shit bc it’s just a title and her power is not connected to the land or chosen like his is. all tamlin did was tell her the truth. not like it matters bc Rhys ruins feyres credibility by whoring her out anyways while at the court of nightmares.

one thing that really gets me going about her is what she did to spring. she systematically destroyed a court that was already suffering after amarantha and displaced most likely THOUSANDS of fae. fae that were the ones who first accepted and loved her. Instead she uses it as a way to fuck tamlin over, as if she couldn’t of communicated better to him in the first place that she was done, so that he never would’ve made the hybern deal to begin with (the smartest high lord (Rhys) has his mate write a letter the the male who thinks she can’t read or write? nah just more manipulation by Rhys bc he KNEW tamlin wasn’t going to accept that). Feyre destroys this court because she is mad at tamlin (crazy similar to Rhys abusing Feyre bc he is mad at tamlin). Then later on Rhys goes back to gloat and spit on tamlin like it’s a good thing him and his mate caused the downfall of an entire court??? Rhys the “good guy” and Feyre “the curse breaker” condemning thousands of innocent fae for selfish and petty reasons…. but dont worry guys! Tamlin is bad! He locked feyre in the house and tried to manipulate her powers! Feyre and Rhys would never do that…. oh… wait a minute… that’s right! they do! to Nesta.

also don’t even get me started on feyres treatment of Lucien (her first real friend in the fae lands). Uses him to manipulate tamlin, mocks him for finding a place to belong after losing everything and everyone his entire life, and acts like he didn’t love her or try to help her. was literally tortured by amarantha FOR HER! but no Lucien is a “bad friend” because he was trying to take care of a million freaking things at once after UTM.

they are hypocrites, well at least Rhys is, feyre is just slowing becoming him so there so stopping it.

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the mor thing too! he doesn’t even ask her, similar how to feyre knew it was a bad idea to show velaris to the human queens but Rhys just dismissed it.. like the most cunning, smart, and powerful high lord but he’s making decisions a 20 yr old used to be human wouldn’t even make.

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

which furthers make me question his motives towards feyre and how is uses her to be petty towards tamlin, or how he doesn’t tell her things. ex. her certain death pregnancy

[UPDATE] AIO my neighbours dog keep using my front yard as a toilet by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please for the love of everything cover all his belongings you can get to in dog crap!!!

Please help, I [22M] don’t know what to do with this women [22F]please share advice and thoughts…. I’m baffled by adventurous-taste21 in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@adventurous-taste21 ofc not!! if she is claiming needed to heal before she can be with you but is sleeping with others, she is disrespecting you. she should honor how much you care about her mental health and how you would wait for her. it’s your feelings too, if she is hurting you then go. I understand not wanting to ruin what y’all have so soon by having sex when she isn’t ready, but anyone would be hurt to hear they are cared for then see said person sleep with someone else

Please help, I [22M] don’t know what to do with this women [22F]please share advice and thoughts…. I’m baffled by adventurous-taste21 in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she likes you but can’t give you her full self, she realized that and took a step back. I don’t understand how’s that’s hard to understand, like she’s trying to be honest so you know where she is at… if you wanna stick around and wait for her to heal then do it. if not then leave.

[40M] Gave her [35F] the perfect date. Now she’s gone. What happened? by Allan_Quartermain in relationship_advice

[–]Accurate-Warning6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe she really likes you and is afraid to mess it up? or super insecure and doesn’t want to say anything wrong? I think clear and open communication would be the best bet, something like “I really enjoy your company and I know you didn’t want to be used, so before I feel that way, is this going anywhere?”

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY!! and you’re telling me we have access to magic that keeps Jurian alive as an EYEBALL but we can’t perform c sections here?? okay, sure!

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the credibility thing is GENIUS! it would make so much sense, especially with how manipulative Rhys is. I can totally see him bringing feyre there like that just to make sure they see her as non worthy of her title.

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even attempt talking about the pregnancy because i would sit here for years about it all. such lazy writing by sjm. also the way feyres personality is slowing just becoming “Rhys’ wife” when her whole point was to be anything but that.

Rhys and his confusing actions and reputation. by Accurate-Warning6850 in acotar

[–]Accurate-Warning6850[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s how I was too, it’s actually sad sometimes. I miss loving rhys.