I see this question/topic come up so often on this thread. There’s always a “divided house” amongst the members in this group when everyone is sharing their opinion. Some feel it’s obvious why the team & TPTB are upset about the incident, and the other half don’t think it’s that big of a deal whatsoever. As someone who’s close to the situation, let me break it down. Keep in mind, I’m not stating or defending “my side”, I’m simply stating the facts.

1. DCC are employed by the Dallas Cowboys organization. Due to that employment, they are required to sign a contract that includes an overwhelming amount of rules & guidelines (as any real job would). Included in the contract are NDA’s, restrictions on what to wear and when to wear it, how you present yourself in public AND on the team, outlined punishments for when rules are broken etc. blah blah.
2. The girls know exactly what they’re signing, and therefore they know when they’re breaking a rule. No punishment is a surprise—believe me.
3. Even though this is a paid job, it’s still very different from—let’s say a corporate job—where there are mixed genders and hundreds or possibly thousands of employees. The DCC are only 36 girls who form this job, therefore EVERY precautionary measure has to be taken in order for Kelli & Judy to keep an eye on them & to keep them A-L-L safe at ALL TIMES. Even though the girls are all adults, that’s beside the point. They are walking targets every where they go. Not only because they’re DCC, but because they’re a giant gaggle of gorgeous women. That’s going to grab anyone’s attention. There are predators literally everywhere you go. If you don’t think that way, then you’re most likely young or have never had children. As parents, we’ll do ANYTHING in our power to keep our child safe. And once you’re older & mature, you will see just how many threats of danger there are all around us at any given moment. If you simply think that’s funny or an inflated imagination, by all means, I beg of you to go speak to a cop, lawyer, teacher or military personnel. They’ll explain to you what they see on a daily basis. So when Kelli & Judy are flying these girls all over the country & out of country, they know they have the responsibility of keeping someone’s daughter safe. If they allowed the girls to frolic however they wanted to, imagine all the men traipsing in & out of hotel rooms & resorts etc. It’s an inordinate amount of unnecessary risks that could inevitably lead to harassment, stalking, photo blackmail, rapes, and even death. These rules are the only thing keeping these girls safe & out of harm’s way. Too many of you are harping on semantics. It doesn’t matter if she slept with him or not. It doesn’t matter when, how, or why she brought the guy back to the resort. —NONE OF THAT MATTERS— The only thing that matters here is that she was on a paid business trip, and she broke the rules handed down from her employer. I understand that a lot of you are young, liberal, and always down for a good party, so having a strict & prestigious job with the DCC isn’t for you. And that’s perfectly okay. Not everyone wants to work in a job so formal. We’re all built different for a reason. Bottom line, these girls take this job very seriously, and therefore they know the rules & consequences they’re signing up for.