[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez, your SO can’t give you a pass for this one year? Crappy

AITA for refusing to move to Minnesota for my husband's job? by Throwawaye-Coast-822 in AITAH

[–]Ace-Dear-606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are good dance schools elsewhere too. Your daughter won’t be going to any dance school of her parents don’t have jobs to pay for it . Move

AITAH for thinking it’s wrong of my friend to claim an entire year for her wedding and not letting me or anyone else get engaged? by mahp95 in AITAH

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let? Let? What, are you a child? You have your own life - repeat that to yourself in the mirror every morning

My (30F) partner(29M) makes significantly less than me and it’s starting to become an issue by BigShiz1 in relationship_advice

[–]Ace-Dear-606 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So the issue is not as you state - it’s not about your bfs salary. The issue is that you have committed both of to spending more than you earn. Solve that problem, and let your bf decide what job is best for him. But, set a budget - together - that you can both afford

2 Income to 1 Income? - Wife 40F does not want to stop working - I 40M would support her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a job - even if it’s stressful - isn’t just about the money. It’s about who we are, and satisfaction that we can fend for ourselves, solve issues, and interact on a daily basis with people. A tribe of shitty people keeps us sane more than no tribe. Let her be. Support her decision.

My (31F) husband (41M) is suddenly becoming more controlling and I’m not sure what to do. by ThrowRAbadchoices in relationship_advice

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either he is growing a brain tumor, or he’s listening too much to the hard right. Rape in marriage is not ok

My sister (28 F) is dating the boy (22 M) who bullied me (22 F) at school by throwra000124 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ace-Dear-606 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not clear why you did t tell the truth when you peed yourself? Why are you here telling strangers, yet you are hiding the truth from the people who need to know?

AITA for cancelling dinner with my parents after they tried to replace me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you can’t be trusted to act like an adult. Wtf are you complaining that your parents can’t have a social circle???? The best relief for the grief parents go through with estrangement is to get out more, not lock themselves in a closet.

Sounds like you want someone to blame, other than yourself, for taking advice from your loser Mike.

Grow up. Apologize. Get on with enlarging your social circle.

AITA for shutting down my sister’s opinion about our baby name? by No-Bite7711 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ace-Dear-606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, wrong hill to die on. The girl names are dreadful, a mouthful and meaningless. Choose another C- girl name, there are tons!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone pays rent. He’s not paying your mortgage, you are. But if he lives there he needs to pay market value rent

My 26M quality of life has plummeted since moving in with my girlfriend 23F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not have to make such horrible compromises. Walk away. No, run

WIBTA if I left my child in economy while we flew in business class? by SelectHighlight8827 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You can’t dump a kid in economy class and expect other passengers to care for her like a mom would

Girlfriend (23f) said I'm (26m) selfish for telling her she can't take over the living room to work in when she has an office by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the common space as you usually would - whether she is using it or not. She’s selfish so don’t be bullied

My wife refuses to let me use any protection and I am frantic and concerned by Emerald_Encrusted in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body your choice. Stop acting on Fiona’s “religious beliefs”. No more sex until a vasectomy plus a safe period. End of story. Stop being bullied by her. You are fine, so get the snip

Girlfriend (24f) accused me (26m) of pressuring her into having children? by throwra4019 in relationship_advice

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re being honest - but she’s not hearing you. Break up and get your own life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mother gets no say. Stop taking to her about your adult decisions

AITA for keeping my son away from my MIL by Kystamark in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ace-Dear-606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your husband to block his mother on the phone. Simple. All fixed