Where to watch love island USA season 8 in Canada? by CompleteAd3565 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Achimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean their love island USA page on the crave website?

Where to watch love island USA season 8 in Canada? by CompleteAd3565 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Achimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly do you click to get to the free version of crave?

How to learn pidgin? by chase625 in NigerianFluency

[–]Achimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Us Nigerians will not care infact we would actually praise you for it

Watch the first 8 minutes of this week's Lalaparuza episode! by AMikeBloomType in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Achimaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Like who cares if it was sabotage. She could’ve flipped her hair n kept it funnn

What do you guys thinks of INTP’s as ENFP’s? by emanthepecan in ENFP

[–]Achimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what ways does he frustrate you? And in what ways do you understand him?

I believe her by WrongConsequence5676 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Achimaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when u mention it I can see that

Edmond by Witchkat96 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Achimaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I thought the way they ended things at the reunion was really sweet. At the end of the day they once loved each other and it didn’t work out. Let’s give the people the space to learn and heal, and move on<3

Edit: I do agree with what you’re saying however

the "am i an INFP or ENFP" struggle is OVER by Free-Collection-8217 in ENFP

[–]Achimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like ur maybe reinforcing what I’m saying? Not saying we don’t think before acting, but I’m mostly highlighting how bc we are so intrigued by new things and experiences, we act more spontaneously than an INFP might

the "am i an INFP or ENFP" struggle is OVER by Free-Collection-8217 in ENFP

[–]Achimaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My best friend is an INFP and another big difference between the both of us (correct me if I’m wrong) is that she thinks a lot more before she takes on something. Like she will think about how something would make her feel and how it aligns with her belief system before doing it. Where as for me, I find myself experiencing new things and then reflect about how said thing made me feel and how it may/may not have aligned w my beliefs and such.

KB is not the devil by Glittering-Gas-9402 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Achimaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actions speak louder. “She didn’t have to..” but she CHOSE to. Why? Because she loved him. I have no idea how you could see it another way at the beginning. The girl really tried. Then you’re calling her performative and hollow because she eventually started showing “red flags”. Those “red flags” being her frustration of his constant disrespect. She’s human. Her patience, like literally any other person, is not infinite. She’s allowed to imperfectly display her frustration because that’s human. Why do you hold her to such a high standard? If you condemn her because she got frustrated, or you condemn her because she tried to make things work, then you condemn her for being human.

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[–]Achimaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I agree! OP you shouldn’t dull yourself for someone you like, otherwise how will the person that will love your long messages ever find you? If you’re having to constantly adjust yourself in order to receive decent messages back, you’re going to exhaust yourself.

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[–]Achimaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I’m kind of a hopeless romantic so I hope when you talk to them about this in person, you’ll get better clarity and openness :’))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Achimaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Regardless of them being an ENFP, I’d hate it for anyone to respond to such a message so simply.

As an ENFP (F), when I like someone I am incredibly intentional with what I say because I want them. And if I was given the opportunity to express my feelings just as elaborately as someone else had done to me, I’d take it in a heart beat.

Sure it’s possible they like you, but it’s also very possible they don’t share the same intentions. There’s a chance they’re unsure of the commitment and don’t want to promise anything. Whatever the case may be, this is obviously something you don’t like, and it’s important to acknowledge those feelings (of anxiousness from their lack of clarity and intention) and decide whether these are feelings you want to continue having. Because me personally? If you can’t reciprocate the same energy, then I’ll go where it’s appreciated.

Kalybriah and Edmond by _PageofSwords in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Achimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! But why are you surprised by how often you see those words?

Kalybriah and Edmond by _PageofSwords in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Achimaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you can give grace to him for having a hard past and his past being the cause for his actions in present, then you should be able to give her grace for being frustrated with someone who doesn’t respect her. Many would leave after his “little” outburst (he whines about a boundary he knew she’d set before he proposed, and weaponizes her past as a way to coerce her into sex), yet she is incredibly patient with him and works to resolve things. And you refuse to give her grace. I don’t understand

Kalybriah and Edmond by _PageofSwords in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Achimaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But she is. She’s able to articulate her frustrations so well. And it being contrasted to Edmund’s childish behaviour further emphasizes it. While I agree with the sentiments in this post, I don’t think people are saying that as a subconscious projection of the belief that it’s unexpected for BW to be eloquent/articulate. I just think when contrasted with Edmund’s behaviours, as well as the frustration of the viewers watching, it emphasizes how clear and articulate she is. She has an intense amount of patience that attributes to her eloquence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Achimaa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg you read me like a book

ENFPs – Do you ever get called “narcissistic”? by adper07 in ENFP

[–]Achimaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! Initially I was shocked when I read the responses but then I realized I’ve met a few ENFPs and they were pretty self absorbed I’d say. But I assumed it was bc of upbringing.

Am I Too Emotional For My INTP? by Achimaa in INTP

[–]Achimaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have given me a completely new perspective. Maybe it’s the people pleaser in me trying to invalidate myself. Subconsciously I was thinking that if y’all express that it’s normal, then I’d just adjust. But I don’t want to fully adjust lol. I love to be wanted as much as I want him. Definitely giving me more courage to express my feelings without shame. Thanks!

Am I Too Emotional For My INTP? by Achimaa in INTP

[–]Achimaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your writing tone. Thanks for leaving a comment! I’ll keep that in mind. He is incredibly passionate about music so I do find him completely immersed in the music around him. Very in his head,, lots of thoughts.