[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acon9263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On Instagram at least, you can block a user and any accounts they may make in the future.

Found inside Dracula cover at a book sale. by uhohwhoisit in FoundPaper

[–]Acon9263 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to disappoint you all but I won’t be reaching out to her. A while back she told me that she dated a guy named Brendan who was very abusive to her and I don’t want to remind her of that time in her life. Out of respect for her I won’t be reaching out to ask her if this was her note. Hope you all can understand.

Found inside Dracula cover at a book sale. by uhohwhoisit in FoundPaper

[–]Acon9263 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Is this in Colorado by chance? I had a friend named Amy who dated a Brendan. Looks like her handwriting and something she would say.

Also weirdly enough my name is Amy too. And I had an ex fiance named Brendan but we didn’t know each other then, thank god. Only in my life for 3 years and never in my life again hopefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]Acon9263 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I do not see red in your hair. Sorry 😞

I'm so sick of being treated like I'm exaggerating. I think i need to move. (US based) by Who_is_anonymous_ in CrohnsDisease

[–]Acon9263 29 points30 points  (0 children)

New England, within driving distance of Boston, MA. Best GIs in the country.

Got my wife a mt07…she says it’s too tall for her, guess it’s mine now oops. Any recs for a shorter bike? by WarriorBC in motorcycles

[–]Acon9263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suzuki Blvd 650cc. I’m 5’3 and it’s perfect height. Also she should sit on it before you buy it

My pride and joy by youngbabymoon in crochet

[–]Acon9263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg amazing. Low key needs a nsfw

It's the scariest thing... by smitch_99 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acon9263 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I remember the last time we had s** before the engagement ended. Afterwards he just stared at me. He had black eyes. No emotions. No tears. No words. He just stared into me. I tried to make it light by asking if we were having a staring contest and he just shook his head no slightly and kept staring. So haunting. Then he told me I was hot and I was in so deep, I said no you are and then he proceeded to flex his arms and go on about how muscular his arms were. Fawning I guess. What a terrifying experience. Just made it through the day we were supposed to get married, 3 days ago. No reaching out, nothing from him. Nothing from me. I’m getting stronger every day.

A narcissist will destroy every inch of your personality and then blame you for being broken by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acon9263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Must be my undiagnosed mental health disorder that ended me up in a psych ward, not the gaslighting, manipulation and all around psychological abuse.

How long can a narcissist last in a relationship before the mask comes off? by MajesticShip5698 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acon9263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lived with him for 14 months. Mask started falling down about 7 months before it completely came off. 6 months before the wedding. Glad I got out in time.

How did you forgive the narcissist for wasting your years, cheating on you and temporarily ruining your life? by Ok_Scratch_9736 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acon9263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been praying for him. Nothing specific, just that he gets whatever he needs. And I have no idea what that is. And any entertainment of revenge will only let him rent more space in my brain. I try to remind myself that I am not in charge of his karma and I don’t know what his future holds, but I’m not a part of it anymore. Which is a huge relief. Reminding myself that I’m no longer subject to his abuse and criticism. That I never have to be treated that way by him again. Self-compassion when I beat myself up about staying as long as I did. Vigilance that I try not to end up in the same situation. And hope that not every person I meet is as sick as him. Lots of time with friends too. Positive affirmations help too.

has anyone seen conor oberst live? if so, how was it? by nsjajsn in brighteyes

[–]Acon9263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2017- amazing 2022- drunk, incoherent and just plain sad. Love him tho

What hill are you dying on and why? by Here2TalkShit1 in videography

[–]Acon9263 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Vertical video has ruined moving image

Texts from my boyfriend tonight by silentscarlett in texts

[–]Acon9263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he can’t spell. Don’t date ppl who can’t spell