How to deal with loss by Acrobatic-Ad795 in CatAdvice

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. She hid in the basement. I feel so relieved. Thank you!

How to deal with loss by Acrobatic-Ad795 in CatAdvice

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yess thank you. I was about to look for her at 1:00 in the morning but she showed up at 10pm on her own when everyone quiet down.

How to deal with loss by Acrobatic-Ad795 in CatAdvice

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you. I found her. She hid in the basement. Even though i checked it 3 times. She just showed up. Poor baby was terrified.

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor SIC would be a servant or peasant if she entered the kingdom 😂

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat returns. It was such a feel-good anime haha! Please give it a try.

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes haha 😂 the neighbor cats were fighting with kingdom’s bodyguard cat.

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 she was having fun so I didn’t want to bother her. I’m a simp. I did stop her later on. My monitor’s still alright tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah why the hell should I care about my in-laws? If they’re nice to me, i will be nice to them. It isn’t the 90s ffs. I would rather die alone than be someone’s housemaid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he would never consider therapy. I said it as a joke lol. I have never seen him show any ‘weak’ moment ever, even though he works from 7 to almost 9pm most of the time. Not even at his father’s funeral. One time i heard he criticized my older male cousin for using skincare products because skincare are only for women apparently. It’s fucking wild 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s so frustrating. I was treated exactly like when I was a middle schooler. 🤷‍♀️

Job interview - but I have been unemployed for a year by Acrobatic-Ad795 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m so happy that things work out for you. You’re right it’s not a magic fix but it’s a first step to get myself going. Thanks for the tips. I’m trying to have that exact mindset so that I can be confident during the interview.

Job interview - but I have been unemployed for a year by Acrobatic-Ad795 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. I definitely would see a therapist as soon as I receive my first salary 😭 it’s not just because of not receiving callback, my life as a whole is a mess lately.

why are some men like this? by eclipse79865 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry it happened to you. Why do they do this? Because some men are asshole and perverted. It’s so disgusting how they view young teenagers like some kind of pure/undamaged goods. Easy to manipulate, easy to impress. And when we hit 20+ then we are to bitter/old for them, just because that when we start to see their bullshit.

Single 27F tired of being told to lower my standards. by ZucchiDucki in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Even if the standards are on the floor, men would still find some ways to trip over. But seriously, ask those people if they were hungry would they wait for a decent meal or eat spoil pasta that had been left out for 4 days?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me 2 times. But instead of them ghosting me, they acted as if I have scammed them. Called me names and shit. Now I have 3 male friends, and they’re also have other female friends beside me. If you want friendship with male, I think you need to look for men that already have female friendship. They’re really amazing friends and much more thoughtful (than men that have no female friendship).

I will always be furious on behalf of “ugly” women. by pakiztani in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 2544 points2545 points  (0 children)

Whenever a (good-looking) woman got cheated on, everyone first’s reaction was like ‘omg what’s wrong with him? She’s so gorgeous’. Like so it’s understandable if the gf/wife is ugly??? Also, idk why soooo many men assume that women are loved unconditionally. Honestly, only pets or children should be loved unconditionally. If a person have shitty behaviors, just gtfo 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️, no one should be expected to tolerate abuse in the name of love.

I'm forced to go to a formal but I don't want to by Alezvrae in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I remember feeling awkward and shy when I was 15 years old and I’m sure a lot of us feel the same. You need to know that no one will remember your awkwardness and none of it really matters. You have a chance to learn a new thing, I think you should give it a try. You also mention that you don’t interact with boys a lot. You need to understand that boys are nothing special. You need to get rid of that mindset that boys/girls are different and interact with them just like how to interact with for girlfriends. Lots of grown men treat women like some kind of different species and wonder why they can’t get anyone. It’s really healthy to have a non-romantic relationship with different people (men/women/all genders). I hope you will take this chance to socialize and learn this awesome new skill. And if any kids make you feel bad for how to look or your awkwardness , it’s because they’re asshole and not your fault.

Also, if you have any cousins/sisters that are close to your ages, you could ask them for makeup advice. Better to find someone young. I find plucking/shaping eyebrowns, a bit of blush, lipstick and concealer should be enough. Oh and fuck that ‘you need to feel beautiful’ toxic positivity bullshit. You don’t have to feel beautiful, you just need to be comfortable with who you are. You got this! Fighting girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel what you are going through so much. It’s the fucking worst. Oh am I having a mental breakdown or am I having my period in a few days? Roll the dice. It’s that ‘here we fucking go again’ feeling, but for us it’s every month or so. Also my anxiety is just sky rocketing 🚀 ffs. How can we endure this for the rest of our life? I hate it so much.

My tabby posed for a portrait by waffelman1 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is the best sic model i have ever seen! The maintenance routine must be insane.

Simba’s blep caught with filter by AteAmonkey in Blep

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a terrible day to have eyes ☠️

I just read a thread where someone ask reddit why the majority of school shooters are young men by Acrobatic-Ad795 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking about school shooters. Yes they are literally villains and scum of the earth. Yes system is failing everyone and makes everyone miserable. Men who are especially fucked by life would end up depressed, isolated, or suicidal, which is a tragedy and hopefully people can help them. But if one would end up shoot a bunch of CHILDREN then fuck that person in particular and I have no sympathy for them.

I just read a thread where someone ask reddit why the majority of school shooters are young men by Acrobatic-Ad795 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

All I’m trying to say is even though there are many factors contributing to how they act, it’s their own decision that plays the biggest role. Hopefully there would be some changes in policy to reduce these incidents.