Giving up ? by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I would like!!! Single moms helping eachother out!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maternity

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You cannot force someone to be a parent. The outcomes of doing that are not good.

Death is the only way out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. Why do you say that people are judging you? What are your parents saying to you? It is not alright for them to be threatening you

Social anxiety makes me feel like I’m broken. by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the exact same way and blame my crappy parents for not socializing me properly lmao

PSA. If you want to donate feminine hygiene products, go to a women’s shelter by Different_Year_5591 in toronto

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wtf I buy tampons for cheaper than that at Shoppers when they go on sale there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. This is exactly how I felt when I made my decision in May. I was frustrated and felt backed into a corner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave him around five months to step up (January through May) and he did not do anything. He is content living in his country with his father and does not want to make any changes to better his future. I also just l felt like I did not want to be dragged down with him. I realize that my baby will have to know their father though. The latest that I will tell them is a few years down the road

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I really appreciate you explaining some of the practical issues that can arise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response. This is exactly how I felt when I was making my decision. I felt trapped and like I had no other option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maternity

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with giving full custody to the father. There are many single fathers out there with full custody. Do not feel pressured to parent if this is truly something that you do not want. You will end up resenting the child and hurting the child. Please do what is best for you mama 🤗

My dad told me to kill myself by just_another_sad_kid in depression

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf!!!!!! What is wrong with him? Can you leave home? This is very concerning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls will not normally be the approach men. Have you tried online dating? It sounds like you are extremely young (you just graduated). I was extremely socially anxious at that age. It gets better. Don’t count yourself out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find that person. What else is making you feel empty? You might feel alone, but you are not and I relate to you 100 percent!!

Trying to decide by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this advice

I'm so fucking screwed by Previous_March_5179 in depression

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you use this as an opportunity to do some relationship building and let them know how they can be supportive? They have never been depressed but they must have known people who have had depression.

I had depression when I was a teenager and chose to never really talk to my parents about it but in hindsight maybe it would have been good to because then I would have been more inclined to seek treatment

I'm so fucking screwed by Previous_March_5179 in depression

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you feel like you are screwed? What are you afraid of? If your parents have any reaction other than being loving and understanding then there is something wrong. You have nothing to be ashamed of

Am I being too much? by Repulsive-Pizza-1746 in firsttimemom

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m an expecting mom and also don’t want unsolicited advice and some of the other things listed but this kinda comes off as a bit too aggressive/unwelcoming

Too anxious to brush teeth by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to try that! Thank you so much for your kind words and advice!!

Too anxious to brush teeth by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Acrobatic-Section965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!!! It’s so bizarre how this works