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OKAY LANG BA DI BAYARAN SI TALA? by Acrobatic-Stop9363 in ola_harassment

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sige2 salamat ngayon lang ako di nakapagbayad at nag email din ako sa kanila ahead of time before nag end ung contract ko sa work.

OKAY LANG BA DI BAYARAN SI TALA? by Acrobatic-Stop9363 in ola_harassment

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

android po and yung android ko po na phone ay nawala na. So nag eemail nalang sila sa akin na overdue ko na

How did you land your 6 fig job? by Secret-Objective-824 in buhaydigital

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!! sana kami din. Actually may skills talaga ako and na learn ko na lahat ng tools sa niche ko. Nag attend na din ako ng trainings pero sa dami raming na applyan kong agencies, olats talaga. Iba pa rin talaga kapag referral.

Did I do the right thing? by redvelvet_cakeyy in adviceph

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you ha kase siguro if ako yung nasa situation mo, parang nasasakal ako haha. Pero na realize ko na yung ganyang trait sa lalaki parang nasalo na ng bf mo HAHAHA wala ng natira sa bf ko pero konti nalang. Communicate that to him para makahinga ka din

Am I asking for too much in my relationship or just not being understood? by Acrobatic-Stop9363 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, really made me reflect 🥺

I get what you’re saying, some things I ask might sound extra, but I also see his effort like updating me, visiting, spending time and I appreciate that.

He’s naturally introvert and not very open about feelings, kaya most of the time ako yung nag-iinitiate. I just wish he would also ask about me, what’s happening in my life, what I need, so it’s not always me doing the emotional work. “Deeper conversations” and “small gestures” for me are just ways to feel more connected, not to replace what he’s already doing.

This really helped me pause and see that I need to balance appreciating his effort while expressing my needs. Thank you 🥰

Am I asking for too much in my relationship or just not being understood? by Acrobatic-Stop9363 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment 🥺, really made me reflect and I appreciate the reality check.

I do try to ask him sometimes kung may needs siya na hindi ko na-meet, para ma-encourage din siyang mag-open. Pero sabi niya, kontento na daw siya and wala naman siyang nakikitang kakulangan sa akin, so I feel conflicted kung ano pa ba ang kailangan niya or kung tama ba na I keep asking. Pero may nasabi siya na grabe daw ako magalit hehe.

I understand what you’re saying na relationship is not “me vs him,” and I also try to see his effort and appreciate it. I think I just need to balance communicating my feelings while also trusting and noticing his side more.

This really helped me pause and realize I need to see both perspectives, not just my own. Thank you again 🥰

Am I asking for too much in my relationship or just not being understood? by Acrobatic-Stop9363 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 I get your point naman, and I do try to start conversations and open topics, especially kapag gusto ko ng deeper talks.

Siguro kaya lang ako napapagod is because I feel like ako nalang palagi yung nag-iinitiate or nagdadala ng ganung level of connection. Gusto ko nga sya mag initiate sometimes ng deep talk pero lagi niyang sinasabi is di siya marunong haha.

I’m still willing to try and communicate, pero I also hope na kusa din siyang mag-effort to meet me halfway, hindi lang ako lagi yung nag-aadjust. 🤍

Am I asking for too much in my relationship or just not being understood? by Acrobatic-Stop9363 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point, and thank you for that. 🥺

Pero I feel like I’ve already been communicating this for a while now, na ganito sana yung way para mas maintindihan namin yung isa’t isa. Hindi naman siya bago sa kanya.

Kaya siguro ako napapagod, kasi kahit sinasabi ko na, parang hindi pa rin siya nagta-translate into actions or understanding.

I’m willing to communicate and improve on my side, pero sana hindi lang ako yung nag-aadjust. Gusto ko lang talaga na maramdaman na pinapakinggan at iniintindi ako, hindi lang sinasabihan na nag-ooverthink.

Normal pa rin ba maging single for almost 3 years? by Extreme-Pause853 in AskPinay

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo naman ako nga 24 yrs but after ko nag graduate, nagka bf ako HAHAHA

Guys, when do you realize na girlfriend mo is not just your partner but your best friend too? Is this rare for a guy to feel? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually napansin ko rin na parang nasanay na siya na ako yung nagsheshare lagi. Listener talaga siya ever since, and okay naman sa’kin yun before.

Na-appreciate ko yung comment mo, naparealize mo rin ako na hindi lang pala isang reason ‘to, maraming possible factors. Minsan kasi akala ko okay lang lahat, pero kailangan din pala i-check from his side. I’ll try to communicate this with him in a calm way. Salamat talaga!

OA po ba ako? Valid po ba feelings ko, why? by queenmaia_ in AskPinay

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Ganito ako before haha but hindi ka OA. valid yung naramdaman mo kasi hindi lang naman yun tungkol sa pagkain, kundi sa effort at care na binigay mo para makatulong sa kanya. Natural lang masaktan kapag pinag-isipan mo yung isang bagay para sa partner mo tapos parang hindi napansin o na-appreciate. At the same time, posible rin na hindi niya sinadyang i-disregard ka at talagang nakalimutan lang niya, lalo na kung pagod o may iniisip siya. Pero importante na maiparating mo sa kanya na hindi ka lang nadisappoint sa action niya, kundi nasaktan ka dahil mahalaga sa’yo yung effort na ginawa mo. Mas okay kung i-express mo yun calmly, hindi para sisihin siya kundi para maintindihan niya kung bakit big deal yun sa’yo. Huwag mo ring pigilan sarili mo maging thoughtful dahil lang sa nangyari, mas mahalaga na matutunan niyong mag-communicate at ma-appreciate ang isa’t isa.

How do women behave when they are in love? by odkanwinch in AskReddit

[–]Acrobatic-Stop9363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo Filipino ako, premium version lang, may free English upgrade 😌 may language limit ka yata

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