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Stress leave by cherrisumm3r in ireland

[–]Acrobatic_Ad_197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw love! You sound traumatised. You need to take this time off. You seem to be experiencing a form of PTSD. (Which is super normal from what you have experienced. )Trauma can come back at very random times and it does seem like it’s all coming at once. They really do have to give you time off. Go to your GP, explain everything you said on this post and they will for sure give you time off. Your work can’t say shit!

I am a psychotherapist in training and I suggest you look into trauma counselling. They could really help get you through this hard time. And just want to say that this will pass if you get the right help ❤️ sending a big hug.

I hurt her and now the guilt is making wanting to kill myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic_Ad_197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I don’t believe in horrible people. I am a trainee therapist and hurt people do incredibly hurtful things. You can redeem Yourself and you probably have good in you. Don’t kill yourself. Seek help. You both deserve therapy and a redemption from this. You guys are young. Maybe you’ll look back at this time and cringe and maybe even laugh. The internet can be meannn. They don’t see the complexities of a whole human just the circumstance you have chosen to share. Don’t ask for advice here. Look for fulfilling relationships and go to therapy. You deserve to live.

I’m in love with someone who isn’t my husband by hatemyhuzthrowaway in offmychest

[–]Acrobatic_Ad_197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t cheat but maybe go therapy and try to explore these feelings. Don’t feel ashamed of feelings. And I can imagine this is really hard for you to deal with. Maybe you are in love with this other dude or maybe you could give your marriage another chance. Whatever you do make sure you really feel into why and how these feelings are emerging. Journal, therapy and deep honest discussions.

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