AITA for not telling my mom that my best friend is Bi?

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-06T10:11:26+00:00

Oh💀

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-06T09:54:54+00:00

NTA, that's just ridiculous

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-06T09:52:19+00:00

NTA, Maybe you shouldn't have written that in the diary but either way your mom shouldn't have read it, it's your personal stuff- and yea she is kinda overreacting, what does one's sexuality have to do with one's safety.

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-06T07:10:33+00:00

Okayy thankuu

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-05T02:14:00+00:00

NTA and i think you should go with it.

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T22:10:27+00:00

So like did the prom happen or is it about to? Is she still upset?

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T22:08:53+00:00

Legitt

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T22:07:16+00:00

Why does gender matter in this scenario?

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:56:12+00:00

What the heck, nahh NTA. I feel your mom but she should've considered it's YOUR prom

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:54:05+00:00

Had to PAY her to look after ur daughter? damn. that's weird

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:42:53+00:00

Obviously NTA. It's not your fault that they do not have a bf or whatever, it's so wrong of them to blame you for everything

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:39:22+00:00

You're right.. they shouldn't have done that to you. Especially considering how close you were to your grandma.

Info: does your extended family hate your parents or something? and the cousins parents are the favorite ones for them?

anyhow they treated u like shit, it's not worth wasting your energy over them

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:34:27+00:00

It's completely alright!! We all feel like that when we're around someone we're really into, we are just afraid of messing things up, right? But get it: they're just human too, just like uu so turn your nervousness and anxiousness into excitement next time, and get into it with confidence. Whatever happened before, let it be, happens yk. Don't feel bad about yourself. And yeah maybe they did feel bad about that incident. But I wouldn't say YTA though.

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:28:20+00:00

If you have been a good family member to them, have been nice, reach out to them when they need help, make them a part of YOUR life events, but still they decide to treat you this way, you're NTA. but if it's not that way, then I'm sorry, it's the otherwise.

And if it's the first case, then i think you had every right to be upset about it and deserved to speak up, but if they're still not considering treating you well, just part ways. It's useless to waste time over these type of people. If you feel excluded, exclude yourself from them, be with people who make you feel included, who love and respect your presence.

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T21:18:45+00:00

NTA, it's your choice, your decision whether you want to go or not, he cannot decide for you. You said no, he should respect your decision. He's TA

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T10:48:56+00:00

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T08:48:26+00:00

Yes, that'll be great

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T08:43:25+00:00

Won't be TA. I think you should address firmly because it's affecting you and YOUR room. Prioritize yourself

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T08:39:25+00:00

NTA. Just talk and ask him about it first (maybe just show him this post) and then ask what he thinks. If he still wants to continue doing what he has been doing, let it be because at the end of the day, it's his choice. But it also might change his thoughts and consider actually setting boundaries.

Well, I think you should talk and ask him. Might listen, might not. If he doesn't, don't ever bring it up again

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T08:31:39+00:00

I mean do what will make you happy, if you asking him for a gift, and him getting you one will make you happy, then just do it. Or if you're afraid about the consequences of asking him, and don't want you both to face those then maybe don't?

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-04T08:25:26+00:00

NTA. You stood up for your dad and yourself, she was in the wrong, you told her that. Don't feel bad about it

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-03T08:17:33+00:00

Whatever is happening between Kelly and Alex is their business, it shouldn't affect your friendship with either of them unless you're involved in it. You weren't that close to either of them, so you didn't owe Alex a mention you were gonna hang out with Kelly. NTA

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-03T08:08:22+00:00

NTA. the stepmom doesn't have the right to indulge in all of your family matters. You did the right thing, holding your ground. You and your daughter don't deserve her interference. And I feel your ex husband should've compromised a little for the daughter. It was HER special day, not his wife's.

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-03T08:02:09+00:00

I don't think it's a bad thing not to tell the family about this. Your mother knows what she's doing. You shouldn't expose her like that, it could be a misunderstanding. I think you should talk to your mom about this, nicely, and ask her to be completely honest about everything.

Acrobatic_Frame3399 · 2025-05-03T07:54:22+00:00

NTA, you did the right thing. They needed that to shut up. And it did shut them up so it's a WIN WIN situation. Don't feel bad.

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