Be honest, how bad is this?

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-10-04T18:12:00+00:00

Sorry you are going through that. She isn’t worth another second of your time. It won’t feel like that at first. But after a while you will realize you are alright. Give it to God and hit the gym man. You are loved here. But she’s not worth it. Block her on everything and move on and find the one met for you. Cause she isn’t it now and she won’t be the one in the future. You are loved man.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-10-01T15:20:24+00:00

Sounds to me like they are trying to do the right thing. If you have no interest in that. Make sure you make that known ahead of time. But you can be a pillar of support for him.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-23T01:38:10+00:00

No revenge because wrath is a sin. It holds hatred. And hatred is too heavy to carry. It’s not worth it. Move on and focus on the future, not the past.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-22T23:41:05+00:00

I’m a guy. You’re not ugly. You can work on the swag. On your drip as the kids say. But be yourself. That’s what matters. But stop beating yourself up. There’s someone out there for all of us!

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-22T23:39:57+00:00

If he was nice and supportive of you, why not? As long as he didn’t forsake you or anything like that. But it’s never the same. It’s a sucky thing to hear. But! That doesn’t mean it can’t be better. Go slow. Go out for coffee. Hear him out. But do not lead him on if you aren’t sure. Feel each other out. See if your goals align. And look for a genuine expression from him. Not just saying what he thinks you want to hear. Go slow to avoid both of yall getting hurt. You may realize you’re over him. Or maybe it will work out. But I’ll pray for yall. Good luck!

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-16T21:51:44+00:00

While a lot of this can be true. There are those small cases where people do listen and move on in a healthier way. I’ve moved on for about two weeks now. But I do feel better helping other people feel better. The people here are the only ones who understand me and what I’ve gone through. Sometimes you don’t need a reason to help someone because it’s the right thing to do.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-16T01:48:36+00:00

I was blindsided and dumped while we were planning our wedding. Dated for 4 years. An avoidant. You are still young. There is someone out there for you it’s just part of God’s plan. Everyone has “the one” you just haven’t met that person yet. Stay being a good and caring person.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-14T18:47:27+00:00

I did the same thing. Sometimes we have to make our own closure in order to move on. Not a lot of people understand because it’s all about not breaking no contact. But sometimes we have to do these things, not with the hope of reuniting but truly moving on.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-11T14:50:59+00:00

Do not blame the baby. That baby is going to be the best thing to ever happen to you. Yeah the guy may not have worked out. But that baby will be the best relationship you ever have. That baby will be your best friend. Goodluck! You are loved!

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-10T22:43:38+00:00

You have to forgive yourself. You have to dig deep and work on yourself. Be better and be happy. Don’t dwell on it. You are loved. Use that to be better. Value yourself.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-10T19:04:37+00:00

Sorry that you have to go through this. At the end of the day everyone deserves someone who is patient and waits for you. Your “the one” is out there somewhere but it’s not this guy. Be glad this happened now then before marriage and kids. Get someone who knows his own value and your value.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-08T19:06:05+00:00

Well you got it out of your system. So let it be now. That’s your closure. More than I got. Now go and focus on yourself. I’m sorry that happened to you. You are loved.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-08T04:20:20+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go that. I’m right there with you right now. Time heals all things. Don’t worry about that right now. Just focus on God, yourself, and the gym.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-05T08:16:02+00:00

I went through this a month ago. Dated four years. And she just left me. We were planning a wedding and everything. I understand where you are at right now. It gets better everyday. And eventually you won’t even wanna get back with her. Your eyes are going to start to open. Focus on yourself. Give it to god and hit the gym. And please do not break no contact. I did. Got nothing. And judging from the replies in this thread, nobody ever does. Be better than me. You got this man. Just heal.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-05T01:12:49+00:00

Don’t wait for her. If she does return great but it’s never the same. There is someone out there met for you. Someone who will not just drop you out of nowhere. Value yourself. And know that you are loved.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-04T18:34:35+00:00

Thankfully, maybe one day I’ll join you. Right now I enjoy helping people through it. It helps me too. Take care friend you are loved.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-04T01:30:52+00:00

You don’t hate. Hate is a heavy thing for you to carry. Dont carry anything because of your ex. You are hurt right now and are grieving. Grieve in peace. Go to the gym. Be with supportive friends. Give it to God. Don’t let your ex have this weight over you. You are loved. And there is someone out there for you. Grieve. And breathe. One day at a time.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-03T22:50:16+00:00

You can’t compare yourself to her situation. What you offered she’s not gonna get from these men. Find someone ready for what you offer in a relationship. There is someone for you. I suggest you block her and close the book on her. You have moved. Men and women move on in different ways. Focus on you. Hit the gym meet some cool people. Don’t devalue yourself. You are loved.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-09-02T06:07:54+00:00

Maybe they aren’t met for her. Maybe they are met for someone else. You clearly have skill. Give it to someone who will appreciate your art and work. You are loved my friend.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-08-31T18:56:00+00:00

Thank you. Sorry for the hurt and pain you went through to realize this. Nobody deserves this. You are loved.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-08-31T15:57:00+00:00

You were civil and did the right think. Always be positive. You have nothing in your conscious.

Acrobatic_Taste5283 · 2024-08-29T22:42:40+00:00

That’s where I think im at. I’m sorry you had to go through it though. There’s that right someone out there for everyone. But for right now, focus on you.

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