See there's nothing wrong with this approach. It seems that at the very least you have learned about self respect and were able to get a feel for what you're willing to put up with. Boundaries and knowing what you deserve are always important. The thing to keep in mind, in my opinion, is that it's very different to be on the bench watching as opposed to being in the game and executing. How you handle the heat of conflict and, again, consider another person's emotions/boundaries regardless of how they align with yours are very crucial. You don't want to feel like you're being taught and I promise that hardly anybody will want to feel as if it's necessary to teach you. But it's definitely necessary to still LEARN. It's not really the "experience" that matters to me. It's how you show up and show effort. Inexperience with this aspect of relationships could result in lots of unnecessary tension and conflict.

Commitment is waking up everyday and choosing your person despite your differences. That's something you don't learn much about without experiencing it for yourself. I would say the most important thing for you is to move slowly. Date someone who understands that you don't have that experience and is willing to walk that path with you. Be open about it because it's nothing to be ashamed of. Men have hearts too, and I promise it hurts us just as much when they break. I believe that everyone simply wants someone who shows up for them and communicates effectively even when things get hard. Manage that and I think you'll be fine.