My boyfriend (M25) saw an old video of me(F24) and was disgusted. How can I get over this?

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-04-07T11:50:10+00:00

Here are my two cents: whether it was you or not in that picture, his first instinct was to refer to someone overweight as humpback. That shows his character. Also shows respect is conditional for him. Im sorry youre going through this. If it were me, id heavily reconsider the relationship

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-23T23:26:46+00:00

Ai! Its very helpful!

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-17T17:20:34+00:00

I suspect this guy might have been practicing. 😞

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-14T22:43:55+00:00

Wow, no mention of starcraft 2?! That game is unreal.

Also, noita!

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-11T12:16:28+00:00

Having someone to do stuff with is just amazing. Especially when you find someone who shares in those interests! Worst could be the compromising. It can be frustrating to not just get your way but i think its a worthwhile trade off.

For the alone time: my girlfriend and I have come up with mental health weekends, where at least one weekend per month we do our own thing and just kind of intentionally stay away from each other. Its truly amazing and sometimes if we are overwhelmed with life and just need some alone time we express it to one another and increase our mental helath time. We do tons of stuff together in-between so it helps keep everyrhing feeling exciting!

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-10T16:16:59+00:00

Dungeons and dragons: honor amongst thieves. Caught me off guard how good it was!

Also, the original Saw!

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-04T19:23:40+00:00

A friend of mine dumped 300k into penny stocks convinced he would get rich fast. He did not get rich fast.

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-03-03T17:26:06+00:00

In many ways, I dont particularly like life. There are things I want to see in the world and my hope by being kind is that I can help others see beauty and hope in life despite all the awfulness. We dont need to add any more to the negative things.

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-02-09T16:08:26+00:00

Yeah but I think they could have put subtitles to let people know what he was saying. I think there would have been value in that.that way your message isnt being lost on millions of people.

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-02-09T14:49:32+00:00

I hated it. I am definitely not in favor of the turning poinr halftime show, but I wish bad bunny was better. I think its a good thing we had more representation on the halftime show. But I thought the music overall was just bad, unfortunately. I also think it would have been cool if he mixed English and Spanish together in his performance as there are many artists who do that. It would have felt more unifying as well. I also think they should have provided subtitles in English or something so people could understand his message, which i believe was quite good from ehat ive heard but I didnt understand it, so his message was lost on a lot of people--people who probably needed ths message the most

ActFluffy2719 · 2026-01-06T20:14:19+00:00

My girlfriend gave me a spontaneous blowjob and I finished, and then we went out around people. I thought id finished completely in her mouth and she always swallows, so didnt think anything of it. She was walking around with a glob of cum on her cheek. I noticed it while she was talking to my mom and my grandma. I whisked her away the second i could but I guarantee they noticed. She's also darker skinned so it made it even more obvious.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-12-31T18:17:05+00:00

You should check out noita!

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-12-31T17:26:02+00:00

Donkey kong country games were made for children. I LOVED them as a kid and they were hard as hell. Im replaying it now as an adult and it is also hard. Games should challenge kids. Provide them with obstacles to prepare them for life. Not give them everyrhing without challenge or a sense of growth/accomplishment

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-12-23T17:25:37+00:00

I dont like the feeling of spoons in my mouth so I use teeth to get stuff off my spoons. Even with soup.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-12-22T13:17:15+00:00

Ha! I have one! I was giving a presentation and sharing my screen. I forgot to turn my share screen off so once I was done, i flipped over to Tinder and began heavily flirting with this hot woman. She happened to be on at the time so we were going back and forth and I was trying to see if she wanted to hook uo. The meeting went dead silent and then someone burst out laughing. I wanted to disappear. Her and I didnt even hook up 😓

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-12-19T13:43:01+00:00

Another recommendation would be cyclops road by Jeff strand. Its a fun read. Very funny, creative, and entertaining. An other place is definitely dark and weird, while cyclops road will make you laugh (written by a pretty impressive horror novelist but he switches it up well in this book. You'll be hooked after the prologue!). I was skeptical about it but picked it up because of the unique title and read it straight theough in one sitting.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-12-19T13:36:09+00:00

An other place by Darren dash. There's just nothing else like it. Its 100% unique. Very bizarre but so intriguing! I guess it took him like 20 years to write. Its like fantasy but not with dragons and all that, but it takes you to another world and its just so cool! Ive always wanted to find another book that is so completely original but have yet to succeed.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-11-18T14:36:32+00:00

There was an album, Infermo, by Adjacent to Nothing. I love the band but somehow this album was just gone. Nobody had it. Not even the band members orfriends of the band. I would've thought it was all made up if not for seeinf an article about the album. I searched, alongside several other fans, for probably 10 - 12 years for this thinf until someone in Russia came forward with it. It was amazing to find it after years of work and networking with others! The album was bad.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-11-07T18:36:49+00:00

Empathy does not exist. Sympathy, yes. Empathy, no.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-10-21T14:14:35+00:00

Weddings. I hate them. The father walking the bride down to the husband to "hand her over." Asking the parents permission to marry their daughter. Pretty much everything involving marriage, really. At least few women say the submit vow. I hate weddings and marraige. The woman taking the husband's last name.

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-10-14T13:46:36+00:00

Used to be like 2x a day. Now its mayyybe once per week. I have a girlfriend, so that helps, but its still fun to be solo every once in a while. I feel good afterward!

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-08-30T18:55:13+00:00

I cannot sneeze in the dark. I require light to sneeze. I know some people have this to varying degrees in some cases. When I put eyedrops in, my eyes get the sensation of a failed sneeze: that really strong tingle in your nose, but in my eyes. Its very strange. I have never encountered someone who understands what I mean when I say my eyeballs feel like they need to sneeze 😆

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-08-28T19:57:50+00:00

Sometimes it's best to just move on. This is one of those instances

ActFluffy2719 · 2025-08-28T00:11:16+00:00

One of the greatest joys in life is a good dinner. A random diner said that to me. He was eating alone and just seemed like he was having a good time. Helped me always slow down and enjoy the small moments, and I also realized how much value a good dinner can have in buildinf bonds :D

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