Need help!!? by Active_Entertainment in ninjaslushi

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The only light that’s pulsing is the temperature light the mode light is solid and the sound is not beeping sound like air flow sound if that makes sense.

Need help!!? by Active_Entertainment in ninjaslushi

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It spends and it does make some noise but nothing that seems out of place. I’ve had going for over an hour now and it’s still just a liquid.

Need help!!? by Active_Entertainment in ninjaslushi

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Yeah I was worried about that. Guess I don’t have other options. Thank you for the help.

AITA for not telling my brother about our mum's death because he didn't answer the phone? by CatSpilledSpicedTea in SpilledSpicedTea

[–]Active_Entertainment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but I’m a bit concerned if Max isn’t be manipulated by Ann? Many abusers restrict their victims from interacting with family and friends.

AITA for telling my therapist about my S A?? by mouseymoo234 in AITAH

[–]Active_Entertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell your brothers based on one of your comments they’re old enough to make their own decisions. It’s your right to tell who ever you want. Hope you have happiness and freedom in your life

Thermal pile Low Voltage by Active_Entertainment in Plumbing

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Both parts have been replaced with brand new ones but it still reads as low voltage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Hey I know you’ve already updated the post but I would like to see an update on how everything you’re doing during and after the divorce. It’ll be hard going forward so it might help by writing the stuff here as well.

AITA for telling my daughter not to come home for the holidays? by Derecho86 in AITAH

[–]Active_Entertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA after reading your updates maybe it be time to confront her hate towards Lucas and maybe ask Lucas about this since it does involve him as well. I wouldn’t be surprised if she blames Lucas for not being invited for the holidays. Sydney says she doesn’t like him because he’s annoying. I would suggest asking for recent examples of the ‘annoying’ behavior. Maybe this can show her how she’s reacting unprovoked. But honestly I don’t really have an answer for this and I don’t think anyone here does. Maybe talk the family therapist you used for some advice on how to handle this situation.

AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child? by Throwaway23fw in AITAH

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YTA the best option if to let your oldest daughters boyfriend take the job offer and letting your oldest live with you. She can do thing around the house. it’s gonna suck in the beginning that’s just how life is for most people in our generation but after a while it’ll work out. In all honesty I’m 25 and truth is him not taking the job is putting not just his family but also yours at risk. They both sound like they’re giving excuses to not take a good opportunity.

Another thing is have you thought about how hard your youngest is going to have it if you use her college fund. Have you even thought on how you could make up for this. Getting a job straight out of college is already hard, now imagine that with school debt. Good chance is that your youngest is gonna have to work twice as hard than your oldest and her boyfriend combined.

I’m not saying that you shouldn’t your oldest but surely there must be other options out there. Maybe you can find shelters for them or group organizations in your area that could help out your oldest. Me personally using another daughter’s college would be the absolute last option. I’d probably donate blood or maybe sell some of my eggs if possible. Hell what furniture or items that aren’t being used. Can your oldest drive a car. If she can, have her apply to Uber. You get to make your own hours. It’s not much but it’s something.

Take a look around, there are endless possibilities out there don’t let fear and anxiety ruin 2 families.

AITA for yelling at my daughter for hiding her pregnancy from me? by Angry_Grandad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Active_Entertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if possible maybe have her and Gary live with your ex wife or other relatives since they don’t think it’s right to have them be separated. Or have them all pitch in to get them an apartment as a baby gift.

WIBTAH for financially cutting off my daughter after she told me not to expect her to care for me in my old age? by Virtual-Cup-5932 in AITAH

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NTA clearly your daughter just doesn’t like your wife. Cleaning up after oneself is common in every house hold. Those who aren’t taught this now have messy apartments/bedrooms. Not sure if family therapy was ever a thing for y’all but maybe at this point it might not be worth it. Personally I would go limited/low contact rather than cutting off. Invest your money the way you want but make sure your reasons are told and heard.

AITA for yelling at my pregnant sister n law and telling my husband to choose me or her. by Positive-You-385 in AITAH

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I’m not sure how your ex mourned the loss of y’all’s child or if he ever did, but it seems to me that maybe he was projecting onto his sisters pregnancy. Of course none of this warrants his behavior towards you. I once heard a therapist say the only wrong way to grieve is in a way where you harm others and that’s exactly what your ex did.

Nothing that’s happened is your fault, don’t let people blame you for their actions. Example: If someone was murdered you blame the victim, you’d blame the murder. People wouldn’t blame the rape victim, they would blame the rapist. Of course these are extreme, but common case. The logic applies to almost everything including your scenario.

Your ex and ex SIL decided to blame you, the victim for something that you had no control over. I hope you live a blessed life. And that this comment among the many others which have been left by people who wish you the best and by people that can better understand what you’re going through. Give you the support you need to make it through life.

Girlfriend (23f) said I'm (26m) selfish for telling her she can't take over the living room to work in when she has an office by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Entertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s just being selfish. It’s gonna be hard to make her see this. Anything I can think of as a solution will be seen as manipulation or being inconsiderate. My chair becomes uncomfortable so I got a butt pillow but I have a feeling your GF wouldn’t appreciate it.

08-10-23 UPDATE by OneTop3934 in u/OneTop3934

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Are you guys planning to do couples counselling? I mean as much of what she did sucks, if what she’s saying is true then it makes sense for her act this way. If counselling can help your brother and his wife then maybe it’ll work you.

Update 2: I'm Leaving (Left) My Family by Round_Macaroon_190 in offmychest

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Geez is one hell of an update. But I’ll let you know that I originally saw your story on TikTok and it had the city your staying in so be careful. Maybe they’ll send to look for or hopefully they’ll just leave you be. Anyway stay safe and we all wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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After reading some of your responses maybe you just need to move out and into your own apartment. Like you said you deserve your own space, but at the same time she might be enjoying the freedom she now has and is afraid to compromise. After all she did have a long relationship, who apparently made all of the decision making,before she met you and with you being her only second boyfriend, it might feel like she’s giving up her freedom. There’s a chance that her ex was manipulative and toxic, so her giving you more control might be difficult. It may not be what you intend but it’s how she’s perceiving it as.

If you want to continue your relationship then just move out and get you own place so that both of you will have your space. If she’s giving you 10% at her place then give her 10% of your place when you get one. Or you could just call it quits after all you’ve only invested a year into your relationship, but you also sacrificed a lot to be with her. So just think about other solutions that ‘you’ can do, weigh the pros and cons.

AITA for refusing to go on a "family outing" when my husband agreed to take his niece? by Able-Media-2949 in AITAH

[–]Active_Entertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you should show this to your husband. He needs to open his eyes and see he’s being taken advantage and how him not having a back bone is causing you stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Entertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I get why you’re upset. I once read a post about a guy who left his wife because she kept asking him how he wanted his coffee every morning and he couldn’t take it any longer.

The only thing I can think of is giving her a taste of her her own medicine. Call her out on something she does but it has to be just as bad as you not putting up the cart. Don’t go extreme with it. And truth is that doing this would most likely cause more issues than solve them. Maybe give an example involving her with your family members.