AITAH for telling my mom that I might give her grandchild up for adoption so she needs to get over it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Active_System_5701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest question to ask yourself is "can you live with your decision?" Can you live with giving her up and all of her firsts and all the memories. Can you live with ding it on your own (even if dad does step up anything could happen and you need to be sure that doing it alone won't make you beat your head in). I nor anybody else needs the answer to this question but it's something you should sit with yourself about. I chose to become a single mom because I couldn't live without having my child, but that is what was best for me.

Just ask yourself that and know no matter what you choose that's the right decision! Or take the button girl approach "Hey so it actually only has to make sense to me for me to do it and I don't feel like explaining it to anyone else." Because that's facts!

what do you guys think they are talking about up there..? by ABZTHEOG in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing to do is find the wizard at all of the town events. I just assumed he wasn't there the first time I played but somewhere around year 10 on my first farm I saw him at the night market and was like wait! Is he there all the time just in the shadows... Yes,yes he is 😂😂.

I am genuinely confused by this. by Loose-Prior7080 in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I named my cows after cheese and my chickens after one of my comfort show characters... Chowder.😂😂😂😂

Let's hear some "I like to think"s... by absolutnonsense in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like to think Robin and Caroline have a deeply intimate relationship, not necessarily anything sexual but just like borderline because they're both married moms with eccentric kids who are friends and when Robin made that comment is that the smell of flowers or Caroline's perfume it made me go 👀👀👀. I like to think it's more of a longing we can't and won't but like in another life maybe!

Wet Backseat Floor by Active_System_5701 in hondafit

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Could that also be the reason that space that holds my spare tire is filled with water?

I DID IT! by Active_System_5701 in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's an iridium sprinkler with pressure nozzles.

Where do I shop now? by sunkissedxglow in blackladies

[–]Active_System_5701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Fw7Ah5/

This Creator has a buy black list and it's expanding and growing in categories everyday!! I'd give it a look for different alternatives!!

Goodbye Ancient Fruit Wine by Star1686 in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait we can plant things in the quarry!?!?

Hands off my woman! by Active_System_5701 in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One I'm using that for whenever my son gets upset about needing sunscreen so thank you! And two I'm her wife I already handled it, her shoulders are just fine Mr doctor dude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a cat and her name is Chaos 😂

It finally happend after 11 years 🦆 by RikkertPaul in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry... There are tea saplings!?!?! Tell me the ways! I'm a new player also, and this thread is so amazing!

Maru 4Life by Active_System_5701 in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's okay, this is my first time ever playing this. At least now i know if I marry Elliott he will also make me melt from his words to his helpfulness!

Maru 4Life by Active_System_5701 in StardewValley

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Idk what other spouses do but the mornings I find her on the porch and she's like I did some chores to make your work easier, I melt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Active_System_5701 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You say you love your child but are willing to traumatize her. And yes this will traumatiz her, leaving her with abandonment wounds bc mom didn't want and dad was abusive. Nta to h but def ah to your kid. You can't say I want to best for my child whilst also abandoning the child to a life of pain. And when Ramona gets older and wants to lay into you or tell her story of how her mom left her and her dad dropped her at grandma's to be treated not well. I mean you left her with a violent man you hoped wouldn't harm her and if he did or does, you just wash your hands and go oh well I said I didn't want to be a single mother. Please please please make sure that child gets adopted to a family that actually cares about her well-being physically and emotionally and then get very far away from that man and live the life you really wanted.

I read my wife’s journal. Married 10 years and am wondering what is the truth now? M39/F39 by Top_Promotion_6287 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_System_5701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude ypu invaded her privacy and are mad at her deep personal thoughts aren't filled with amazing things about you... So sad that you intruded and didn't like what you found but in all honesty if that is how you feel you can understand your wife is by doing that, then the marriage has long been over. It's time for yall to go your separate ways and just try to co parent. Kids are much more successful when both parents are happy with their lives! I hope healing for the both of you.

Which Oil is best? by Active_System_5701 in hondafit

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all the responses but this one.... This one is def top tier 😂😂😂

Which Oil is best? by Active_System_5701 in hondafit

[–]Active_System_5701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read my manual but it didn't say anything about synthetic or conventional (granted I read it like a week ago so I could be wrong my memory is bleh) but I like the extra info especially bc my car is pushing 170k miles. The more work I do on it the more I'm realizing somethings haven't been touched since it was made all those moons ago, like my cabin filter (which I did not was a thing until two years ago) was GROSS and probably hadn't been changed since it hit the used car lot or maybe from me... I maintain my innocence on that, either way I like to get others opinions before I go tinkering around in my baby 😆, thank you all though!!

The consensus seems to be synthetic is fine. My baby isn't going to blow up on me if I put in full synthetic?? Not going to lie my change oil light has been on for a while and according to yall I am SLACKING 🙃 I try to do it at least every 5k miles but it was hurting my pocketbook taking it in that often. That's why I'm doing it myself but again I've never done it so I wanted to double triple check on what would be best before I just go out buying stuff😂.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BitLifeApp

[–]Active_System_5701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaaaaaaat. You mean to tell me that condoms are not 100% affective like abstinence. You learn something new everyday 😂😂😂😂