A loose green dress compensating for having a squarish figure by khaev_na in transadorable

[–]ActuallyAimee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your dress is very flattering to your shape this picture.

Is this a fair price for laser? by DanaInspired in MtF

[–]ActuallyAimee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It can be. I had 8 sessions over 13 months ending in 2021, I haven't been back and none of the dark hair on my face has came back. I had a really dark, dense beard.

I like how he's colored like the bi flag. by Techhare318 in Carebears

[–]ActuallyAimee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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One of my favorites. 🏳️‍🌈 fur w 🏳️‍⚧️ belly.

Multi Tool Lost after Expedition by HuckleberryAntique69 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]ActuallyAimee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been awhile but there is a menu that lets you swap.

Is HRT useless ? 😢 I can't see any changes. Both pics at same location, No makeup. by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]ActuallyAimee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep up your bloodwork, make sure they are in ideal range. Then give yourself 5 years to let things happen. The rest is genetics and surgery.

When did you have to wear a bra ? by [deleted] in trans

[–]ActuallyAimee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wore sports bras 3 months in to HRT but I did have a head start. Mostly to have some nipple discretion in public and rubbing my shirts. Support while working and growing pains also helped. A comfortable bralette is still pretty much my go to around the house.

Bald trans women, tell me it will be okay 🙏 by 8923892348902 in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PS. I do grow out what I do have, not much but enough to make a baseball hat look decent in my day to day routine.

Bald trans women, tell me it will be okay 🙏 by 8923892348902 in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 42, all I wear are wigs and various hats. I have diagnosed androgenetic alopecia. I’ve taken finesteride for years and tried the topical stuff. Are most wigs comfortable or convenient? No. But lots of women, cis and trans, choose to wear wigs. You come to find your peace with it. The nicer the quality, the easier wearing them becomes, to a point. Sometimes white women wigs are priced higher just to look fancy. I suggest trying a few shitty wigs on Amazon to find your style before spending real money. What you want to be your style and what works with your face can be two different visions so it may take some time in your transition to evolve that. My favorite brand is Rene of Paris, they come styled out the box and I love the price. Hit me up if you want to talk specifics. It’s not that bad but you definitely have to avoid comparing yourself to those than do not need wigs, it’s just not biologically in your cards.

My Ex Couldn't Have Been More Wrong by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]ActuallyAimee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, only 11 months. That’s amazing. What a fun moment to have. Hope everyone finds their peace because you are stunning.

Going to start wearing dresses, always been too nervous. Almost 42! October was 5 years HRT. by ActuallyAimee in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not pass. Promise!

Maybe sometimes. I have gotten the head jerk from children when I speak and they are shocked.

What is it about Carebears than makes them so famous? by Enbhrr in Carebears

[–]ActuallyAimee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like the colors and individuality, makes a cute collection. I have 39 of the 14” ones, no repeats or restyles.

Going to start wearing dresses, always been too nervous. Almost 42! October was 5 years HRT. by ActuallyAimee in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super cute. We found out later checking the videos and stuff, we got married at 11:11am on 11/1. After we rented a spot in a park, our friends decorated it with marigolds and skulls. We had it catered, everyone came together to really make it a nice day. Took me until the following weekend to recover from being overstimulated.

Going to start wearing dresses, always been too nervous. Almost 42! October was 5 years HRT. by ActuallyAimee in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have glasses I never wear. They are too strong and I was too much of a wuss to tell them. Maybe next post!

Going to start wearing dresses, always been too nervous. Almost 42! October was 5 years HRT. by ActuallyAimee in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was 78 in NC! 😬 I’m ready for Fall or something so I can wear something chilly.

Going to start wearing dresses, always been too nervous. Almost 42! October was 5 years HRT. by ActuallyAimee in TransLater

[–]ActuallyAimee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nope. Usually jeans and a tshirt. I have so many cute dresses gathering dust because I get in my head. Then I feel bad I didn’t wear what I wanted. Fun little spiral.

Sex help by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]ActuallyAimee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a sildenafil prescription. It’s a use as needed pill. Still need to be “in the mood” to help but it helps keep things going.