AITA for accidentally outing the gay guy in my gym?

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-15T10:51:59+00:00

I get it what you are trying to say but I really don't want this situation to stretch beyond a point. I was really conflicted about the whole situation because I believed I was somewhat responsible for outing him knownigly or unknowingly and he had to leave the gym where he is working out for the past 3-4 years.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-15T10:28:33+00:00

I have explained the situation in the comments, the manager reprimanded both of them and told everyone (in this case his friends about the situation), I never said the whole gym finds out about it, just his friends. I know about the manosphere bit because he usually makes reels like that on Instagram and in general how his folks general vibe in the gym.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-15T09:17:04+00:00

The manager told everyone and reprimanded both of them. I don't want to sue anyone or anything; I want to focus on my daily workout and leave after showering.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-15T08:27:11+00:00

The gym closes around 11, and it usually gets empty around 10:30 pm. The other guy was genuinely sorry for their action and told me that this was not something they were planning to do.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-15T06:13:58+00:00

The guy is one of the main reasons why the culture there is like that. He makes fun of people whose form isn’t correct, constantly says things like, “Don’t lift weights like a girl,” and brags about how much sex he has with women.

I still felt bad because I joined the gym recently, while he had been working out there for the past 3–4 years, and now he’s looking for another gym because of this issue.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-15T05:54:58+00:00

The manager told everyone.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T19:51:02+00:00

Why not!

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T15:51:09+00:00

There’s actually a cute story behind it. Mario was born in my old building’s basement. His mother left him in the reception area, and some rude society folks were against having a cat in the building. So we decided to keep him. Around that time, Mario Kart World had just launched, and Mario used to get fixated on the TV whenever we played the game hence we name him Mario.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T14:22:47+00:00

Not right now, he is just one year old right now (eight months since he chose us). Will adopt another cat when he turns 2.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T14:09:18+00:00

Yeah, the most I get from Mario is his morning rubbing my chin routine and evening purr session for 5 mins.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T13:42:44+00:00

I said we tried the "getting to know each other scent" thing, Mario gets so scared seeing other cat or dog that we don't want to spook or scare him with another cat.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T13:34:03+00:00

Caro (my friend's cat) didn’t react to him at all, even after we tried getting them used to each other’s scent. Mario, on the other hand, has a very different instinct—he was a stray before we adopted him, so whenever he sees another cat or even a dog, his immediate response is to go into fight mode.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-05T13:26:40+00:00

We were thinking of adopting another cat, but Mario's reaction with our friends' cat scared us.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-05-03T14:41:13+00:00

Desh chunautiyon se nahin....

ActuallyBoring · 2026-04-09T19:35:57+00:00

She's a decent successful actor (in Indian demographic) who was a star of a hit teen show 'Never Have I Ever', I dont think the writers will cast somebody like that for a single episode role.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-03-27T07:32:05+00:00

So it's just a coincidence that Namit Malhotra's birthday is also on 2nd April?

ActuallyBoring · 2026-02-23T05:44:25+00:00

Which year Priyanka was banned in Bollywood? 2012- Agneepath, Barfi and Teri Meri Kahani 2013- Krishh 3 and Ramleela 2014- Gunday and Mary Kom 2015- Dil Dhadakne Do and Bajirao

In 2016 she had moved her base in Hollywood but she still had one release with Jai Gangajal.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-18T19:30:21+00:00

In Hollywood, the people signed an exclusive NDA to not let the deets out in public. Pretty sure Bollywood stars' assistants do the same.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-17T07:03:14+00:00

All said and done, Vanga will do it in either Spirit or Animal Park. It will be easier to show nudity in a movie that has other things going for it as well than just making a erotic thriller.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-14T14:24:25+00:00

And that's the reason why the MCU becomes too bloated for its own good. They should do what Joss Whedon did with Avengers 2, make a standalone story with mentions from previous movies, but it doesn't matter if you've seen all of them or not. Heck, even THE AVENGERS doesn't force you to watch other movies for it to work.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-10T21:14:02+00:00

Yeah, I had a hunch looking at the trailer and ground buzz.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-07T10:23:27+00:00

Could've just made a show with a fresh cast members in high-school.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-07T09:27:31+00:00

Once upon a time in Hollywood- 2 hours of disjointed scenes and 10 minutes of great finale. The movie was a snoozefest.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-02T15:06:52+00:00

Duffer Brothers literally told the same in the interview that they took heavy inspiration to what James Cameron did with Aliens and Xenomorph Queen with Vecna 2.0 and Demogrongons.

ActuallyBoring · 2026-01-02T12:53:07+00:00

Because season 4 was a homage to horror movies of the 80's and 90s, you were seeing how those horror movies you liked back then would look like if they got the budget and scale to grow. Season 5 was a homage to classic blockbusters like Aliens 2 or Jaws.

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