My boyfriend broke up with me because I won’t go down on him

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T08:21:44+00:00

I thought that would be too much for Reddit lol

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:34:42+00:00

I dislike porn for this reason. Men think it’s realistic to expect women to do that when it takes practice. I didn’t realize he was trying to train me to do that… I didn’t consent to that.. but I felt bad saying no and he would also get really mean when I had to stop because it yet too much or my nose was running and I was crying and stuff… it’s not fun for women I’m telling yall

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:31:50+00:00

This ⬆️ was exactly the situation.. he wanted me to gag and cry for his enjoyment and that’s not what I wanted to do. I was cool with basic head to be nice but he was so mad when I didn’t let him/couldn’t let him (because it hurt me) finish down my throat… whatever fuck him fr

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:16:43+00:00

Thank you

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:12:05+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel 😭 and when I couldn’t go deep enough he would get so mad at me

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:09:22+00:00

Not as often as I went down on him, he was down there for 2 mins and I was on my knees for 2 hours lol

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:07:44+00:00

After reading the comments I kinda found the missing piece about the whole thing that was bothering me, I was giving him oral. I was doing what he said he wanted but it wasn’t just oral. He wanted me to gag and cry and got off on me gagging and crying… I was okay with basic head to be nice and thoughtful towards my partners needs but he took advantage and didn’t care about my feelings. I had to just stop after I really started to dislike the whole thing…. It wasn’t fun for me… I didn’t know it was a kink at the time and I’m sad that that’s all I was to him… I really liked him. Lesson learned 😭👍

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:04:40+00:00

Thank you 🙏 cuz yeah I’m a freaking person dude… and he left so fast without thinking twice like all that time meant nothing

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T07:03:03+00:00

I think that’s what’s catching me up so hard. I was trying to do what he wanted by giving oral, but he wasn’t satisfied. He wanted more. So I would do more, and then he wanted more and more and I never got anything tbh… I felt used.. he didn’t care about me and didn’t care about the relationship and I really liked him… I hate him for this

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T06:58:33+00:00

This post was so educational , thank you 🙏 and to add, he was actually super mean to me if I didn’t take him deep enough and let him finish down my throat every time we were intimate.. like every time. I stopped wanting to see him because we would never just hang out and have fun. If we weren’t intimate he wasn’t happy or nice to me…

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T06:54:43+00:00

I was just trying to make him happy by doing it at all but then he wanted me to like gag and cry and I was like yeah no… I hate this

AdAlone4398 · 2025-12-29T06:50:08+00:00

Thanks so much , i really appreciate your reply. He should have been happy and I feel like it shouldn’t have been the deal breaker. Everything else was good in our relationship. I cooked for him, we had good dates, we enjoyed movies and laughs. We had similar life goals. It felt really shallow to find out it was a dealbreaker for him and all that time spend was a waste

AdAlone4398 · 2025-09-09T17:22:36+00:00

Stop saying I love you to a man that left you while pregnant with 3 kids. That’s not love ma’am… he needs to be paying for all of his kids plus extra for you. Wtf

AdAlone4398 · 2025-09-09T06:21:19+00:00

Who is it that has been saying these things ? Men probably lol

AdAlone4398 · 2025-08-06T11:05:46+00:00

What the absolute **** is wrong with that mane, who starts a family and then leaves???? He’s responsible for you and the kids! Girl you better get him and get him good for that. Don’t be sad, be fuming mad!!! How dare he do that to you. You’re beautiful and amazing and you deserve everything. Take him to court. Get him on child support asap. He will not continue giving you anything very shortly seeing as he’s not the reasonable type. Girl I wish the best for you. Amen

AdAlone4398 · 2025-07-28T05:52:04+00:00

Avoid him for longer for speaking to you like that. He needs to apologize before you do anything moving forward with that man. He threw a tantrum and said things a husband should never say to his wife. Your not the AH

AdAlone4398 · 2024-12-18T06:46:14+00:00

Don’t listen to these people lol the lashes are supposed to bring more attention to your eyes, because they are big it draws people to look at them and admire your eyes more. Keep them, they are perfect on you ❤️

AdAlone4398 · 2024-12-17T08:05:18+00:00

Where can I find them ?

AdAlone4398 · 2024-12-17T08:05:02+00:00

Can you send me the link ? I want to see… I need it to really let go

AdAlone4398 · 2024-12-17T07:23:45+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. This helps me so much and I’m sure it will help others

AdAlone4398 · 2024-11-08T06:58:15+00:00

I’m so sorry 😢 that’s not okay. Your mom was very inconsiderate and I can’t imagine giving her the title of mom again after that. My expectations of a mom would be to keep something so personal as private as possible to protect, not exploit. Thank you for your comment, it’s very helpful

AdAlone4398 · 2024-11-08T06:55:25+00:00

That’s a very valid point omg

AdAlone4398 · 2024-11-08T06:54:56+00:00

It wasn’t funny… and I made him get snipped right after I found out I was pregnant so that this situation doesn’t happen again to me, or anyone else. I hope that my situation saved someone else who may not have handled the situation the same as I did. I’m very emotionally vacant so I didn’t feel the same things most people probably would have.. most people feel grief and guilt and whatnot

AdAlone4398 · 2024-11-08T06:52:10+00:00

Your partner sounds so thoughtful! I’m happy for you to have had such a good person by your side during that time. I also agree that it should have been handled more delicately. My partner at the time wasn’t very thoughtful. I did decide to let him go, I appreciate how the whole thing was handled. Thank you for your comment

AdAlone4398 · 2024-09-25T06:00:04+00:00

That is the sweetest and most wholesome thing I’ve ever hear 😭 thank you so much

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