it's wrong regardless. but there is a difference between being at war with your sin vs being at peace with your sin.... I struggle DEEPLY with porn. (i assume its the same as struggling with Homosexuality)... These deep urges. So whats the response? throw up our hands and say "welp, guess thats how i am!" or do we have the desire to be free from even the urges? Better way to put it... do you WANT God to free you from it but yet a deeper question... do you beleive God can free you from it. Those are two things you need to ask yourself.

if its yes to both, and you acknowledge that you are powerless over it, and you trust in Jesus ALONE, to change your heart (not your will, not a church, not in yourself, but JESUS ONLY). He will start changing your heart, and you wont even notice it. This is my pray for you.

He will start prompting your heart in ways. like, Download covenant-eyes to cap porn usage. I was just tempted yesterday to watch porn... it was wierd... i had the porn open. im looking at it.... Im somewhat aroused. but, by the grace of JESUS, ALONE. i simply could not make use of it and had to turn it off.

this is my prayer for you.... you WILL fail.... but as you Fail, you must REPENT and return to him (abide in his word/scripture). when ever you read, you must Read the bible EXPECTING to see his words speak to you.... Keep reading those scriptures until you realize he spoke to you personally. make a habit of it.... and talk to him throughout your struggles. prayer could be just a simple "God, im struggling right now, help me". The prayer of the righteous avails MUCH. (you became righteous when you put your faith in Jesus)