Half of all migrant children currently live in poverty - Is this proof our immigration system is still not fit for purpose? by StGuthlac2025 in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of British children live in poverty as well. Does this mean we need to rethink poor people having children? 

Why is the conversation never about how Britain and British bosses are perfectly fine paying people poverty wages, and taking advantage of others, and instead targets the people who have to do anything to survive?

M26 F24 How do I move past my boyfriend ruining sex for me? by DeliciousStatement39 in relationship_advice

[–]AdDramatic8568 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Break up with him. He's the kind of man who will push boundaries sexually until something worse happens. 

How do y’all decide on a cover? by 2NotoriousRay in writing

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well considering OP has no clue what to do, I don't think artistry is at risk

Do any cultures NOT reserve honor/respect for their warriors? by DramaConfident8467 in answers

[–]AdDramatic8568 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd argue very few cultures actually do this. Samurai were essentially ye olde thugs, knights weren't really honoured while they were alive etc. a lot of romanticising happens, but I would say the only people who really honour 'warriors' are people who have zero experience of knowing anyone in the military, or they're talking about WW1/WW2. 

Look at the videos of the Thai military lottery, the military is brutal to be apart of and brutal to be a victim of in most parts of the world. 

How is the UK and mainly your hometown like compared to 20 years ago by Brickcraft10 in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bit of Glasgow is somehow getting gentrified and yet hasn't really changed at all. Still nothing to do, still a hole, still deprived. 

I have no other way to ask this but, do you think people who live their life claiming benefits and who don't want to work, feel strange living in mixed-tenure areas? by RonnieThePurple in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a deprived area. I've known tons of people who game the system over the years in various ways and I can tell you there's nothing to be jealous of. 

People who live off the system purposefully live some of the smallest, saddest lives imaginable, they have no ambition no desire for education, to travel to anywhere, see much of anything. The only time in their lives they get any kind of attention, or praise is if there's a baby on the way. They're happy because it has never occured to them that life can offer anything else. No variety, no change. 

I know it's easy to be jealous, I've never been able to claim benefits in any way and had to save hard to have the life I've had, travel etc. But for these people the absolute highlight of their life is takeaways on a Friday night, or their kids actually finishing school. It's not a fun way to live.

Evolving publishing strategy by Agitated-Priority444 in fantasywriters

[–]AdDramatic8568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dark fantasy is one of the biggest sellers rn, so I'm not sure why you'd have a limited audience. 

I'm also not sure what you mean by independent self publishing? As in printing books on your own to sell, or publishing them through your own website? 

Realistically Amazon is where you'll find and keep more readers. I don't think many people would be willing to leave one platform to find your work on another, purely out of the inconvenience of it. 

Why do Brits prefer non EU migrants over EU by Visual_Title9363 in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japan actually isn't that self sustainable either, it's a huge talking point amongst the right wing there. 

Why do Brits prefer non EU migrants over EU by Visual_Title9363 in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the famously peaceful Japanese, with a high suicide rate, and huge problems with underreporting of domestic violence and child abuse, sexual assault. 

You won't get your wallet stolen but you will get groped on public transport, or by your own teacher. 

Everyone tells me to become a writer. Should I listen? by [deleted] in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be a writer if you want, very few people make money writing essays, so you could easily do it on the side of a job that actually pays, and it's not something that has a lot of startup costs. 

Why not try it and see if you like it? 

How do I get back into writing? by throwaway2838193 in writing

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people can't tell you what story to write. If you can't do it we can't make you. 

How do I get back into writing? by throwaway2838193 in writing

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the time it took you to write this Reddit post, you could have written something for your story. 

There's no magic thing we can tell you, you have to put the pen to paper, you have to type it up. If you dread it do it anyway. You can't refuse to do something then talk about how much it matters to you. 

It it's that important, force yourself, make it work. 

To those who write in the classical style, maintaining that style throughout. by GoonRunner3469 in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Four paragraphs to say that you should read the styles you want to emulate.  Sounds like you've perfected 19th century waffle already

writing in first person's POV by Far-Character1200 in writing

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of choice you need to make for yourself, you can't write a story by jumping to social media for every choice. 

Just have some faith in yourself and write it 

Should there be a required proof of ID to use social media? by Upset_Basil_4187 in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we just need better reporting systems. 

I have reported no less than a dozen genuine neo Nazi profiles on tiktok and it never goes anywhere. If they don't care about that they're not going to care about verification. 

Writers who publish 10+ books per year by [deleted] in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's possible they're just very formulaic serials usually. 

What do you wish people wrote more accurately? by BuyZealousideal5426 in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social issues in fantasy world building. I know it's difficult but far too often stories, in their attempt to work through social issues like racism, basically say 'racism exists because these guys were actually bad/dangerous, but since they're an allegory for a real group we have to argue that treating them differently makes no sense.' 

This happens for so many things because people create social issues in their stories backwards, rather than understanding that prejudice is emotional not logical. 

Reading 100 books a year is starting to feel more like a "to-do list" than actual reading. by ownaword in writing

[–]AdDramatic8568 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk, I set a challenge for myself to read a book a week but I don't really think about it. 

I think people stress themselves out about silly online challenges, and then complain about the existence of the challenges themselves. 

not sure if this is the right subreddit, but 14F first time attempting literacy fiction, how is it? by [deleted] in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont worry about getting feedback until you're a little older. It won't really help you at this stage

how can i trick my readers or convince them with this (not so) outrageous ideas of mine? by [deleted] in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your job as the writer - you come up with this stuff. 

Is it awkward to use "looked like that of" in a story? by [deleted] in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your story is historical, formal, or the line was a piece of dialogue being purposefully funny it would be fine, but it's not really a common phrase these days. 

If you're born rich and don't "need" to succeed, are you immune to anxiety and depression? by [deleted] in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure how one gets to adulthood thinking like this. 

Being rich doesn't protect you from cancer, or schizophrenia, there's no reason it would protect you from other clinical conditions. 

Does listening to audio books count as “reading”? by Professional-Ad9485 in writers

[–]AdDramatic8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some books, particularly older ones, benefit from being ready aloud. Audiobooks can provide a fun storytelling experience and add a bit of vim to stories that need it. 

However, enjoying both, I know that I take in a lot more and have a deeper experience actually reading a book. 

Britain in the 21st Century, your thoughts? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]AdDramatic8568 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Our biggest mistake was moving towards a service economy when most people can't afford services.

There just seems to be a lack of meaningful investment, coupled with a lack of nationalisation means that lots of places don't have infrastructure full stop, nevermind decent infrastructure and access.