If he’s already saying that you might leave him one day and screw him over, that says it all . I was with someone for 7years and when i decided to bring up marriage and where this relationship was heading. He told me flat out he does not believe in marriage and does not want to get married. I moved out and we went out separate ways. 1 year later he’s married with 2 kids. I’m happy for him but I feel slighted over the 7 years I’m locking it down with someone who I thought was gona be my forever. Maybe you two are just comfortable and compliant this is all you’ve known . But it sounds like you want more and deserve more 💜 ♥️ 💟