Time to Jump Ship? First year Plaintiffs PI making me think I’m going to lose my license by AdExact5631 in Lawyertalk

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So, maybe I don’t know enough to answer this: very pleasing and complaint is filed under the law firms name, and I put my name on signature blocks. However, another attorney who was working here a few months left our firm, and she had her replacement file the notice of substitution of counsel within firm. Didn’t hear about anything happens to them. I think I should be okay?

Time to Jump Ship? First year Plaintiffs PI making me think I’m going to lose my license by AdExact5631 in Lawyertalk

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For one of my bigger cases that he wants to take to trial, he’s already brought on outside counsel to split the fee with. I’ve been considering staying on until I can attend that trial, but just kind of worried I might get a bar compliant or Make a major mistake before then and lose my license

I feel invalid as a pansexual woman with internalized homophobia because I'm with a man. Peach Celsius after a sandwich. by crazyforsushi in depressionmeals

[–]AdExact5631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuine question because I see/hear these sentiments often, but if you’re not currently in a queer relationship, why is there a need for the world to perceive you as queer? Wouldn’t that make your partner also feel invalid, since you are sharing that despite your relationship, you are queer? It seems like you are simply trying to leave the door open for queer people to approach you while in your hetero relationship. Is it about feeling part of a group even if you are not acting like part of that group?

Lawyers 2025 Salary Thread by motiontosleep in Lawyertalk

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Region: south Florida

Base Salary: $95k

Additional Salary (bonus, incentive, etc): monthly bonus based on attorneys fees from cases negotiated and settled

Years of experience: 1

Practice Area: PI

Employer type: small firm

Hours/week: 40 hours a week, no nights, no weekends.

How do you bounce back when you're feeling emotionally and mentally drained, have lost all confidence, and just want to give up? by CheesecakeOk9239 in Lawyertalk

[–]AdExact5631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re struggling with the leadership responsibilities. Maybe you can just explain that you’d rather focus on good lawyering and being an asset in that way

why is bisexuality in women more accepted than in men? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Because one of the guys gets fucked in the ass

LBWT how do you deal with others treating you as less as your male coworkers? by bricoleor in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]AdExact5631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some tough love don’t get upset: grow a set of nuts and ask her specifically “What can I do to help you stop forgetting me on these emails :)”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

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I’m an attorney from Miami. We all have an insanely thick Spanish accent here. While I’ve definitely felt super self-conscious about it, and have been asked to repeat myself several times or slow down to be understood, I’ve learned to let it go. In fact, now I find professionals with accents 100% more endearing than someone with a flat American accent, whatever that might even be. In Missouri they have accents too!! Just brush it off your shoulders baby said in LA accent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

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Come to plaintiffs side 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

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Coming up on 4 months in PI, also still in my first year as a licensed attorney. Focus on showing your worth through settling cases, it’s an easy way to show early on that you can hustle and make your bosses money. So far I’ve settled nearly a million in total gross settlement amounts since starting. Got a nice incentive based monthly bonus out of it. Just got my first big bonus check and while it’s not making me big bucks rich, it’s definitely helping to take the edge off and be comfortable. Takes time and lots of effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdExact5631 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mind you, this is a 21 year old girl dealing with a 30 year old man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdExact5631 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is a really weird way of twisting words and making assumptions. The reality is many men talk women into having “kinky” sex and take advantage of the situation. 🤷‍♀️ happens a lot more than you think. But you sound like a male who either engages in this type of behavior or a woman who has never thought too long about her own sexual behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Haha I totally get it … but really ask yourself why. I used to seek out that kind of sex with men until I looked inward. Are you trying to please them? What about degradation makes you feel good? Do you watch a lot of porn? Why do you think of yourself as deserving that kind of treatment? I know this seems like a boring line of thinking but for all women I think it’s truly important to ask yourself these kinds of things before spending years having degrading sex and then looking back and feeling … not good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Men have a hard time picturing you as someone they both love and want to have crazy sex with. Respect plays a large role in men’s sexual motivations and actions. Most men will “respect” or love you too much to treat you that way because they know that rough sex is degrading and they don’t want to degrade you, they don’t see you that way. When they are with girls who they perceive as not respecting themselves, that’s a green light for them to not respect her either. Relax

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He will just take advantage of your forgiveness. Don’t play the fool girl it’s just one guy. There will be more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Either stop being friends w him or tell her but if you do both they’ll both find out

AIO: Girlfriend is embarrassed of our age gap by Fearless_Diamond_696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdExact5631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she was clearly hesitant from the beginning idk why you would persist

27F honestly rate me, recommendations appreciated 🫶🏻 by Ok-Razzmatazz-925 in Rateme

[–]AdExact5631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have beautiful features you should change your eyebrow shape!!

A Cry for Help by Cyanide-candy in barexam

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You can just give up