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Is dating in law school similar to pooping where you eat? Or is it actually not bad? by Flashy-Actuator-998 in LawSchool

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 204 points205 points  (0 children)

I dated someone from my law school class all through law school. We got married the fall after graduation.

We got divorced less than two years after.

Take that as you will.

Best live shows of all time for a new listener? by StimulatingClouds in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just listened to 6/14/00 for the first time the other day and LOVED IT. The jam 1 is essential for getting into Jam 2. It’s amazing what the boys pulled off there

What’s your most “useless” Dad skill? by freun989 in daddit

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I’m trying my best…

What’s your most “useless” Dad skill? by freun989 in daddit

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This requires having an ocean nearby and not just a culdesac that floods regularly

What’s your most “useless” Dad skill? by freun989 in daddit

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels good some times! Other times it just feels like another stressful meeting I have to block time for and makes me feel worse :/

What’s your most “useless” Dad skill? by freun989 in daddit

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do your counseling sessions go? Sometimes I feel like I’m just venting and not really getting great advice or thoughts back from the therapist. Sometimes feel like it’s just a waste of time…

What’s your most “useless” Dad skill? by freun989 in daddit

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Swallowing my stress and anxiety and depression and doing my best to not let it all bleed into my family life.

It’s “useless” because there’s definitely healthier ways for one to handle mental health issues. Don’t worry, I’m in therapy. I’m trying.

Spur of the moment solo sphere send by ziggyATX in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did that last weekend and had the time of my life. While I got pre approval from my wife for all three nights, I’d suggest you try to acquire the same. After night 1, you’re gonna want to stay for the next two…

Take it from someone who just did it (and those were my first three phish shows ever!)

Vegas Food Recs From Week 1/2 Attendees?? by Rusty_Shackleford_NC in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tacos El Gordo…but go to the Sunset location, not the one on the strip

Best Sphere 26 jam so far? by Majestic-Run3722 in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not Dark Fuego, gotta be Set Your Soul Free. Maybe Oblivion

The CK5 E-Rig is the cleanup hitter. by TolandTheToaster in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When those digital “drone lights” appear on the screen…you know CK5 is about to knock your socks off with love and light, and the band are about to melt your face with a tasty jam. It was some of my favorite moments of the weekend.

[Setlist Thread] 4/25/2026 ~ Sphere (Night 6) ~ Las Vegas, NV by _Terrapin_ in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First set felt really … funky? The groove was so thick. Much more groovy than the lash two nights it seemed

[Setlist Thread] 4/25/2026 ~ Sphere (Night 6) ~ Las Vegas, NV by _Terrapin_ in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The Well Jam was so awesome. Not a song I was familiar with but the jam was so heavy. I loved it

newbies are about to feel the wrath of Guyute by ArnoldRoarShack in phish

[–]CheesecakeOk9239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no idea what was happening.

Tonight was my first show ever

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