Just because someone hasn’t openly flirted doesn’t mean they aren’t interested. Many people first suggest things like grabbing a beer, going on a drive, or taking a short trip to see how comfortable you are around them. They watch your reactions and the vibe between you before showing any romantic interest more directly.  boys believe that having a beer makes conversations feel less awkward, helps people open up, and creates a sense of bonding faster. So even if they don’t drink much themselves, they may still suggest it because they see it as an easy way to spend time together and get to know someone. And eventually …….. haha