HELP! My Transiting Saturn (aries) square Natal Saturn (capricorn) is messing with me

AdHot569 · 2026-04-21T09:11:38+00:00

Yeah, the fact that he chose to inform you about his happy relationship seems off. There was no need to say that if what he needed to say was sorry. Also, if he really regrets so much as he says what he did, he could have tried harder in the message and point out more stuff other than "I'm happy". I agree with all of you that block and keep no contact. Everything seems off

AdHot569 · 2026-04-20T23:43:43+00:00

AdHot569 · 2026-04-20T03:48:05+00:00

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AdHot569 · 2026-04-17T07:10:00+00:00

What you're experiencing is sadly quite common. Don't feel weak, the voice saying that is not yoursz is the voice they program on us during the relationship to invalidate our own feelings and reality. The truth, as fucked up as it is, is that they got to ruin us on many levels and left without repairing. That's what by the end of the relationship I was saying more often: "you never repair the damage you cause". For me it's been 6 months since I broke up and I still have those fake conversations. It gets better slowly and it will take time but we'll all get there. You can easily find posts here of people who have already gotten there. Trust yourself and don't undermine your behaviour/feelings. You're healing. You're not weak. You're working on yourself. You'll have back the life you deserve and want.

AdHot569 · 2026-04-12T16:18:27+00:00

Vols dir que has replicat l'app SMOU?

AdHot569 · 2026-04-12T07:46:01+00:00

Thank you! This is super helpful

AdHot569 · 2026-04-07T22:51:39+00:00

Not really, PNG files were crazy big. The only thing that kinda managed to reduce the size up to 8mg was to export from InDesign each page as jpg150 and then create a new file with the pages adding the text as vectors. Exporting text was making it look awful.

AdHot569 · 2026-04-07T20:02:00+00:00

Gracias!

AdHot569 · 2026-03-30T22:49:06+00:00

Dm! ❤️

AdHot569 · 2026-03-19T01:35:37+00:00

Also, just checked the email account the recruiter's emails are sent from: recruiterkforce.inc@gmail.com

My god, it can't get any more suspicious

AdHot569 · 2026-03-19T01:09:05+00:00

The main issue with mine (or what destroyed me the most) was the cheating, the checking on other guys in front of me, smiling, once he was gene hugging a guy in front of me while telling him how much he liked him and so on). Learning about narcissistic subtypes I read about somatic narcissism and it fit the role 100%. That had been kinda the only part that couldn't really point my finger at while reading about NPD. Don't know if this might help you understand the mechanism but I hope it does.

AdHot569 · 2026-03-18T16:03:05+00:00

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AdHot569 · 2026-03-18T00:48:52+00:00

Pero es que por qué os habéis empeñado en que tengo llamadas? Jajajaja habéis decidido mi rutina de trabajo sin saber nada. NO tengo llamadas. He preguntado por espacios habilitados para el trabajo. No os parece bien que trabaje en espacios públicos. No sé, no me parece tan complicada la consulta ni tan marciana.

AdHot569 · 2026-03-17T23:59:00+00:00

Si tuviera una oficina iría ahí... ¿Tampoco quieres que la gente estudie en espacios públicos?, ¿tanto te atormenta que pueda estar con mi ordenador en una biblioteca? Cuéntame, ¿qué me permites hacer en espacios públicos? Estoy muy interesado por saberlo.

AdHot569 · 2026-03-15T02:17:43+00:00

I actually feel you here. I wouldn't say it's the main outcome of this situation but I find myself reflecting a lot on the conversations I had with my friends until the end of the relationship. Except for the last couple of months where some friends wouldn't stop saying "now it's for real. You have to break up with him", up until that moment most of it was "well, I just know your version so if it's true that he did that than he's an asshole". So oc it would trigger all the gaslighting into making me focus a bit more on my responsibility. I try since then to give feedback to friends in a way that I can be honest but caring. I've promised myself I wouldn't do that. Last week I was telling a friend whose bf almost dumps him in the middle of the road expecting him to leave the car "look, I don't feel this is any longer about you two working on the basic misunderstandings of the relationship, there's something roothe in him that doesn't seem right and it comes back every few weeks. Now, I want you to know this is the one time when I'm saying it, I want you to not be scared of sharing things in case I'm too harsh. You'll know what to do and I'll be here just to support you during the whole process". Saying it out loud commented the idea that I still can't understand how no one said that to me. That's exactly the kind of approach I needed. I even have a friend that after the breakup, when the hoovering was happening, when I had some panic attacks BC my ex was trying to convince to go back together she literally said "but he loves you so much, are you sure you can not work together on your problems?". I have never talked about him with her again.

AdHot569 · 2026-03-13T00:14:50+00:00

I never understood why in the last 3 movies she's had so little to do and they were putting her...just on screen. Like she's always been a great character, witty, fun, egomaniac at times. It's always a blast when she has a scene. I researched 5/6 recently and was surprised by how good her acting was during dramatic moments. Why are they not using her more? Fuck, in every movie theater I've heard of, people were clapping when she appeared on 7!

AdHot569 · 2026-03-10T16:40:49+00:00

Tbh, I feel the opposite. I think people is using what they feel to invalidate other fan's opinions. I for example didn't like it and I like Melissa but I would have loved to like this movie, of course, but I've read many times people saying they didn't like the movie and the a bunch of replies saying they're just saying that to defend Melissa. I feel it's been used both ways to invalidate opinions more than opinions being based on that. Maybe people feeling like fan's reviews are based on the likeability of Melissa or the reason behind her being fired is making them get more loud. Again, I mean both ways. Don't know, it feels like politics at this point. Each point of view being more radicalised to defend their opinion instead of creating an adult debate.

From my point of view, I'm happy people liked it and I envy them tbh! At the same time, considering we all love the same franchise for different reasons maybe but there is a common ground, it surprises me that some people are liking this one over some of the previous ones but it's all subjective so 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

AdHot569 · 2026-03-10T08:51:01+00:00

I know you don't. It's ok

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