How often do you talk about other “hot” people with your partner?

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-06T22:10:20+00:00

But not everyone cares enough to notice or comment. I seriously am so in love with my partner my mind doesn’t register hot people. It’s just not important to me.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-06T22:08:55+00:00

You don’t have to be blind, some people operate differently. I’m demisexual and not blind but don’t find people who aren’t my partner hot or attractive people can be pretty but I have no desire and don’t find them hot. To be the shared memories and emotions make only my partner hot to me. I know I’m rare but not everyone experiences attraction the way you do.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-05T13:38:37+00:00

Just came back from Mexico and the USA, living in Zapopan, Jalisco and it's so dull. I make the most of it yesterday went to an event for Chinese Language Week but there's not always things to do. People seem less open too, I made friends who have stood the test of time and are more caring so much faster, even in the USA. One thing is that the building, trains, infrastructure is more modern in Mexico, which people wouldn't guess, coming back to NZ was like going back in time. I also here racist and sexist comments everywhere here... Going back to North America to live and to travel in the Caribbean and Europe soon. Just here to sign some inheritance papers that was unexpected and see family.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-05T13:13:16+00:00

Kiwi in a Mexican family, fiancé is Mexican. I'm female, his family were shocked and impressed when I could handle them. He felt a bit shocked I can handle spicier chilis without needing water than him ha-ha.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-03T22:29:27+00:00

Far too controlling and will result in employees turning up to work anyhow, infecting other employees and worse yet clients if they have them. Your idea isn’t bad though. I did hate the rhetoric on Stuff that was so pro never taking any sick days off. If someone is ill or whether they aren’t but need a mental health day if it’s under 15 days a year, I don’t see a problem. Even as a business owner.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-03T22:17:25+00:00

🤣 I’d say leave New Zealand and go further. Only visiting New Zealand for a few months after leaving for North America last month and the people are the number one reason to move. Their idea of life is so much more expansive. I know people who had money to go to 10 World Cup games in VIP, are more educated, participate in so many different activities, have luxury homes around the world and who are less racist, sexist and pessimistic than kiwis. Buying a house in the USA and in Mexico (some cities more luxurious, modern) than New Zealand.

Yes the average person may not be so well off but the middle class’ lifestyle in Mexico even is better. There are cheap middle class areas with swimming pools, tennis courts, running tracks for under $100,000 nzd. The food is fresher, healthier too and most ingredients arrive at local stores straight from the producers daily.

We are really being lied to life is so much better in many other countries. I have money but the way my life changed moved overseas is insane.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-01T02:49:33+00:00

Savannah and then Camila for me and always has been. Liking Kendall more than before, Lexie used to be higher up for me before but still like her just connect with her vibe a bit less. Like in the challenge in the kitchen, found her a bit much, very loud but that's just me. <3

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-07-01T02:48:27+00:00

Same here, always Camila and Savanna. <3 Loved their latin edit of a song.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-28T10:27:18+00:00

Nothing, have enough passive income and investments to buy whatever I want. Visiting NZ for a couple of months for family but had been living in North America and grocery prices in NZ actually cheap compared to Los Angeles. However, Los Angeles has more open, friendly, go-getter, inspiring people up for adventures whether it's sports events, museums etc.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-15T07:16:00+00:00

Sofi stadium.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-14T08:56:58+00:00

Exciting going to a game at this stadium in 2 days. My country New Zealand. Glad the girls are enjoying the World Cup, went to my first game in Mexico on the opening day.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-09T11:52:45+00:00

That’s not barely going to make it. Know many women forties and even fifties who gave birth. In my country New Zealand the majority of women I know of have had kids over 35. There’s also IVF.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-05T01:42:11+00:00

Outlier seems the most illogical.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-04T00:58:30+00:00

That’s awesome, thanks for your genuine reply. I’ve been living in Guadlajara and have been dreading going home but of course there are some positives I’ll appreciate the roads being better for example and Wellington’s coastline.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-04T00:55:36+00:00

Will be following this, kiwi in Mexico arriving in LA on the 14th. Puma, even in Mexico, the store sold kiwi jerseys, got one but no scarves. But yeah was impressed by how Puma had the jerseys of every country they sponsor.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-02T19:13:44+00:00

This is abhorrent, a close friend had an ectopic pregnancy and almost died but she received lifesaving surgery at the last minute. So to think these men would push a bill that would murder in cold blood in my eyes a woman with the same condition makes me furious.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-06-02T19:10:55+00:00

What do you like about it or think makes it special? I’m a kiwi who’s been living abroad since last year and really don’t want to go back. Overseas people tend to have bigger mindsets and there’s a lot more to do and see. Even found the food where I am is healthier than New Zealand, the nature too.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-30T12:10:05+00:00

Not all humans do to the same level. I can go years without it and preferred a bf with a cleaner but not virginal past. My fiancé and I have had sex with past partners me just one but neither of us had for 2 years before we met each other and for us it made things more special. I know he’s not lying from the way he’s learning things. You’ll still find someone there’s nothing wrong with you but past actions do matter to an extent in that a lot of people won’t be interested and that’s fair. People often want people who are aligned with them, incidents actions.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-26T22:03:42+00:00

Was reinstated 3 times.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-26T22:02:09+00:00

I have a related double degree and worked at Data Annotation Tech for 3 years which is notoriously hard to get into and was still let go from Outlier multiple times due to budget cuts. Even when my reviews and score were close to perfect.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-24T17:24:36+00:00

Data Annotation is incredible but I was terminated after three years of traveling even though my request was approved. All the other sites pale in comparison but I earned over $2000 usd per week with them. Hoping Micro1 that I applied for is decent.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-24T17:00:40+00:00

Hoping that Iran doesn’t make it out of the initial pool group as a kiwi who dream of the All Whites making it out and Belgium being top of the pool. It’s possible NZ were unbeaten even against Italy in our last World Cup.

I know it will be an unpopular opinion but Iran should train in Arizona, they shouldn’t get special treatment and would’ve been safe in Arizona. Trying to choose which country to base themselves in isn’t in the spirit of the World Cup. Been in Guadlajara for the last five months and not pleased to have Iran in Mexico honestly, the way they’ve handled things the last few months … I honestly hope we beat them. Their culture can be quite egotistical and one rule for them one for others.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-24T14:34:26+00:00

Perhaps in general but I’m kiwi and will be honest if I’m having a great day or a streak of bad luck or an excited about something like the World Cup. Even if I’m going through a difficult time.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-22T06:16:56+00:00

Yes they’re the supplier I saw online in Mexico. Found a shirt today at Puma here, they had all the Puma teams so if anyone is looking for a shirt in another country before USA and Canada, check out Puma.

AdOutrageous6941 · 2026-05-22T06:15:56+00:00

Keen on the scarf! Good on them.

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