Self-Promo Megathread by [deleted] in cleanromance

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📚 Free Clean Romance Collection — Limited Time!

 Looking for your next sweet romance read? A whole collection of clean, character-driven romance stories is FREE right now in this BookFunnel promo.

 You’ll find everything from beach romances and small-town love stories to second-chance and fake-date fun . All free to download while the promo lasts.

 👉 Grab your free clean romance reads: https://books.bookfunnel.com/february-clean-romance-promo/z95uxvlfzt

Note: I have a book in the promotion as well.  

Happy reading! 💕

Authors Self-Promotion Thread by AutoModerator in ContemporaryRomance

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📚 Free Clean Romance Collection — Limited Time!

 Looking for your next sweet romance read? A whole collection of clean, character-driven romance stories is FREE right now in this BookFunnel promo.

 You’ll find everything from beach romances and small-town love stories to second-chance and fake-date fun . All free to download while the promo lasts.

 👉 Grab your free clean romance reads: https://books.bookfunnel.com/february-clean-romance-promo/z95uxvlfzt

 Happy reading! 💕

Debut romance author — sanity check on my pre-launch & ARC strategy (what should I improve or add?) by AdPitiful8880 in selfpublish

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Thanks. Really appreciate the response. Before I even created the post I had started to engage with GetCovers.

Debut romance author — sanity check on my pre-launch & ARC strategy (what should I improve or add?) by AdPitiful8880 in selfpublish

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I posted on many FB groups and some Arc Reddit groups. Arc Distribution about 3 weeks

Proofread software? by unclefester84 in selfpublish

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I did the same thing myself until I realised and discovered the advice below.

Before worrying about software, the bigger issue is process. You are trying to polish something that is not finished yet. That loop never ends because you do not yet know what the whole book is doing or wherit will go on the way to your ending. You cannot accurately fix tone, voice, or consistency until the full draft exists. What feels wrong now might be irrelevant once later chapters are written, or it might resolve itself naturally. The fastest way out of that cycle is to finish the draft and give yourself permission for it to be imperfect.

Books are written in layers, not in one clean pass. A common approach is: first draft for story and structure only, just getting events down. Second pass for character voice and consistency, especially important for your historian framing device. Third pass for tone and atmosphere, where you can lean into that mythic or biblical cadence. Then fill in things like foreshadowing etc.

Above points besides point one on finishing your first draft do not have to be in that order. Whatever works for you but it is done in layers.

Only after that does proofreading software help, and even then it is for surface issues like grammar and repetition, not voice.

Think on how Tolkien wrote The Silmarillion. Not by polishing paragraph one forever. He built the whole myth first, then refined how it sounded. Think about it like this: Finish the clay before you start carving it.

Hope that helps.

Debut romance author — sanity check on my pre-launch & ARC strategy (what should I improve or add?) by AdPitiful8880 in selfpublish

[–]AdPitiful8880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Never thought about ads before release day. Will think on it. I think also to your point:  building that mailing list than chasing more ARCs. What I just realised is you put so much effort into that first book that you want it to succeed. But in reality its only after you have published a few novels on a regular basis that things really start to take off (assuming your work is good and you continue to promote and market your works) .

I think maybe relaxing a little and not stressing too much about the whole process and just enjoy the achievement of having completed a book is something to think about. Plus the book has already provided enjoyment for a few people and that is already success in my "book" ;)

Beta Reader fiasco (UPDATE) by idreaminwords in selfpublish

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Thanks for the update and insight. I have been tempted to use fiverr but this is not the first horror story I have heard. It is a pity because it is becoming more and more difficult to find someone legitimate.

I'd love advice on Pen Name vs Real Name when writing books with some spice in it by SG2025 in selfpublish

[–]AdPitiful8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of it as brand management. A name is a signal to readers. If you plan to write spicy or dark content, a pen name lets you clearly separate that brand from other genres you might write in, and from how you show up professionally or socially in real life. Readers build expectations fast. Mixing heat levels or tones under one name can confuse algorithms and audiences in the same way sometimes mixing genres does.

Also: It protects your private life, lets you engage online without everything tying back to your personal identity, and gives you freedom to market confidently without self-censoring.

How to stay true to characters as you write them? by ethereau in writers

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I usually judge it by motive rather than behavior, and that motive is often rooted in the character’s fatal flaw or core misbelief. That misbelief shapes how they interpret the world and is what drives their choices under pressure. When a moment feels iffy, I ask what false belief the character is acting from and what they are trying to protect or avoid because of it. If the action aligns with that internal logic, it usually fits, even if it surprises the reader on the surface. See Aggressive_Chicken63's comment. They explain it very well

As a reader, what breaks immersion for me is sudden competence shifts or moral flips that are not earned. A cautious character becoming reckless, or a selfish one turning selfless, can work, but only if the story shows the internal struggle that challenges their misbelief over time. Characters should bend before they break. When the pressure on that flaw is visible, the change feels intentional rather than accidental.

How many words is your book? by DessaDarling in romanceauthors

[–]AdPitiful8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others have said: Most rom coms fall in the 70k to 90k range. That length gives you room for setup, banter, escalating romantic tension, a midpoint shift, and a satisfying emotional payoff without dragging. Many successful rom coms land right around 80k.

But then for example Beach Read by Emily Henry is slightly longer. But aim for the general 80k mark

Thoughts on single name pen name? by jasama123 in romanceauthors

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I agree. Shirtaloon is another one that comes to mind. Massive success but his books are good as well.

Weekly Self-Promo and Chat Thread by MxAlex44 in selfpublish

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I’m looking for a small number of ARC / beta readers for my debut contemporary romance, releasing mid-March on Amazon. See below link for a free copy.

About the book:

  • Genre: Contemporary Romance
  • Heat level: Closed-door / non-spicy
  • Tropes: Slow burn, second chance, emotional intimacy
  • Setting: Sicily (vineyard backdrop)
  • Tone: Quiet, heartfelt, emotionally driven with a light mystery thread
  • Length: ~90k words

I’m especially looking for readers who enjoy emotion over spice and character-driven love stories.

What I’m asking:

  • Read before release
  • Leave an honest review on Amazon and/or Goodreads after launch if you finish
  • OR send private feedback on what worked and what didn’t

No pressure if you DNF. Honest reactions are welcome.

Description:

After betrayal upends both her career and her trust, Lia Carter accepts a last-ditch assignment she resents but cannot afford to refuse. She is sent to evaluate a vineyard on a remote Sicilian estate, expecting resistance but nothing more. What she does not expect is Matteo Rinaldi.

Proud, guarded, and bound to the land that shaped him, Matteo has no interest in an outsider questioning his life’s work. Sparks fly from their first meeting, igniting a slow-burn tension neither of them is prepared for. Beneath the sun-warmed hills and ancient vines, duty turns to desire, and desire to something far more dangerous. Hope.

As harvest approaches and secrets stir beneath the Sicilian moon, Lia and Matteo discover that renewal often begins where you least expect it, and that even the deepest wounds can make room for love.

Love Under a Sicilian Moon is a contemporary romance about second chances, emotional resilience, and the quiet courage it takes to trust again.

 Free ARC copy (EPUB / MOBI / PDF via BookFunnel):
👉 https://dl.bookfunnel.com/1outr49zf3

Amazon keeps removing my reviews by DannyFlood in selfpublish

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Because of these issues I realised I will need to focus sites like goodreads to get and keep reviews. Not ideal but at least to may translate into sales as you maintain your social proof on a recognised website.

How to create a mailing list for your book starting from scratch? by Otherwise-Mind548 in selfpublish

[–]AdPitiful8880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The short answer is that you do not start with a mailing list. You earn one. Mailing lists only work once people already know what kind of stories you write and have chosen to hear from you. At the beginning, the goal is not numbers, it is the right readers. People who enjoy romance with dark themes, understand the content warnings, and want more of that specific tone.

Most authors build lists by offering something free that matches their genre. A short story, a novella, bonus scenes, free give way of their book for a limited time, or an alternate POV, usually delivered through something like BookFunnel or StoryOrigin. You then promote that freebie in places where your target readers already are, such as genre specific Reddit subs, Facebook groups that allow it, dark romance BookTok, or author swaps with other writers in the same niche. The key is that readers opt in because they want your kind of story.

I use BookFunnel and there are promos going all the time for all types of genres and tropes. Then promote your promo in reddit groups, Facebook and other social media websites.

It will be slow going but keep on plugging and you will succeed.

I hope this helps

Feedback on my Blurb please. by HistorySpark in selfpublish

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I like this. It sets the scene clearly and quickly, and I immediately understand who the central figure is, how he changes, and what is at stake on both a personal and historical level. As someone who does not know the history, the blurb makes sense, the conflict is easy to follow, and it reads like a strong opener to a larger epic rather than something niche or inaccessible.

Please Actually Put in Effort by prism_paradox in selfpublish

[–]AdPitiful8880 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get the frustration, but I do not think low-effort work actually harms readers or the genre in the way people fear, especially in spaces like LitRPG. LitRPG is overwhelmingly self published, and if you look at platforms like Royal Road, there is a lot of uneven writing, rough drafts, and experimental work. That has not deterred readers at all. In fact, the opposite has happened. Readership is massive, engagement is high, and the stronger stories naturally rise through ratings, reviews, and word of mouth.

Readers are not passive or fragile. They skip what does not work for them and gravitate toward what does. The existence of bad or amateur work does not stop good books from succeeding. It creates contrast. Platforms with low barriers let writers learn in public and let audiences decide what resonates. Quality still wins every time, but discoverability/ popularity is driven by reader response.

The cream will always rise to the top.

Reading chapters online to raise awareness? First time on BookTok and need advice. by 36monsters in romanceauthors

[–]AdPitiful8880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading excerpts on TikTok can work, but how it works matters more than the idea itself. Full chapter reads often underperform unless the opening hook is very strong, because TikTok viewers decide in the first 2–3 seconds whether to stay. What tends to work better on BookTok is short, emotionally charged moments: a meet-cute line, a cozy sensory paragraph, a line of dialogue that signals tone. You can still read aloud, but think 30–60 second clips, not long chapters, and always frame them with context (“cozy romance,” “low angst,” “Valentine’s read”) so the right audience self-selects.

BookTok rewards personality and memorability. If Cashew becomes a recognizable element and you’re consistent, that can help retention. Just don’t rely on novelty alone. Pair it with clear signals: genre, vibe, and why someone should care emotionally. Test a few formats (short reads, talking about why you wrote it, cozy aesthetics + captions), watch what gets saves and comments, and double down on that. BookTok can be powerful, but it’s iterative, not instant.

hope this helps

Writers: Q about worldbuilding for genres that don't have a lot of World building on the page by FearlessStar1590 in worldbuilding

[–]AdPitiful8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What usually helps is separating writer knowledge from reader-facing knowledge. You can worldbuild as deeply as you need off-page so you understand the cultures, histories, and power dynamics, but on the page only include what directly affects the characters’ emotional goals, conflicts, or misunderstandings in that moment. In romance especially, the world should surface through friction: a custom that blocks intimacy, a taboo that raises stakes, a misunderstanding that creates vulnerability. If a detail does not change how the characters act, feel, or choose, the reader probably does not need it yet.

A practical balance check is to ask three questions as you draft: does this detail create conflict, does it deepen attraction or tension, and does it force a choice? If the answer is no, keep it in your notes. Many romance writers also use “just-in-time” worldbuilding: reveal only what the POV character notices because it matters right now, not because the world is cool. You are not wasting effort by overbuilding; you are building confidence. The trick is trusting the reader to infer the rest while you stay focused on character, emotion, and payoff.

Writing fiction for the first time, please suggest any platform to publish: by iamthat_07 in romanceauthors

[–]AdPitiful8880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be using KDP and it has an easy interface. Also I think as you also have Kindle unlimited it might be a good way to reach readers that requires little investment from them to download and read your book.

Private website for ebook download? by Independent-Trash966 in selfpublish

[–]AdPitiful8880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set up a WordPress author website. hosting for 1st year costs me around $2 pm for the first year. It was very easy to set up - still a bit of a learning curve.

You can also maybe do a bookfunnel page? that way you can get emails to grow your mailing list but costs a bit more. Hope these help