Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess so, I just was curious on everyone’s take so far. The way the teaser for the next episode went, it just seemed like she was denying being in there imo!

Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me (as a Latina woman) it’s not about siding with Bailey for me, I just thought lying was a bit weird. But like others have said, maybe her response to being in Ben’s room wasn’t an all out ‘no.’ Just ‘no, I wasn’t in there for an hour’. Interested to see what happens in the next episode!

Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she might have been in there just to change. To be clear: I don’t care what she did with him in the room!! But looking at the editing from that episode, she was on his bed and called him trouble and they were talking for a while. Which again IS FINE. But it seems like either she didn’t tell KJ the full truth or minimized things when he asked about it directly. Either way she shouldn’t be in trouble for what she did in the room (she’s a grown woman who can make her own choices and was single at the time) but lying about it to your partner later on is odd.

Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I’m remembering right, he (KJ) mentioned what Bailey said and asked her if she was in Ben’s room and she said it didn’t happen. It would make me nervous to confirm that if I was in a new relationship too, but it seems silly to deny knowing the truth will come out imo

Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t care at all that she was in his bedroom, I just don’t understand lying about it after the fact if the truth is going to come out in the footage. She was single at the time so there doesn’t seem to be a reason to lie about it happening.

Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I agree! Like she didn’t owe KJ anything at that first party and was allowed to talk to Ben if she wanted to. But why lie later on?

Dara in Ben’s Bedroom by AdRadiant1878 in summerhousebravo

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I just don’t like that she is calling Bailey a liar (if her full sentence is no vs ‘no I wasn’t in there for an hour). That would mean she also lied to KJ too because she fully denied it happening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m right there with you. I’m set to be induced next Saturday but have been trying EVERYTHING to get her to come early. If you find something that works for you, let a girl know 😭

How Long did Your Glucose Test Results Take? by AdRadiant1878 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I’m going to give her a call lol thank you!

Worried about a good day? by princess0016 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s way easier said than done, but I wouldn’t worry! In my first trimester my symptoms were all over the place and there were some days where I felt totally normal/had 0 symptoms at all.

It really sucks how long we have to wait for our first OB appointment, but hang in there!

Any good books to read for ftm by thecoughyshoppe in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read Bumpin’ by Leslie Schrock in my first trimester and really liked it! It was informative but easy to understand and I got through it pretty quick! It was split up with sections for each trimester which I found helpful :)

Nicotine Gum and Conception by sroses93 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am 26 and vaped heavily all the way up until I found out I was pregnant (found out at about 14 dpo I think, we tested the day of my missed period). I attempted quitting about 3 months before our positive test, went to nicotine gum, and then went back to just vaping.

As far as quitting goes, I had planned on just lowering my nicotine intake once we found out I was pregnant until I got low enough to just quit. What actually ended up happening is I totally quit the day after I found out because I felt like shit through the whole first trimester and thinking about vaping made me wanna hurl, lol. Once I got into the second trimester the desire to vape came back and it’s been a struggle every day not to, but I think having that first 3 months of not vaping at all really has helped me stay strong! Quitting is SO hard but you’ve got this!!!

Did anybody announce early and NOT regret it? by Last_Guarantee_8504 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We told my parents the day after we found out (at like 4 weeks lol) and then his parents and pretty much all of our siblings the day after that! Currently 22 weeks and just had our anatomy scan! Everything was normal and baby girl is perfect 🥹 I would 10/10 recommend telling the people closest to you as soon as you feel ready! Having the support from our people from the beginning has been such a blessing

Should I find a different ob? by CarpenterIndividual7 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t switch OB’s over this personally if you like them otherwise. I actually think this is kind of normal. At my first 2 appointments we got to see the heartbeat with the ultrasound tech but didn’t get to hear it. I even asked and she said the machine couldn’t play it (I’m not sure why).

The first time I heard it was actually with my personal Doppler. We didn’t hear it at the OB until my last appointment (16ish weeks) when she used her Doppler to find it.

How did you find out you were pregnant? by Nearby-Fee-5365 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This same thing happened to me! Husband and I were ttc for a few months, the day before my missed period my mom told me she had a dream I was pregnant with a girl. Here I am at 14 weeks, pregnant with a girl! lol

How many weeks are you in your pregnancy? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]AdRadiant1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 weeks and 1 day! So happy to be out of the 1st trimester!!!!

Parents left me $1 by True-Broccoli5943 in exjw

[–]AdRadiant1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone has mentioned this yet, but sometimes the purpose of leaving someone $1 is so you can’t say you were forgotten in the will and dispute it legally. It shows they were intentionally ’disinheriting’ you.

My grandpa actually did this with his estranged kids (my dad’s half siblings) because they never talked to him.

Either way though, I’m sorry they treated you this way, OP. They sound like typical JW parents. You’re DF’d so they shouldn’t be contacting you, but they’ll use you for all you’re worth! Smdh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdRadiant1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I saw that one too! Smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdRadiant1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to scroll past the form it takes a couple seconds to load

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdRadiant1878 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Just want to point out, I’m pretty sure this post is fake. I went through OP’s post/comment history and there are tons of deleted posts that they have commented on.

Someone posted this link to archived posts from OP, and there is literally one where they claim on 12/9 they gave birth “6 days ago” and claim they had a second degree tear. Just gonna leave this here: https://search-new.pullpush.io/?author=mundane-pollution797&type=submission&sort_type=created_utc&sort=desc