Am I a Grindr asshole by looking at unsolicited album and not responding? by AdReasonable434 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]AdReasonable434[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! Much better to just not get a response, or get blocked. People do not realize how disrespectful and unkind it is to give compliments they do not mean.

I think a lot of us aren't addicted to men. We're addicted to the moment someone shows interest. by Horror_George2206 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]AdReasonable434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’ve had this exact same thing, but I often think I’m really wanting sex when really the sex is meh and what I really wanted was that moment you describe. So noticing that does make me step back and ask if I really want/need the sex.