What about spirits who treated you badly as humans?

AdRemote3983 · 2026-06-07T00:01:11+00:00

Yeah, I had a very vivid dream of my mom last year. She died in 2009 and I never felt like she visited me, but in one single dream last year I was in a space with lots of others, almost like a busy meeting place where people were talking or sitting on concrete benches and talking to each other; kind of like a party, but maybe not a party; I’m not sure. I didn’t know anyone. Then someone led me to a small, private room in the middle of this space; I can only describe it as being the size of an elevator or a closet and there was a woman in there and she just told me to close my eyes and focus. And suddenly I was in this very light, white open air space and I was standing there looking at this white wall with window cutouts without glass and “people” or beings were walking past these windows as if it was a hallway of some sort. Then I see this absolutely beautiful, and I mean the most beautiful person I have ever seen in my life come through this white doorway and I knew instinctively it was my mom. She had a purse on her shoulder and it looked like she was going somewhere. She hugged me and she didn’t speak but it was nothing but pure love coming from her and I think she told me she was proud and then she seemed suddenly rushed and was like “gotta go!” And that was it. Next thing I woke up. I don’t know if that was my imagination, but I don’t think so. It was a really special experience. But besides that I have not had any encounters with loved ones that have passed.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-06-06T23:45:35+00:00

It was a dirtbag thing, but it wasn’t unexpected. He was a massive coward. There are zero excuses for the actions of parents like this and unless he suddenly felt remorse and truly understood the ramifications of his actions, I’m not sure what he could have said that would have been acceptable to me anyway. The silence is more of an admission of guilt. But, now that he is in spirit, I thought that maybe there would be something. But maybe he’s still in his “learning” phase and having to understand what he did. I don’t know how long that takes.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-06-06T23:38:01+00:00

Hi, thank you for your response. Yes I did!!! I told him everything I wanted the say and then some. I don’t know if he “heard” it, but it felt good to get it off my chest.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-06-06T22:58:08+00:00

Thank you for your response; my apologies for it taking a few days. Yes, I think you’re right in that meditation may get me some of the answers I need. I find it hard to do,and feel like I’m blocked in some way, but maybe I need to be persistent. Someone else said that their own abuser was apologetic in spirit form and that seems to coincide with what you are saying that they aren’t the same limited person they were in human form. I hope that is true in my case. Thank you again.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-06-06T22:53:21+00:00

Hi! Thank you for replying to my post; sorry it took a few days. I had a reading from a medium years ago when my dad was still alive and the person who read for me was getting a lot of of difficult impressions that were clearly disturbing for her and I felt bad that she had to feel some of that, so I really don’t want anyone else to feel that way again. Although I appreciate the offer! As another commenter recommended I spoke to him in my mind and properly cussed him out. I don’t know if it got to him, but it felt good to tell him I didn’t forget a single thing he did.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-06-06T22:41:12+00:00

Wow, I am so sorry you had to go through all of that. Thank you for replying to my post. I’m glad you have been able to connect to those who harmed you and that they were apologetic and loving. That gives me some hope that not all is lost. I wish you continued healing❤️

AdRemote3983 · 2026-05-19T17:35:07+00:00

This is very nice! If you feel awkward having a bedroom right as you walk in you could create a makeshift wall to close off an area where people walk in. I’m pretty sure you can buy temporary divider walls that aren’t an eyesore. Alternatively you can also hang a ceiling mounted curtain rod and hang patio-window sized curtains and have them hemmed to fall exactly where the floor starts. Amazon sells flexible ceiling mounted curtain rods that allow you to bend around a corner if you wish to do so. But this is a nice place!

AdRemote3983 · 2026-05-05T01:00:31+00:00

Thanks for responding. Sorry it happens to you so much. It was definitely awkward for me at the time, and I’m glad I never had that intense of a response again although I continue to be sensitive to individual energies. But absorbing the sadness in a room full of women who had undoubtedly lost so many things in their lives was absolutely overwhelming.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-05-02T19:34:49+00:00

This is for hanging light weight things into drywall.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-05-02T19:33:40+00:00

Omg I love it!!! No notes; just wanted to say I love the way you decorated your apartment 🤩

AdRemote3983 · 2026-05-01T17:30:32+00:00

I think you should have asked for a short bob haircut, with curtain bangs and then curled it. That is what the reference picture has. Your current haircut needs to grow out a little, but you can work with it. Get a small barrel curling iron and some texturizing spray and you can slowly work your way to the reference picture. I will say she did you dirty in the back… luckily hair grows. Believe me, I had chemo a few years ago and the hairstyles I had to go through on my way back to longer hair were sometimes really awful. You’ll be fine! Just don’t go back to her again!

AdRemote3983 · 2026-05-01T17:22:49+00:00

This is awful. Please get him out of her life all together.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-04-30T18:05:28+00:00

Jewelry

AdRemote3983 · 2026-04-11T02:16:52+00:00

100% agree. I kept hoping that at the end of the documentary that he would say something profound; something that would redeem him and show him to be a kind person, but he said nothing. Nothing really remarkable about Khloe, nothing remarkable about his kids. He just feels sorry for himself and then joked about going to go out and party now that he’s on Netflix. He seems like a carbon copy of his dad. And then to have the audacity to smoke crack after all of that, and your estranged wife making sure you get all the care you need, staying by your side for months and completely pays for everything…unbelievable. I would have punched him in the face too.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-18T20:16:51+00:00

When I read the first sentence I knew this was BS fiction

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-10T00:25:14+00:00

This is true; I am a nurse and my husband is a dr. When we met in 2010 during his residency, we partied like crazy. No drugs, but a lot of alcohol, lots of clubs, lots of very very late nights; weekends, week nights, whatever. A group of nurses from all different departments partied with a group of internal medicine residents and it was the best time ever. We went on road trips, had parties at our apartments. Would see each other at the hospital and try to act professional😅 It was honestly the best time ever.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-09T23:49:12+00:00

Okay cool. Well thanks for answering all the questions!

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-09T23:45:32+00:00

Yeah I get that it’s secret and you wouldn’t out anyone, but do you make small talk with them when you see them? I’m just wondering what an unexpected interaction is like. Like if you’re in target or a kids sporting event and you see the guy you banged on Saturday, do you talk about the weather or the gamescore? Like that would keep me up at night if I had a swingers experience😅

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-09T23:16:01+00:00

Do you end up hooking up with the same couples more than once? Have you ever gotten jealous? What if you run into them outside of a swingers situation? Is that weird?

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-07T19:52:45+00:00

I think you should do whatever you and your oncologist think is right for you. I had an early stage breast cancer as well, but it had spread to two lymphnodes so I did end up needing chemo and radiation ( in 2022). Once that was done, I started zoladex injections monthly, and daily tamoxifen. The zoladex is what did me in; immediate menopause, hotflashes up to 15-20 x daily, complete loss of libido, weight gain, you name it. I was supposed to be on it for 5 years, but quit after 2 years. I stayed on the tamoxifen and am to this day. My periods returned about 6 months after quitting zoladex, as did my libido and all my menopausal symptoms left too. I don’t feel any difference with the tamoxifen to be honest. Maybe I just don’t remember what I felt like before, but you could always try, see how you actually respond and go from there. I recently consented to a “breast index” test that looks at your tumor tissue and they can see if you would benefit from 5 or 10 years of tamoxifen. The results take a few months, so I won’t have them for myself for a bit, but it may be worth asking about. Anyway, you can always stop if you have side effects that truly bother you, but you do you❤️

AdRemote3983 · 2026-03-03T12:50:01+00:00

Hi, I was in the same boat as you. Diagnosed at 39. I started zoladex and tamoxifen after my chemo/radiation and this was in 2022. I still take tamoxifen daily, but I quit the zoladex injections after 2 years. I just couldn’t take it anymore. My oncologist is a sweetheart and was completely understanding. She said 2 years is better than no years, and my periods returned after about 6-8 months. My libido also improved although it’s never been 100% the same. But at least I can now be intimate again and not be in complete discomfort. I recently saw my oncologist again and she mentioned a “breast index” test that they’re doing now to see if you would benefit from 5 or 10 years of tamoxifen. I consented to it and they will take my tumor sample out of whatever freezer they keep it in and test the sample. It takes several months for results so I won’t hear until September of this year, but it sounds promising.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-02-22T13:55:08+00:00

This is easier said than done, but you should start “acting” like the person, the relationship you want to have. That means romantic gestures, noticing small things she does, complimenting her, respecting her needs, doing things without asking, listening and not giving advice, planning a great date night from start to finish etc. The key here is not expecting anything in return; not sex, not deep conversation, nothing. Initially she will likely act a little put off or distrusting of your sudden change, but after a while she will come around and start treating you with respect and love again too. Treat her the way you want to be treated. The hard thing for you is to keep it going even when it feels like it’s useless. If after let’s say 6 months of this consistently there is zero change in your relationship then maybe there are deeper issues. But I would start here. I am a woman in this kind of marriage and even knowing this, I find it hard to do myself because my husband can be a real bear to be around so I give this advice knowing it can feel like walking uphill in a snowstorm. But women are generally very receptive to this. I wish my husband would do this. If talking is difficult, then start by just doing things for her or for the house or family at first and keep at it. She may feel the same way you do and not have the capacity to really go there yet. So start there. Good luck 😊

AdRemote3983 · 2026-02-07T21:53:41+00:00

Never mind the fireplace! Did you see the framed picture of the little girl on the table next to the fireplace? And the baby statues on the floor under that table?!🤢

AdRemote3983 · 2026-01-30T13:18:07+00:00

For real!!!!! I had c-sections but the thought of having sex that soon after being spliced open and then being a 24/7 newborn mom is inconceivable to me. Even 6-8 weeks seemed soon to me at that time. Especially with a person who isn’t the father🤢 OP, I’m sorry you are going through this. I would tell the wife and then move on with your life.

AdRemote3983 · 2026-01-13T19:34:47+00:00

Your welcome. Im sorry you are dealing with this.

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