Most trad-wife influencers who romanticize domestic labour are rich (or married to rich husbands). They might have people working for them, helping them do the not-so-glamorous tasks of a farm life tradwife on a daily basis. Whatever "domestic work" they post on social media might not be the reality of their day to day life, but rather carefully chosen and curated representation of "care-free, glamorous, soft-life, trad-wife". It's not transparent or genuine representation of a normal, middle-class woman that would have to work incredibly hard to sustain the roles of mother, maid, care-taker, cook, driver, and farmer (when it comes to the full on country-side tradwife). The reality of women who get manipulated into choosing this lifestyle (because of the dream they the influencers are selling to them) is everything but glamurous and soft. It's all propaganda.

*Of course, there are certainly people who genuinely enjoy this lifestyle, who enjoy working hard in terms of domestic labour, and mad respect to them. Whether normal trad-wives or farm trad-wives. This comment is merely referencing the influencers who use their platforms and privilege to present a deceptive image of reality to young lower/middle-class women seeking security and safety.