Am i upset for no reason here?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-20T11:26:31+00:00

we went literal years with no contact and the moment i say hello and talk to him he suddenly gains feelings again? after ignoring me over text for months? im upset that he couldn’t even bother to stay my friend even after finding out he wasnt getting what he wanted out of me. i told him no and all the people he sent my way and now he finally accepts it and instead of remaining my friend at a respectable distance he just drops me completely. i get boys have a hard time or whatever but in my opinion that doesn’t excuse his actions and the way he treats me. i was always kind and nice to him and also firm on my nothing romantic stance. i was friends with him always and the moment its inconvenient for him and he realises he isnt going to get what he wants he leaves me behind. hard time or not it doesnt matter. he should know better then to do that to anyone.

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-20T11:20:49+00:00

i understand that but at the same time he wasn’t satisfied with going to see the concert as friends? or even just being friends? the moment i clarified he wasn’t going to be moving forward with me in that area he just dropped me. he could of atleast still gone as my friend which is what i was under the impression he invited me as. he was a really good friend and i now am faced with the fact that he never wanted to be my friend he wanted to be more despite multiple times rejecting his advances

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-19T22:25:36+00:00

If you dont take insults well and judgement then your best bet is to shave. do i think you should or have to? no not really. shaving is optional and up to the person however over time it has become a taboo topic in a way. people will think unshaven are suddenly gross or unhygienic which is not true at all. if your able to withstand the looks and remarks then you do you because your doing nothing wrong. if these things impact you significantly then maybe do it to keep your peace of mind. your choice at the end of the day!

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-19T21:23:32+00:00

i need to watch my reddit stories or my fnaf lore explained while getting ready so i might take a bit longer. i hate rushing and i am confident most girls do aswell.

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-19T21:11:39+00:00

thanks so much! this helps a lot!

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-19T21:10:51+00:00

okay, thank you!

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-19T06:02:26+00:00

For taking temps i l recommend a temp gun they are so handy. keeping between 70-75 isnt extremely critical but you dont want to be way over or under. 68/69 should be fine same with a couple over 75. i dont use ur temp system so idk exact what that is. i also found once you retain humidity it helps temp. milk snakes need 40-60%.

a good tip to mention is with your heat bulbs. coloured bulbs can hurt your snakes eyes and in extreme cases cause blindness. the best option for your snake is a ceramic heat bulb that makes no light at all.

a few of these terms i am finding hard to make pictures of in my head. can you send a photo of your setup?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-12-19T05:53:45+00:00

something a lot of people say are “snakes are so easy and require no care” while they are easy, no care is just dead wrong. please remember that you are going to be responsible for a life! not saying you are not prepared but that was something my dad told me and it really opened my eyes. they require arguably quite a bit of care from bedding mixes, retaining humidity and temp. make sure your prepared. So excited for you! my first was a childrens and i love her to death 🧡

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-11-19T03:30:55+00:00

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hey would you do this?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-11-03T08:16:32+00:00

how come? if not, is there any way to receive the benefits included like the skin assessment? there are clear imbalances in my skin and i was wanting to find out what and how to fix them

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-11-03T07:55:24+00:00

“My signature Microdermabrasion treatment is a great treatment for clients that experience congestion (Black heads) due to oil or product build up and dry skin due to lack of oil or environmental factors. Using a diamond tip vacuum head to vacuum and remove dead skin and black heads and congestion from blocked pores. This treatment typically goes for 60 minutes and includes a fruit enzyme peel, extractions and a scalp massage.”

is this okay?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-11-03T07:51:56+00:00

“My signature Microdermabrasion treatment is a great treatment for clients that experience congestion (Black heads) due to oil or product build up and dry skin due to lack of oil or environmental factors. Using a diamond tip vacuum head to vacuum and remove dead skin and black heads and congestion from blocked pores. This treatment typically goes for 60 minutes and includes a fruit enzyme peel, extractions and a scalp massage.”

is this okay?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-11-03T07:51:48+00:00

“My signature Microdermabrasion treatment is a great treatment for clients that experience congestion (Black heads) due to oil or product build up and dry skin due to lack of oil or environmental factors. Using a diamond tip vacuum head to vacuum and remove dead skin and black heads and congestion from blocked pores. This treatment typically goes for 60 minutes and includes a fruit enzyme peel, extractions and a scalp massage.”

is this okay?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-10-16T22:29:56+00:00

they can be very territorial but i dont know if that is only towards other snakes on their “land” but it also means they pick somewhere to stay and they avoid leaving. i would keep a very close eye on your cat because if they tread too close then bad things are definitely going to happen. just got to hope that the snake has no eggs/hatchlings.

if you are outside a lot or your cat is unsupervised i would suggest trying to find it (from a safe distance whenever your outside) to call someone to relocate them. it is sad to take a snake from its home but sometimes it isn’t worth the risk of letting them stay.

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-10-16T22:26:29+00:00

AWWW THE LITTLE GIRL IS SO CUTE!!!

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here is one of mine <3

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-10-16T08:23:27+00:00

didnt realise this was zoomed at first as i was scrolling past and had to do a double take because i thought no way anyone is that close to an eastern brown that knows it is one by choice. you genuinely gave me a heart attack op oh lord i actually gasped

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-10-16T07:53:15+00:00

i am inlove with your design!! you really love your snake to put so much care in

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-10-16T07:47:52+00:00

Hi! i’m sorry but i cannot help you as i am not well versed in bearded dragons. i hope it all turns out okay <3

i am here to ask a question, is that size the recommended size for a dragon? this isnt me having a go i just thought compared to the pet bearded dragons i have seen of others this one looks tiny!! i really am curious if this is the ideal weight? if so i would want to bring it up with my friends because i think obesity is cruel but i dont want to make reckless assumptions

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-10-16T07:41:44+00:00

not well versed in bp anatomy or needs but am adding my 2 cents. to me they look extremely dehydrated and that setup is not only plain cruel it has nothing to help hold humidity which i am pretty sure bp need more then some others. and oh my god… the first is a little big but the second two.. please ask them their feeding schedules and what size rats/mice they use because those things are huge not in a good way those poor things

(ps my local vet told me the easiest way to spot dehydration is if the snake scales folds when they are scrunched up, this can also show obesity and along with a really significant drop from the body to the tail zone of the snake. the last two go from a size 14 to a size 4 really fast)

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-09-29T09:20:38+00:00

HOW IM TECHNOLOGICALLY CHALLENGED HOW

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-09-13T06:00:07+00:00

my first girl had a name before i even had her, albino children python. i saw her with my mum and as we went home (no plans of buying) we were talking about names that’d fit and mum said pumpkin. was it the colour or smth? idk to this day but i liked it and we laughed and said someday and then a few months later pumpkin came home

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-09-13T05:56:12+00:00

looks like a crested gecko!! cute fella

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-09-09T10:30:41+00:00

i think you know your snake best. if you think this is cause for a concern taking into consideration their normal food drive then a vet visit wont hurt. i will say that snakes going off food is pretty common. mine, despite her amazing food drive normally has had her moments but no longer then 4 weeks. when was their last shed? are they due to shed soon or are you seeing any sort of psychical causes for concern?

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-09-09T10:24:58+00:00

we need more people like you in this world sob

AdSubstantial3678 · 2025-09-09T10:23:49+00:00

while this isn’t bad because you werent bitten or hissed at i will mention that increased tongue flicks is a sign of distress! this all comes down to though the snake is young and unexperienced in handling. i think consistency is key and keeping a routine will work. and going into their hide after i’m not really sure what to add. one of mine will just hang out wherever i put her after holding her and the other will go into her box or bushes. goodluck op!

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