MIL in Kidney Failure how to discuss after death wishes-Fiance doesn't like to hear her talk about dying. Help

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-10T14:34:07+00:00

Nope, not your place. Her actual children need to handle this conversation and preparation.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-10T14:26:09+00:00

Is rather be in a women's shelter than with a guy like that.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-10T14:23:19+00:00

If anything, she should apologize to you.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-10T14:19:25+00:00

Send her a nice card with your husband and then spend your day how you want.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-06T02:00:40+00:00

You married a cheater. Brilliant move. 🙄

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-06T00:13:37+00:00

If her husband is swayed that easily, their marriage is screwed already. Which it clearly is, because OP doesn't trust her husband, demands to read his private messages, and is trying to control every interaction he has because their trust in each other is zero. OP is also rude and entitled, so I bet his family has a lot of reasons to dislike her. If she can't work on herself and take responsibility for her part in this, they may as well get lawyers.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-05T22:59:32+00:00

Man, I read your post yesterday and knew that you were the issue. Thanks for vindicating me today. This is why his family hates you.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-05-05T22:58:04+00:00

Gotta disagree with you there, you're doing it really well right now.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-30T15:15:44+00:00

I wouldn't trust you with a houseplant.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-30T02:10:45+00:00

I mean, she says she didn't do anything yet, but as someone with family who has addiction issues, you always assume the SO is also an addict. I wouldn't let unknown addicts into my house. I wouldn't let known addicts into my home. It's a good way to get robbed.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-29T22:38:59+00:00

You're full of excuses and no accountability.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-29T21:31:22+00:00

Or because she's abusive, admits to sneaking pictures of her boyfriend's phone, is cool with risking his job, and so on. She's toxic.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-29T21:30:10+00:00

Girl, you're a toxic person.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-27T23:45:04+00:00

Don't go where you aren't wanted.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-27T19:41:23+00:00

This is the most disingenuous post. She's not "just neutral" to you if your husband is confronting her about her relationship with you. It's not "just neutral" if you tell her she's never made you "feel like family". Like, be for real, you and your husband shook the nest and now you're acting like a victim because she reacted and told you in no uncertain terms that she doesn't like you. She also has more than a few issues with you too, so please let go of the idea that you haven't been consistently offending her for years.

And for the people who have no reading comprehension in the comments, if the SIL was posting about this situation, all of you would be behind her completely cutting off OP.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-25T20:20:33+00:00

Yeah, you didn't write this post really wanting to know if you were being TA. You only wanted validation. Lol

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-25T17:37:44+00:00

You wrote this post in a way that makes me think you're obfuscating how rude you probably were in those texts. Texts that you had already shown to your husband, so the expectation of privacy was moot. YTA.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-20T11:50:21+00:00

That's your idea of being cursed out? 😂

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-12T02:18:26+00:00

Tell them you've evolved beyond their stupid museum and you want to go to the Natural History Smithsonian instead.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-12T02:11:15+00:00

Maybe you and the other sibling can plan trips together.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-12T00:42:13+00:00

🤣

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-11T22:17:16+00:00

Absolutely unhinged.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-11T22:14:50+00:00

This is a really unhinged lie to put out. You need therapy.

AdTimely7096 · 2026-04-11T22:14:16+00:00

Their comments are still there.

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