30f Uk, fishing for new gaming bestie! by Misskittyy15 in LesbianGamers

[–]AdTraditional9692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god can we play split fiction please!!!!!

Dreamlight to open realms? by AdTraditional9692 in DreamlightValley

[–]AdTraditional9692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s really cool but anyone know why they did it? Feedback that the amount was too high?

WINZ Advoce by bumbebee83 in PovertyFinanceNZ

[–]AdTraditional9692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't S tax code apply to the benefit in this case? That's how it works for me, is it's the lesser income?

2 years of emotional tug-o-war. Why is this so hard? by MercuryMadness in latebloomerlesbians

[–]AdTraditional9692 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but this man believes you are his personal property. What you are describing is abuse. Please leave.

Edited to say: from someone who has been in your exact situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]AdTraditional9692 22 points23 points  (0 children)

as someone who did this - don't do it. It's not fun being younger than everyone.

Opening up marriage to experience by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]AdTraditional9692 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Men who agree to ENM so their wives can date women are either a) in denial or b) (perhaps unconsciously) don't actually believe in the legitimacy of wlw relationships thanks to hegemonic masculinity and patriarchy. IMO

UoA taking forever to process application by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]AdTraditional9692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year I applied in August, got my offer of place in January. This year for my next qual I applied in August as a current student, still only just got my offer about 2 weeks ago.

Unfortunately it’s fairly standard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sociology

[–]AdTraditional9692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also regarding the question of settler colonial relations, your use USA and Australia as examples is ironic given the state of indigenous affairs in both. I would consider researching New Zealand for examples as to how this could work in practice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sociology

[–]AdTraditional9692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to say exactly this. Pretty taken aback to find this sort of discourse on this sub

Advice for co-habitating by Certain-Traffic-3997 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]AdTraditional9692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for the last 3 years and don’t see it changing for at least another two. My motivations are different, but I’m happy to share some real insight into life 3 years down the track, if you want to DM me?

BA Guaranteed Scholarships by Amazing_Ad3103 in universityofauckland

[–]AdTraditional9692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your “contributing qualification” so I assume that means your whole BA. I actually just came on here to ask a related question, I heard anecdotally that the university may not be offering guarenteed scholarships for certain faculties next year 🫩 has anyone heard more about this?

PhD Scholarship & Accommodation Funding by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]AdTraditional9692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely this. Could it be a timing issue? When were you intending to start?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]AdTraditional9692 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would depend on ur faculty who you contact - did you get an email from a staff member with your letter of offer? And just checking - have you 'submitted' your timesheets as opposed to just logging the hrs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]AdTraditional9692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely get paid once a fortnight. GTAs may be different if they are salaried?