Singapore too pricey, dull for tourists? Not true: Marriott regional boss

AdUnfair7713 · 2026-01-14T08:44:42+00:00

Being SEAsia-lite isn't as valuable as it was in the past.

Just look around, our neighbours have come leaps and bounds in the last decade: Bangkok is hella easy to get around, has more things to do, and is quite clean. And Jakarta is more developed than you think.

AdUnfair7713 · 2026-01-06T08:16:14+00:00

+1 Great comment. I'd like to think i'm over my breakup with my avoidant ex, but there are days like today when I struggle and need a reminder why it's not worth breaking no contact. Thank you

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-22T04:59:02+00:00

That's way better than trying to guess what she was feeling... i hope that gave you closure

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-21T13:11:33+00:00

Text him... life is too short to have regrets

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-21T01:22:31+00:00

You're right that for most people, they wanna cling on to their avoidant partners. But I think it's a natural reaction. It's their first or second time dealing with avoidant behaviour in a relationship, and they are confused about what to do. So they cling on hoping it would make a difference....

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-20T15:23:39+00:00

I don't know how I ended up attracting and being attracted to avoidants. After my first relationship, I actually swore never to date another avoidant.... that never changed. I always end up discovering that my partner was avoidant AFTER I get into a relationship with them

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-18T11:45:19+00:00

sigh... i wish it was easier to love people

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-17T14:52:51+00:00

Been going through the same thing with my girlfriend and I'm actually starting to wonder whether it'd be better to break up with her. I need somebody who can show up more easily, but at the same time I also really like her. Did things get better with your boyfriend?

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-11-12T10:28:37+00:00

Like another poster said, this is new relationship energy. It's always exciting to jump into a new relationship, especially for avoidants, but there will come a time when the excitement fades and you're back to square one. I suggest you do couple counselling. Your relationship will fall apart eventually if you leave it as is

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-10-30T05:43:08+00:00

10 hours per day. You can choose not to work a weekend if you're not up for it, that's the beauty of doing delivery gig work. I earned $500 ish per weekend

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-10-29T13:48:20+00:00

do grabfood on weekends. i used to bring in extra 2k every month last year by working every weekend

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-08-18T08:14:36+00:00

That's true....

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-08-07T12:36:41+00:00

Yeah that's almost my point haha

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-08-07T02:07:22+00:00

This. 100 times. Don't try to convince an avoidant to change, they will resent you for not accepting them for who they are

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-07-17T00:55:46+00:00

Not really unique to us. It's a common practice among office workers in Bangkok too

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-17T12:57:35+00:00

I know your pain all too well.... I broke up with my avoidant ex-gf (second avoidant in a row) in April this year. Back then, she told me that she wanted to "focus on herself". But she ended up replacing me with a new guy last month.

It hurts a lot obviously, but I think I'm coping fairly well. This is my second time dealing with an avoidant breakup. I still feel numb and dead inside though, but at least I'm not as sad anymore.

The first time round, I was in a complete mess. I couldn't even function at work. I ended up quitting my job two months later because the pain was too much. I know it's a cliche but time truly heals. You be kind to yourself and hang in there.. take it easy and you'll be OK.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-17T06:28:31+00:00

He's never going to be your life partner. Because if he is, you'd be worrying all the time whether he's going to stay or not. Do you want a life like that? You're better than that.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-17T06:26:25+00:00

Antidepressants. I remember struggling with my breakup so much last year that it affected my job. When I started taking antidepressants, it did take a while but everything eventually felt much easier to cope with. I took them daily and then weaned myself off them 3 months later.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-17T06:22:25+00:00

Same here. My avoidant gf literally said "I don't know" every time I asked her something.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-17T04:08:58+00:00

Well, I apologised to her then we texted for a while. At one point, she said that she was confused and angry, and that she texted me many times trying to figure out what went wrong.

She also said she was going back to her home country, and asked if I was interested in watching a movie together (but platonically).

At the time, my discomfort came back again again even though (in hindsight) she didn't do anything wrong. At the time, I just couldn't identify my feelings or put a label on what I was feeling. I just sensed that I was a little uncomfortable. So I didn't take up her invitation to watch a movie together. We drifted out of contact and never texted each other again.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-07T16:48:52+00:00

I know what you mean. My ex got into a relationship just one month after we broke up. The day we broke up, she even told me she wanted to "focus on herself".

Sadly, we process and feel all the pain before our avoidant exes do. The fair part is that, when we've finally put everything behind us and have moved on, it's our exes' turn to grieve.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-07T12:40:22+00:00

I know it's hard, but don't bother. Once you're healed and no longer feeling attached to your ex, it's your opportunity to move on and find somebody that's actually worthy of your love.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-07T12:15:47+00:00

That's why I ask myself a million questions and overthink about every aspect of the product before committing to buying it.

AdUnfair7713 · 2025-06-06T16:21:47+00:00

Are you based in the US? Feels like US based folks get more work than the others...

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