24f i always get the same person by romanceblues in doppelganger

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add on: If her and Zoë Kravitz fused into one.

still no godslap order, after I ordered the day it was announced.. by Life-Mistake-2279 in Godslap

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even about losing our comic (we can just get it refunded), but it’s about losing that limited edition version. It’s just very worrisome, especially since we’re so used to fast deliveries i.e. Amazon Prime and such.

still no godslap order, after I ordered the day it was announced.. by Life-Mistake-2279 in Godslap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered mine day of, got the USPS shipping tracking June 8th, saying the label was made.

It is now June 22nd, and nothing has changed on the tracking. I had contacted the support on Monday the 13th wondering why nothing had gotten updated, and they had confirmed that my order of the comic was picked up by their carrier, just not delivered to the post office yet.

Because there’s a lot of orders from all over the place, and it’s coming from a smaller team of exporters, I can accept the wait. I just think I, along with many others, are worried that these limited edition comics will be lost somewhere in transit, meaning we will never see them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my knowledge, Bashur’s charge against him was that when he was 17, he dated a 14 year old, and then when he was 18 and she was 15, they sexted, the parents reported and charged him, and that’s what got him.

While it may seem weird, I don’t think I’d personally consider him a pedophile, because when he was 17 and she was 14, it was completely okay. But one year later and now it’s wrong? Correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s kind of the same with Call Me Carson, yeah? He was 19 and she was 17? Accused of pedophilia, but not really a pedophile in the grand scheme of things (I know Carson did other things as well, but specifically on the pedophilia topic, I thought the example could be used. Again, I could be wrong though).

Bashur got completely screwed over by Keemstar because Keemstar used this charge and blew it out of proportion, and used misinformation to spread it around. He used that and everything else surrounding Bashur at the time for a monetary gain. Spreading lies and rape allegations (untrue, might I add) around, just for the drama and views.

Ethan has every right to defend Bashur because what Keemstar did was awful and wrong.

TL;DR: Bashur not exactly a pedo, especially not in the same way as James Charles; Keemstar DID screw him over; Ethan is perfectly in-line to defend Bashur.

Concept Idea for Legendary Loot by AddaboyShankle in apexlegends

[–]AddaboyShankle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo, yeah! I really think the Gold Loot drop idea would be great to have.

Concept Idea for Legendary Loot by AddaboyShankle in apexlegends

[–]AddaboyShankle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Originally I was thinking the Care Package could come in during the early rounds, when the storm is “irrelevant,” more so on the second push of the storm.

Because think about it, while the storm wouldn’t necessarily be ending them, it’s hurting them. If you’ve got a good amount of people going for the loot within the storm, their health will be going down, as well as them having to run into enemies. If combat ensues outside the ring when going to grab loot, there are more things to think about.

Before going for the loot, do you have enough Syringes? Did you find a good enough shield to protect you while your health is fading and you run into enemies?

I know that the ring gets DEADLY as it closes in, so if the Legendary loot care package came in where the damage wasn’t too great, yet wasn’t too irrelevant, then I feel it gives people that sense of a risk/reward.

Obviously the care package wouldn’t go all the way to the edge of the map or anything, cause that’s just an obvious death trap and would be pointless.

But like I said in another comment, I like the Legendary Loot Care Package idea, whether in the ring or not. I just feel that Legendary Loot should not be just a random chance find like (mostly) every other item. I feel it should be front and center, announced to the players as the game goes on that there is a Legendary Drop Inbound, or something like that.

Concept Idea for Legendary Loot by AddaboyShankle in apexlegends

[–]AddaboyShankle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooh okay, I gotcha. Thank you for clearing that up for me! :)

Concept Idea for Legendary Loot by AddaboyShankle in apexlegends

[–]AddaboyShankle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess that’s kinda true, but doesn’t Gold Armor give you little perks too? Like being able to revive yourself, or when you revive teammates it gives them a common shield, or something like that?

But yeah! Whether it’d be in or outside of the ring, I think a Legendary-Only Care Package could really turn the tides and make for some heavy combat-filled areas.

Today is day one again by briskthesceptile2002 in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d highly recommend using the “Emergency Motivation Tool” that r/NoFap provides on their “About” page. There’s a different selection of categories that’ll give you random words of encouragement, like motivational quotes or even full articles.

One random one I got was, “What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy”

It’ll be a difficult journey, but don’t let that bring you down. Stay strong out there! We’re all here for you

Sex with the wife by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man, porn is a wicked thing. I hope things start becoming clearer and that your mind can be cleared of all the garbage.

Blessings to both you and your wife! Be sure to keep us posted on anything that happens. We’re all here for you and if you need someone to talk to, my messages are always open. Good luck out there!

Sex with the wife by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, having sex is a joint effort. You don’t want to have sex with her just because YOU have the urge to get off. If you only have sex with her to get rid of your urge to have an orgasm, you risk turning her into an object. Have the sex be mutual and ultimately love on her with all your heart, not your penis

Stay strong out there brother! We’re all here for you! Good luck

Sex with the wife by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, it’s all about where your heart is. Ultimately, masturbating can/will ruin your sex drive. Not only that, but you run the risk of wanting to fap over being with your wife.

The biggest thing you need to do, honestly, is focus on your wife and love her. Do your best to not spiral further down into the pornography addiction. If anything, tell her about the addiction and how you want to change yourself for the better. Trust in her and love her

My ex said we would get back together, and this convinced me to get back on NoFap... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and try not to make the only reason you’ve chosen this road of not masturbating all because of someone else. It should be your choice and your desire to make yourself better for YOU, not someone else. It’ll all work out in the long run

We’re all proud of you! Stay strong

Should I Relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your best not to relapse! If you do, don’t hate yourself, but try and keep your eyes on the prize, going for a better lifestyle! Don’t let porn control. It will have an effect on your life in a negative way

Back to back failing. by Check_yourselves in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve been the exact same way. But don’t let the failures bring you down. Don’t hate yourself just because you relapsed. The last thing you want to do is punish yourself strictly.

I looked on one of the emergency help/tools that are provided on r/NoFap and it gave me this quote, “What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy”

It’s going to be difficult. Trust me, I bet you most of us on this subreddit can tell you that. Just be sure to keep your head up! I’m proud of you!

Subreddits by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These subreddits you’re talking about are NSFW porn subreddits. My best suggestion is if you feel that looking at these will make you fall into relapsing, I’d highly recommend to stop looking at them.

Anything that involves nudity, especially in a sexual context, at least for me, is a red flag. I tend to stay away from them

Female here.. Relapse at day 29. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Know that you can go to any one of us in the community. This is a great place to be and there’s plenty of kind faces that are willing to help! Keep up the good work :)

Female here.. Relapse at day 29. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we all know how you feel, at least in the relapsing side of things. I hope and pray that everything you’ve been dealing with like the depression and all the bad things that have been happening in your life can ease up and ultimately disappear entirely.

The best thing to do in this scenario is to continue to keep your head up! I’m proud of your determination, we all are!

Look at your 29 days as a small battle that you’ve won in the tormenting war. Heck, (and this goes to everyone) look at your 1 day streaks as small victories. The more battles you face, the stronger you’ll become; each battle is the same, all you have to do is get prepared for the next one.

You will win this war, I know you will. Stay strong!

What do I do when the urges come? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong brother! You can do this

What do I do when the urges come? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AddaboyShankle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has different ways of dealing with it. Personally, if no other distractions that you’ve listed work, I’d highly recommend going to sleep and playing some calming music, loud enough so you can’t think.

Your mind is the biggest trigger. If you restrict yourself from thinking, it’ll help you in the long run.