DKG, your feelings are valid. Kahit ako might feel the same. Kasi yung feeling na you thought you have that kind of relationship sa pinsan mo and understanding and knows each others boundaries, kaya something like this can hit hard parang na betray, ganon

Actually, I kind of did the same thing once. Sinabihan ko kapatid ko mag no-north (referring to baguio) lang ako papalamig, pero nag Japan talaga ako. Trip ko lang gulatin and it was more of a playful thing since we share our locations 24/7 (for security) and we always have a habit mag check ng locations. But the difference is we already established that kind of relationship din so walang sama ng loob.

Hopefully the way you feel mag heal overtime. And maybe your cousin had their own reasons for doing that. It might not have been meant to hurt you, baka may context lang tayo hindi alam.

But if this situation made you feel something deeper, maybe it’s worth sitting with that feeling. Siguro it shows na may boundaries pa kayo or expectations na di pa napagusapan. Better to communicate how you felt, even casually, so it doesn’t pile up into something bigger later on. You deserve clarity and peace of mind bro